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Not love..., I’m single but I can get a man at anytime. If I get married at this point it will be for financial stability for the both of us... love will come out of the successful partnership.

When I say financial stability mean something that will cover health and life insurance, cost of living which primarily includes monthly expenses to run a home together. Anything else will come last. His family can have a medical history of heart disease. I will already have him covered. Or anything that may happen to the both of us health wise.

If he in life support and doctor tell me the condition not gonna get better and I have to make a decision. I will tell the doctor give me some alone time to say goodbye. Funeral cost will be taken care of and everything... I would not mine consider my mother in law or father in law with suggestions because it’s their child as well my husband.

That’s all I look forward to.



 
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*DELUSIONAL GWARL*



*EXITS THREAD FOR GOOD*

 
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*DELUSIONAL GWARL*



*EXITS THREAD FOR GOOD*

I can’t be delusional because I don’t go walking around dressed like a woman
 
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Ch....
You don't deserve any kind of respect for thinking like that....and you said for "us"....Did that nigga tell you he needed financial assistance?....Don't make an "us" situation....It's all about you hoe...

SHAMELESS BITCH.....
 
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Ch....
You don't deserve any kind of respect for thinking like that....and you said for "us"....Did that nigga tell you he needed financial assistance?....Don't make an "us" situation....It's all about you hoe...

SHAMELESS BITCH.....

It is us his finances and mines together equal financial stability people don’t think of the important things...we both have to be covered.
 
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Not love..., I’m single but I can get a man at anytime. If I get married at this point it will be for financial stability for the both of us... love will come out of the successful partnership.

When I say financial stability mean something that will cover health and life insurance, cost of living which primarily includes monthly expenses to run a home together. Anything else will come last. His family can have a medical history of heart disease. I will already have him covered. Or anything that may happen to the both of us health wise.

If he in life support and doctor tell me the condition not gonna get better and I have to make a decision. I will tell the doctor give me some alone time to say goodbye. Funeral cost will be taken care of and everything... I would not mine consider my mother in law or father in law with suggestions because it’s their child as well my husband.

That’s all I look forward to.

I sense an air of comedy with rhis, but it begs the question


Why are so many gay men looking to be kept ?

I work my ass off, save money, moved up tax brackets and got myself out of poverty. I'll be damned if I let some leeching queen come in and reap all of that.



 
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Torch is Jumanie broke? Did he ask you to move in with you? Are you nuts?
 
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I don't see anything wrong with this....
 
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I don't see anything wrong with this....

Thank you, because the stupid fags do... Rolling Eyes
 
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Torch is Jumanie broke? Did he ask you to move in with you? Are you nuts?

No I ain’t nuts you stupid ass hoe. Didn’t your wife divorce your punk ass because of emvrsssment and humiliation. Now she moved on and refused to bury yo ass because.......

 
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You don't have to marry for that!

Plus, how would you find love? You didn't even focus on his romantic needs or what kind of sucker you're gonna pull that'll love easy and commit to this relationship. I believe you can make it happen and I don't think he'd like it. Remember, it takes two to tango but one to nae nae on out the door.




 
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Not love..., I’m single but I can get a man at anytime. If I get married at this point it will be for financial stability for the both of us... love will come out of the successful partnership.

When I say financial stability mean something that will cover health and life insurance, cost of living which primarily includes monthly expenses to run a home together. Anything else will come last. His family can have a medical history of heart disease. I will already have him covered. Or anything that may happen to the both of us health wise.

If he in life support and doctor tell me the condition not gonna get better and I have to make a decision. I will tell the doctor give me some alone time to say goodbye. Funeral cost will be taken care of and everything... I would not mine consider my mother in law or father in law with suggestions because it’s their child as well my husband.

That’s all I look forward to.

4 days ago

I sense an air of comedy with rhis, but it begs the question


Why are so many gay men looking to be kept ?

I work my ass off, save money, moved up tax brackets and got myself out of poverty. I'll be damned if I let some leeching queen come in and reap all of that.

Who said someone will do that?
 
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. . I was readin accounts of arranged marriages and the majority of the stories seem to have had a good outcomes...
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.. . . . those marriages often had only 1 or two meetings between the bride and groom before their marriage.... their unifying factors were all based on education, income, goals for children, and the yearning for stability of a family unit.... there were plenty of falling in love during the union and amiable partners learning to love their spouse, despite not being in love or in like when they first saw each other...
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. . if it works for you... go for it.... don't forget that those who disapprove of your piquant thinking arent there to endure the hardship you have to go thru. .. .

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You don't have to marry for that!

Plus, how would you find love? You didn't even focus on his romantic needs or what kind of sucker you're gonna pull that'll love easy and commit to this relationship. I believe you can make it happen and I don't think he'd like it. Remember, it takes two to tango but one to nae nae on out the door.

I know I have to marry for that....I was just saying....I already sad love come out of a successful partnership. My parents are together because of financial stability. They are not going to divorce and start over. Yes they live together. . All the kinds are grown.. the youngest is 38 years old. I’m sure they love each other after all these years it’s about financial stability
 
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. . .
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. .. .I tink you're onto someting...
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. . I was readin accounts of arranged marriages and the majority of the stories seem to have had a good outcomes...
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.. . . . those marriages often had only 1 or two meetings between the bride and groom before their marriage.... their unifying factors were all based on education, income, goals for children, and the yearning for stability of a family unit.... there were plenty of falling in love during the union and amiable partners learning to love their spouse, despite not being in love or in like when they first saw each other...
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. . if it works for you... go for it.... don't forget that those who disapprove of your piquant thinking arent there to endure the hardship you have to go thru. .. .

Thank you so much❤️
 
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5 days ago

Not love..., I’m single but I can get a man at anytime. If I get married at this point it will be for financial stability for the both of us... love will come out of the successful partnership.

When I say financial stability mean something that will cover health and life insurance, cost of living which primarily includes monthly expenses to run a home together. Anything else will come last. His family can have a medical history of heart disease. I will already have him covered. Or anything that may happen to the both of us health wise.

If he in life support and doctor tell me the condition not gonna get better and I have to make a decision. I will tell the doctor give me some alone time to say goodbye. Funeral cost will be taken care of and everything... I would not mine consider my mother in law or father in law with suggestions because it’s their child as well my husband.

That’s all I look forward to.

4 days ago

I sense an air of comedy with rhis, but it begs the question


Why are so many gay men looking to be kept ?

I work my ass off, save money, moved up tax brackets and got myself out of poverty. I'll be damned if I let some leeching queen come in and reap all of that.

4 days ago

Who said someone will do that?

Alot of gay men have your mentality
 
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Not love..., I’m single but I can get a man at anytime. If I get married at this point it will be for financial stability for the both of us... love will come out of the successful partnership.

When I say financial stability mean something that will cover health and life insurance, cost of living which primarily includes monthly expenses to run a home together. Anything else will come last. His family can have a medical history of heart disease. I will already have him covered. Or anything that may happen to the both of us health wise.

If he in life support and doctor tell me the condition not gonna get better and I have to make a decision. I will tell the doctor give me some alone time to say goodbye. Funeral cost will be taken care of and everything... I would not mine consider my mother in law or father in law with suggestions because it’s their child as well my husband.

That’s all I look forward to.

4 days ago

I sense an air of comedy with rhis, but it begs the question


Why are so many gay men looking to be kept ?

I work my ass off, save money, moved up tax brackets and got myself out of poverty. I'll be damned if I let some leeching queen come in and reap all of that.

4 days ago

Who said someone will do that?

4 days ago

Alot of gay men have your mentality

And what’s wrong with that... is it suppose to be negative? I got my own everything . I’m eduacatrd sexy and single😎. Not a shamed at all .. it’s not about being kept who said your not gonna meet that want sane as you. If you die everything go to the state if it ain’t the next of kin... who said all your kin folks gonna be alive when you die?
 
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.. . . . demanding that your partner is financially stable is no different from demanding your partner be a physically attractive person or a bottom or even Black...
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. . . in fact.. .financial stability is probably the most sensible thing to demand from a potential partner... why? because that's actually someting a person can help (to a certain extent) rather than the other attributes...
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. . . .. . . I'm financially stable because I deliberately studied hard, did what I was supposed to do, day in, day out, without fail, and I've chosen to work 7 days a week and uphold my responsibility. I feel like my money and related situation is a form of representation of who I am--since I wasn't born into money, and it was causative directly by my action...
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. . . now... I was born looking like the way I do... and there isn't much I can change. I can work out, keep a clean image, and wear the most appropriate attires.... that will def help, but it will go only so far, as far as my looks are. I can't help it. I didn't ask for it. It was given to me, without merit or effort. So when a person is here for me (my looks), I don't tink he is interested in who I am as far as my character and action. He's interested in an immutable trait that I did not work for.
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. . . . . so... you gorls reconsider what it means to be attracted to someone, for different ppl, before getting your panties in super bunch....

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5 days ago

I don't see anything wrong with this....

4 days ago

Thank you, because the stupid fags do... Rolling Eyes

I met a guy who said he will marry the cutest guy who won't cheat....


TF I look like judging that man....
 
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I don't see anything wrong with this....

4 days ago

Thank you, because the stupid fags do... Rolling Eyes

They just don't want you to have it....


Nigga synthesis...stop telling them your desires lol.
 
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Torch is Jumanie broke? Did he ask you to move in with you? Are you nuts?

4 days ago

No I ain’t nuts you stupid ass hoe. Didn’t your wife divorce your punk ass because of emvrsssment and humiliation. Now she moved on and refused to bury yo ass because.......

Smile

*FIXED*


@lose-ya-breath - aka: Sam L. Townsend Jr., you've just been cooked.
 
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. . .
.
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.
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.. . . . demanding that your partner is financially stable is no different from demanding your partner be a physically attractive person or a bottom or even Black...
.
.
. . . in fact.. .financial stability is probably the most sensible thing to demand from a potential partner... why? because that's actually someting a person can help (to a certain extent) rather than the other attributes...
.
. . . .. . . I'm financially stable because I deliberately studied hard, did what I was supposed to do, day in, day out, without fail, and I've chosen to work 7 days a week and uphold my responsibility. I feel like my money and related situation is a form of representation of who I am--since I wasn't born into money, and it was causative directly by my action...
.
. . . now... I was born looking like the way I do... and there isn't much I can change. I can work out, keep a clean image, and wear the most appropriate attires.... that will def help, but it will go only so far, as far as my looks are. I can't help it. I didn't ask for it. It was given to me, without merit or effort. So when a person is here for me (my looks), I don't tink he is interested in who I am as far as my character and action. He's interested in an immutable trait that I did not work for.
.
. . . . . so... you gorls reconsider what it means to be attracted to someone, for different ppl, before getting your panties in super bunch....

The looks goes away after a while...it gets old and reality start to kick in ... good looks will not help it maintain
 
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5 days ago

Torch is Jumanie broke? Did he ask you to move in with you? Are you nuts?

4 days ago

No I ain’t nuts you stupid ass hoe. Didn’t your wife divorce your punk ass because of emvrsssment and humiliation. Now she moved on and refused to bury yo ass because.......

4 days ago

Smile

*FIXED*


@lose-ya-breath - aka: Sam L. Townsend Jr., you've just been cooked.

i had the get that B!tch Laughing
 
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Torch is Jumanie broke? Did he ask you to move in with you? Are you nuts?

4 days ago

No I ain’t nuts you stupid ass hoe. Didn’t your wife divorce your punk ass because of emvrsssment and humiliation. Now she moved on and refused to bury yo ass because.......

4 days ago

Smile

*FIXED*


@lose-ya-breath - aka: Sam L. Townsend Jr., you've just been cooked.

I had to get that B!tch Laughing
 
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. . .
.
.
.
.
. .. .I tink you're onto someting...
.
.
. . I was readin accounts of arranged marriages and the majority of the stories seem to have had a good outcomes...
.
.
.. . . . those marriages often had only 1 or two meetings between the bride and groom before their marriage.... their unifying factors were all based on education, income, goals for children, and the yearning for stability of a family unit.... there were plenty of falling in love during the union and amiable partners learning to love their spouse, despite not being in love or in like when they first saw each other...
.
.
. . if it works for you... go for it.... don't forget that those who disapprove of your piquant thinking arent there to endure the hardship you have to go thru. .. .

Well said....I don't find anything wrong with OP said either...as long as he is willing to work and help with the couple's financial status/security.

It would be one thing if he asking for a sugar daddy and for someone to support him while he staying at home all day doing nothing.

Finances are the #1 reason why couples/marriages break up. U gotta place prime import on finances, type of desired lifestyle, credit, debt management, and income. If a couple cant agree on this...then they should reconsider marriage and remaining a couple.
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