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Long, deep, passionate and muscular kisses. I want to find the one, the one for now and the one forever.--If you say you want to meet, I hope you would immediately: Introduce yourself, give day & time to meet, precise address and location to meet, phone number and name; write "I'm Joe, let's meet at 1234 Main Street, Apt 345, third floor, fifth door on the right, my number is (123) 123-1234 in case you get lost." No details = Not real; especially if you first express a desire to meet. --------Will my desire for human connection turn you away; will you see it as desperation or a true sense of what we all desire. Should I be coy and let opportunities for connections be lost in taking it slow or shall I dive into the deep end - heart first... ------------- Words of encouragement: We are our own worst critics and that is normal, it will pass as you realize that being positive is not the sum total of your life and contributions to society. Realize that you are more that the disease, just as you are more than the color of your skin, you are more than the car you drive, the job you have, the house you live in; you are more than anyone could ever imagine because you are an amazingly intricate creation. Family and friends love us enough to let use make a mistake or two. But remember that of all that has been created humans have the greatest capacity to fulfill the creator's vision. We grow from our errors and help others to grow also. Yes, there will be a feeling of devastation, loneliness, and despair, but continue to live life and there will also be feelings of love, worthiness, respect and humanity. Please do not let being HIV+, or a poor job evaluation, or a fender bender, or burning a piece of toast take over your life and become the sum total of who you are; consider those born with severe birth defects, those with diabetes, those with mental disorders - what is it that allows them to live full lives - I will tell you that it is a force that is unimaginable and more powerful than our minds can fathom - and yes the human mind is one of, if not the strongest forces known to humanity, yet there is something greater. That greater being allows us to live full lives regardless of our minor flaws. The important thing is that we honor the life given to us and help others to do the same. Do not let one minor error control the majority of your life, you and the totality of your life are far more important than what has happened in a moment in time. Take this lesson, learn from it, educate others, be a witness to the greatness of the humanity in all of us. Yes, be hard on yourself, let that emotion run its course, then rejoice in the rest of your life and show others what it means to have the ultimate gift of humanity.