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I am the descendant of the Africans who long to know themselves: Although the days of glory may appear to be over, the spiritual heritage is everlasting. I know with all my heart----It Doesn't Have To Be A Struggle! I am an African American man who has discovered the four basic areas that create stress and imbalance for people of color: our relationship with ourselves, our relationship with the world, our relationship with each other and our relationship with money. These are analysis which I choose to use throughout the New Year (2011) to make changes to becoming the very best me that I can be. I share this with you in hope that it will assist you also. May the Ancestors bless you with a clear mind, a peace-filled heart and a powerful African spirit.I'm sincere, hard-working, active and independent. I like hanging out with close friends as much as making new ones. I love to travel to places I haven't been to and returning to places that I really love. I have a good sense of humor, am a good story-teller and love to tell jokes. I love being active at outdoor activities when weather permits and also like indoor sports during the winter. I'm competitive, but a graceful loser. I like cooking and having friends over for dinner. I enjoy reading, going to the movies and playing board games. I'm generous with both my time and energy and like to volunteer. I've had a few boyfriends, but am really looking for someone to share the rest of my life with.

I am an attractive, athletically built, educated man looking to date someone with the hopes of embarking upon a committed relationship. I enjoy going to the movies, playing sports, watching sports, going to plays, concerts, etc. I don't drink or do drugs. However, I don't mind my partner drinking but I cannot tolerate drugs. I am a workaholic during the week but love to hit the road on the weekends. It is nothing for me to book a weekend trip and return early Monday morning to begin the work week.

love moves in mysterious ways...we never know where to find it nor how to get it...it will come on the right time at the right place and moment. its hard to say my ideal man because realistically,it doesnt come in one package. we dont have to look for perfect man but accept him for what he is now and not for his potential or you want him to be. im very adventurous, easy going,hopeless romantic and gentle soul...

I believe in monogamy and good sex with ONE partner. I am looking for LTR. I am not looking for perfection, just a willingness to share and grow together. I take good care of myself both physically and spiritually, but would not consider myself vain or rigid in my beliefs. I am not a movie star or a saint, and do not expect you to be ether.

Hi I am a hard working guy who enjoys life, travel, and I am a foody. I am a cuddler,very romantic, with a big heart. I enjoy quite dinners at home or out, entertaining friends and family. Open to trying new things or go to new places. Hoping to find a man who is a good commuitcator, I enjoy picincs sunsets and watching the snow fall. I am the type of guy that beleaves in his partner is also his best friend.

Lifes journey has hills and valleys that are filled with glorious sites to see, come take my hand share and travel it with me.........:))

I enjoy home and friends. I value common sense and responsibility in a person. Still searching for someone that wants a comfortable life with a loving guy. Weekend trips here and there. Long walks, talking and being there for each other. I am a shorter guy, but I have a lot of love to give. My ideal match is a guy that would rather stay home than go to the club. He would like a stable home life, home cooked meals and having friends and family over. Nights looking at the stars while driving through the countryside. Sitting around the campfire. He would be mature and sure of himself. Enjoy the security of a home life with someone special. He would want a committed relationship. He would like being taken care of from time to time but would also be able to take care of himself. I enjoy closeness but also think it's necessary to have space and interests outside the relationship. I have an adult sense of humor but can be restrained if necessary. I'm not really into sports, especially on TV. I'm interested in masculine guys, not feminine or over the top "flaming" . There are a few things that get my immediate attention to a guy, great smile and suffice it to say I'm a leg man. Like all types of guys, although Latino guys seem to grab my attention. men with black hair drives me wild for some reason. Cleanliness and hygiene are important too. Not interested in dating my father so please nobody over 52 unless you are an exceptional specimen. A great first date would be to have a nice meal or just a beverage together, go for a walk and talk, maybe hold hands, just get to know each other. The ideal second date would be the same with maybe a movie at home and cuddling together. You should have focus and goals in your life. We all have a past, some of which may have not been so great. But excessive baggage and constant reminders of your past troubles is a turnoff. Sharing a little pain is helpful. Focusing on it all the time is counterproductive.