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Post Posted: 2020-02-13 15:59:46  
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This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.



 
Post Posted: 2020-02-13 18:52:06  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.

NO OFFENSE YOUR SEXUALITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TAKING CARE

OFYOUR FAMILY AND LEADING A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND YOU CAN HAVE KIDS

IF YOU WANT TO

BUT I THINK YOU MEAN BEING GAY AND LETTING THEM DOWN

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR CHOICE

TILL THIS DAY I ASK WHY AM I LIKE THIS WHY AM I BROKEN
 
Post Posted: 2020-02-13 21:50:03  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.

2020-02-13 18:52:06

NO OFFENSE YOUR SEXUALITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TAKING CARE

OFYOUR FAMILY AND LEADING A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND YOU CAN HAVE KIDS

IF YOU WANT TO

BUT I THINK YOU MEAN BEING GAY AND LETTING THEM DOWN

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR CHOICE

TILL THIS DAY I ASK WHY AM I LIKE THIS WHY AM I BROKEN

2020-02-13 20:52:28

Why are you giving advice when you are just as conflicted as him?

HOW US THAT DO TELL
 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 01:24:29  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.

2020-02-13 18:52:06

NO OFFENSE YOUR SEXUALITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TAKING CARE

OFYOUR FAMILY AND LEADING A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND YOU CAN HAVE KIDS

IF YOU WANT TO

BUT I THINK YOU MEAN BEING GAY AND LETTING THEM DOWN

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR CHOICE

TILL THIS DAY I ASK WHY AM I LIKE THIS WHY AM I BROKEN

2020-02-13 20:52:28

Why are you giving advice when you are just as conflicted as him?

2020-02-13 21:50:03

HOW US THAT DO TELL

2020-02-13 22:13:46

You started off being encouraging and ended off saying you're broken because you're gay.

BUT WHAT DID I SAY THAT WAS NOT WHAT PEOPLE NEED THE HERE

JUST BEACUSE YOU DON'T AGREE WITH IT DONT CHANGE IT

ANSWER ME THIS. MY. DUDE WHAT DID I SAY WAS NOT TRUE
 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 01:34:55  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.

2020-02-13 18:52:06

NO OFFENSE YOUR SEXUALITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TAKING CARE

OFYOUR FAMILY AND LEADING A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND YOU CAN HAVE KIDS

IF YOU WANT TO

BUT I THINK YOU MEAN BEING GAY AND LETTING THEM DOWN

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR CHOICE

TILL THIS DAY I ASK WHY AM I LIKE THIS WHY AM I BROKEN

2020-02-13 20:52:28

Why are you giving advice when you are just as conflicted as him?

 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 01:36:18  
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U don't. Let's be honest no one wants to be gay but it is wat it is...Ur parents
will always be disappointed but its ur life.




 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 02:34:46  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.

2020-02-13 18:52:06

NO OFFENSE YOUR SEXUALITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TAKING CARE

OFYOUR FAMILY AND LEADING A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND YOU CAN HAVE KIDS

IF YOU WANT TO

BUT I THINK YOU MEAN BEING GAY AND LETTING THEM DOWN

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR CHOICE

TILL THIS DAY I ASK WHY AM I LIKE THIS WHY AM I BROKEN

2020-02-13 20:52:28

Why are you giving advice when you are just as conflicted as him?

2020-02-13 21:50:03

HOW US THAT DO TELL

2020-02-13 22:13:46

You started off being encouraging and ended off saying you're broken because you're gay.

2020-02-14 01:24:29

BUT WHAT DID I SAY THAT WAS NOT WHAT PEOPLE NEED THE HERE

JUST BEACUSE YOU DON'T AGREE WITH IT DONT CHANGE IT

ANSWER ME THIS. MY. DUDE WHAT DID I SAY WAS NOT TRUE

2020-02-14 02:17:44

If I went to a therapist and they were struggling with the same issues I was, they can't help me. You consider yourself broken, so your words come off as just words.

Wondering if you were straight isn't going to pay your bills or put food on the table. You're young and going through it, but don't project that brokenness on other people.

It is important to have a legacy because when you die, the government will take it if you don't have anybody to leave all you worked hard for to. But gay men bother me wanting to bring more kids into the world only to make their parents happy. That's no different than people who have kids to save a relationship. Have kids because you know you would be a great father and have love to give to a child. Not to give your parents a false fantasy. And definitely don't have kids so you can live vicariously through their straightness like a second chance. It's your life. You have to go home to your man. Not them.

BUT YOUR NOT A THERAPIST AND YOUR WORDS ARE SUBJECTIVE

NAH I DON'T LIKE IT BUT I DO DEAL WITH IT AND PUSH ON AND IM ASUMING

YOU DON'T HAVE KIDS EITHER BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT THEM CAN'T

HAVE THEM OR BECAUSE YOUR GAY DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE THEM


FOR THE VERY REASONS YOU STATED. THATS A PERSONAL CHOICE

MY KID WAS WANTED AND SHE IS LOVED NOT A MISTAKE BUT CREATED OUT

OF. LOVE SO THE GOVERNMENT WILL TAKE WHAT YOU LEFT BEHIND IS THAT WHAT IS GOING TO HAPOEN TO YOU

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT MAY I ASK
 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 02:38:00  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

U don't. Let's be honest no one wants to be gay but it is wat it is...Ur parents
will always be disappointed but its ur life.

KEEP SPITTING THAT TRUTH
 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 10:10:22  
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Tell your parents to give you a copy of their wills. Make sure you are the sole beneficiary. Then forget about them. Change your phone number, address, and contacts, and live your BEST life.

 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 11:39:14  
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2020-02-13 15:59:46

This is due to being homosexual/bi/confused and feeling guilty because u are unable in some way to meet ur parents expectations. Like some parents may expect and demand their kids to provide grandchildren, live a certain way, take care of them when they get old, etc. Some parents tend to put guilt trips on their kids. Im sure some of y'all dealt with not meeting their parents expectations.

How can u deal with the feelings of guilt.

2020-02-13 18:52:06

NO OFFENSE YOUR SEXUALITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TAKING CARE

OFYOUR FAMILY AND LEADING A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND YOU CAN HAVE KIDS

IF YOU WANT TO

BUT I THINK YOU MEAN BEING GAY AND LETTING THEM DOWN

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR CHOICE

TILL THIS DAY I ASK WHY AM I LIKE THIS WHY AM I BROKEN

2020-02-13 20:52:28

Why are you giving advice when you are just as conflicted as him?

2020-02-13 21:50:03

HOW US THAT DO TELL

2020-02-13 22:13:46

You started off being encouraging and ended off saying you're broken because you're gay.

2020-02-14 01:24:29

BUT WHAT DID I SAY THAT WAS NOT WHAT PEOPLE NEED THE HERE

JUST BEACUSE YOU DON'T AGREE WITH IT DONT CHANGE IT

ANSWER ME THIS. MY. DUDE WHAT DID I SAY WAS NOT TRUE

2020-02-14 02:17:44

If I went to a therapist and they were struggling with the same issues I was, they can't help me. You consider yourself broken, so your words come off as just words.

Wondering if you were straight isn't going to pay your bills or put food on the table. You're young and going through it, but don't project that brokenness on other people.

It is important to have a legacy because when you die, the government will take it if you don't have anybody to leave all you worked hard for to. But gay men bother me wanting to bring more kids into the world only to make their parents happy. That's no different than people who have kids to save a relationship. Have kids because you know you would be a great father and have love to give to a child. Not to give your parents a false fantasy. And definitely don't have kids so you can live vicariously through their straightness like a second chance. It's your life. You have to go home to your man. Not them.

2020-02-14 02:34:46

BUT YOUR NOT A THERAPIST AND YOUR WORDS ARE SUBJECTIVE

NAH I DON'T LIKE IT BUT I DO DEAL WITH IT AND PUSH ON AND IM ASUMING

YOU DON'T HAVE KIDS EITHER BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT THEM CAN'T

HAVE THEM OR BECAUSE YOUR GAY DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE THEM


FOR THE VERY REASONS YOU STATED. THATS A PERSONAL CHOICE

MY KID WAS WANTED AND SHE IS LOVED NOT A MISTAKE BUT CREATED OUT

OF. LOVE SO THE GOVERNMENT WILL TAKE WHAT YOU LEFT BEHIND IS THAT WHAT IS GOING TO HAPOEN TO YOU

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT MAY I ASK

2020-02-14 10:21:33

I didn't say I was a therapist and my reply wasn't from an emotional place. Having children to please your parents is dangerous and not fair to your children.

THAT'S NOT A GAY PROBLEM ITS A HUMAN ONE
 
Post Posted: 2020-02-14 13:53:52  
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Accept the fact that it’s not your job to live up to their expectations



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