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It`s important to love a person for what they have inside and not outside.
I have known guys who where ugly or undesirable in grade school and into high school who ended up graduating and growing into their looks and became fine as hell years later....then there where those who where fine as hell in grade school, high school, college, and then life hit them and they became tore the fuck up.

We all age, and some of us age well, and some don`t. Some are chunky and/or fat and then lose the weight and become fine.



But losing weight and having work done does not always make a person happy. They may get more sex, more people lusting after them, but at the end of the day, one has to work hard at maintaining...and most times, it`s not always guaranteed that someone would want you for anything but your body and sex...and that can get played out REAL FAST.



The funny thing about going from Ugly Duckling to Hot To Trot is a lot of body luster`s never realize that Hot To Trot you to be fat and sloppy. But when they see pictures of before, they tend to get repulsed.



Gravity will hit us all at some point and time and even though most people run to the gym to get their youthful bodies back, one can easily tell that the body is still older. The pecs aren`t as perky...the muscle tone is denser, the skin is not as supple and most times not even firm. And what the body shows, the face shows as well, The lines of the look of time around the eyes, the expressions. But a lot of older people or heavy dudes who hit the gym and slim down and build muscle, always think that they can go for the young boys and that they won`t notice their age....but they do and it does show. As we get older and go through life, our expressions change from that Quick to smile youth to that somewhat angry, suspicious look. And those looks come from the loss of loved one`s, the let downs of life, bills, stress etc.



Most people who lose weight and or gets finer by nature at later points in their lives, still holds onto the insecurities of people making fun of them or not wanting them, but then some of them become whorish/promiscuous because of all the attention.



And just because person loses weight, does not always mean they are going to be loved or get what you want. There are some people who like thick or heavier people and there are some who like thinner people, at either rate, there is going to be one group who find you attractive and others who don`t...but the best thing is finding that someone who loves you for what`s on the inside and not on the outside.



Always look for someone who wants to share their lonely heart with your lonely heart....and always remember, just you date them and get into a relationship with them while they are fine, does not mean they`ll always be fine...so find more than his body, and his face to be attracted to, and love him for his gentleness, and the way he treats you...and remember, you won`t always be fine either.

An remember too, if you`re looking to improve your body and the way you look, do it for you and not to have a lot of dates and a lot of fucks because it gets old.





 
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9 days ago

THANK YOU

You're welcomed.
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