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Dear Diary,

Most of my friends are straight men and women. I think it's because alot of gays I meet tend to almost be as low class as some of the ratchets in these forums. Out of everyone I think I have had 2 gay besties my whole life. Everyone else is proven fodder. I form better relationships when jealousy, ego, and competition are not involved. But by being the friend of a straight person sometimes places you in a specific role, such as the "wing man".

It's an easy enough trade off, when my straight friends bring me to the club, buy me drinks and send me off to collect pussies or start convos with pretty girls. The same is true for straight women, more than often I find myself as either the advice giver... or the destroyer if he cheats or something bad goes down and she needs a man to defend her.

Where did all this come from? Well in my second book, my non-fiction novel, I wrote alot about homosexual empowerment and defenses against homophobia. I discovered the Native American term, "Two- Spirited".

Before the arrival of the pilgrims, most Native American tribes clung to the idea of three to four genders: Masculine man, feminine man, masculine woman and feminine woman. For cultures such as the, Zuni, it did not matter which biological sex a child was born because the decision of gender identity was made by that person around the age of puberty. Depending on who you asked, early homosexuals were considered “Two-Spirited”, “Lhamana”,or “Berdache” and had mixed gender roles. Common practices of the Lhamana included cross dressing and domestic tasks.

Two-Spirit peoples were respected and considered valuable to society. Often healers, spiritual guides, match-makers, fortunetellers and artists, the Lhamana severed as sources of intelligence and style. They were thought to be a complete human, as they possessed attributes from both sexes. This was because they doubled the work of female assigned tasks such as millwork, and quilting but also performed male duties when warriors went off to battle such as hunting, building and protecting the village. Two-spirits were people regarded with respect, however, were never immune to the law and, like all medicine men, were sometimes accused of witchcraft and killed when the tribe suffered great misfortunes.

Interesting huh? Its funny to see how that relates to us to do. What do you think? Would you consider yourself two-spirited?
Are you a good wing man? Do you have a good wing man?





 
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Anytime. ^_-
 
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Huh?
 
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I think I am "two-spirited" I can be hyper masculine at times, usually when I'm excited; and when I'm in a pissy mood I can be quite feminine. However I'm only a good wing man to females I can get any if my lady friends a dance and conversation In the club easy, but whenever​ I try to pull a girl for a guy she just tries to talk to me. Maybe I'm not as gay as I thought



 
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I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.
 
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I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

What'd I do now?

 
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I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

Shocked



 
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I think I am "two-spirited" I can be hyper masculine at times, usually when I'm excited; and when I'm in a pissy mood I can be quite feminine. However I'm only a good wing man to females I can get any if my lady friends a dance and conversation In the club easy, but whenever​ I try to pull a girl for a guy she just tries to talk to me. Maybe I'm not as gay as I thought

Nah, you're right where you need to be.
 
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I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

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Shocked

**shrugs**
 
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I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

7 days ago

Shocked

**shrugs**
 
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I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

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Shocked

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**shrugs**

*stretches arm and grabs michael kors*
 
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@obsidian__ i want thumprrr to officiate our wedding

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7 days ago

I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

7 days ago

Shocked

7 days ago

**shrugs**

7 days ago

*stretches arm and grabs michael kors*

Im trying to make u happy but u wanna whoop my ass.
See this is the fuck shit i be talkin about.

😐
 
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@obsidian__ i want thumprrr to officiate our wedding

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Neutral

7 days ago

I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

7 days ago

Shocked

7 days ago

**shrugs**

7 days ago

*stretches arm and grabs michael kors*

7 days ago

Im trying to make u happy but u wanna whoop my ass.
See this is the fuck shit i be talkin about.

😐

the producers of maury just called to confirm our guest spot on next week's episode "my wife beats me"

and if you say one smart word to me on that stage or embarrass me on national television you REALLY gone get it Confused
 
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@obsidian__ i want thumprrr to officiate our wedding

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7 days ago

I dont really fuck with dude.

But if thatll make u happy. Then thats what itll be.

7 days ago

Shocked

7 days ago

**shrugs**

7 days ago

*stretches arm and grabs michael kors*

7 days ago

Im trying to make u happy but u wanna whoop my ass.
See this is the fuck shit i be talkin about.

😐

7 days ago

the producers of maury just called to confirm our guest spot on next week's episode "my wife beats me"

and if you say one smart word to me on that stage or embarrass me on national television you REALLY gone get it Confused

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The first couple I actually hooked up are now married. ^_^
 
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I definitely am.....

Yet i dont think ive ever had a good wingman ...silent laugh
 
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I definitely am.....

Yet i dont think ive ever had a good wingman ...silent laugh

Did you ever need one?

 
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I definitely am.....

Yet i dont think ive ever had a good wingman ...silent laugh

2 days ago

Did you ever need one?

Nope
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