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Written by a friend I met at a Black Gay Party:

I put a lot of faith in parties with predominantly Black gay men.

For me, casual gatherings of Black gay men mean so much more than Sunday Fundays and brunches. I am constantly concerned about the state of Black gay men, and our ability to be in community. The dominant culture portrays us as incapable of intentional loving relationships, and as a result, we internalize the beliefs that are we inherently toxic. So I worry about how we might recover when we do in fact let each other down.

I am at super bowl party with my roommate. I am already guilty of being shady myself, because the party is at a mansion and I immediately assume that someone is trying "to stunt." I feel bad for thinking this way.

The mansion door is nestled behind a slim gate and you have to climb a narrow staircase to reach it. We are greeted by one of the hosts, a friend of my roommate. He is handsome, wearing an entirely bubblegum pink jogging suit and an entirely white smile. He directs us to the main area, which is accessible through a narrow kitchen.

And I mean narrow. The kitchen must've once been a hallway, and I cannot imagine for the life of me why someone would build a kitchen this way. It's narrowness forces us to be in close proximity with one another, and it allows the kitchen to function as a runway reveal.

I feel eyes sizing me up as I walk through the narrow kitchen, and I look too. I have more than a little social anxiety, and am equal parts conceited and self-conscious. Who seems friendly enough to talk to? Whose body is better than mine? (Cause I've been making some recent desperate attempts at the gym and though not-quite Instagram ready yet, I am wearing a tight-fitting shirt and for all intents and purposes you “cain’t tell me nothin’.”

The inhabitants of the kitchen are quiet--awkwardly quiet. I muster up the courage to throw out a few half-hearted, but cheerful “hellos” before I realize that none of us present are really equipped to carry conversation with strangers. In my life I have met and admire the people who can walk into a room and unabashedly converse with everyone there. I am not one of those people. I detest small talk. I overthink. I would rather talk about our deepest fears, vulnerabilities, and what resistance looks like in the context of neoliberalism. This is not necessarily a good pretext for party conversation.

Feeling like a failure, I manage a few chicken wings onto a paper plate and pour myself a drink before escaping into the TV room. There is a big screen nested into one wall and a couch opposite it. The furniture and walls are predominantly white with a splash of bold accent pieces. What’s even more colorful are the gays watching the superbowl. They are a lot more talkative and a tad bit more drunk.

I suddenly realize the whole moment is a bit absurd. I listen to a few conversations and it is clear that no one here actually watches football. A few of us are here for the halftime show with Lady Gaga, but we all know that she is mostly a white gay icon so that is not really the reason either. Nevertheless, I enjoy the company. It is a very attractive group, and I am astounded and take pride in the extent to which Black gay men adorn themselves.

There are the usual characters. The one who is very loud and unfunny. The one who is loud and actually funny. The one who performs “trade” but you suspect is more butch queen. The really quick-witted cunty one (whose sharp tongue likely comes from fighting battles all their life). The one who is already drunk as hell. The really nice hospitable one. The really stylish one that makes you wonder where they got their clothes. The gym rat. The one who is more attractive than what they believe about themselves. The really fine one. The other really fine one who stays clutching their phone. Everyone is personable, but maintains a relatively subdued disposition. It is early in the night and we are all still preoccupied with playing our version of masculinity.

The halftime show begins, and ends less interesting than the memes that critique it.

We are bored now. It is later into the night, and we are all more discernibly drunk. Our pink-clad host proposes a game.

I assume it is a common party game. The premise: a leader poses a question and everyone anonymously drops their answer into a hat. The answers then get read. It of course seems shady and messy, but shade is always fun until it’s not. I am excited. I know no one in the room personally other than my roommate so the anonymity provides me with a shield.

The game is immediately fun. Some of the questions and answers were actually heartfelt. What was your biggest regret? Not going to college. But most of the questions were various conjugations of the verb “to fuck” accented with some participles.

Who in this room have you fucked?
Who in this room would you fuck?
Who in this room will you fuck?
Who in this room are you fucking?

The centering of sex was not as surprising as the reactions. It is always interesting to me how Black gay men negotiate our visibility. Some people shrank away. Some were visibly uncomfortable. Some threw some quiet shade with the people they sat next to. Most of us were laughing. I am laughing, but I am tense. The stylish one sits next to me, and he is very nice. Our energies share, and we both are clearly worried about the direction of the game. We are towing a fine line.

The intensity of the game heightens bleakly as more and more questions are asked that seem more interested in humiliation than fun. The laughter has descended into grimaces, whispers, and side-comments. At one point in the night, a newcomer, young, and who I experience as having a bad attitude proposes the question “Spill someone’s tea in this room.” There is an audible groan after the question is proposed. This is the straw. Though to be fair, we knew this was coming. At this point, we are “over it,” as they say, and we start to trickle out of the room.

There is a bit more small conversation, but the party soon ends.

On the ride home, I worry about the degree to which Black gay men speak of ourselves in terms of scarcity and lack. So often we pathologize each other. We deride ourselves for our sexual habits, the ways in which we sometimes fail to show up for each other. I worry about how we fail to be kind to one another. We are all fighting the same fights and are often victims of the same traumas. Yet instead of manifesting empathy and turning our shared wounds into collective resilience, we weaponize ourselves against each other.

I feel guilty, because I am implicit, I came to the party expecting the worse, and was surprised to find something else, only to leave having self-fulfilled the prophecy. My roommate and I debrief as we leave the mansion.

I am bad at Black gay parties. I am judgmental. I am self-conscious. I am overly idealistic with unrealistic expectations. Every party, or brunch, or kickback can’t be a healing circle, because healing and being in community takes a lot of work. I know this. But my heart tells me that Black gay men really want that from one another. I think our yearning for connection just comes out in strange and sometimes corrosive ways.

I wonder what community looks like for Black gay men. Essex Hemphill, the great poet once said that he wanted to start an organization to save Black gay men. If whales and dogs can be saved, he writes, then of course we can too. The analogy renders Black gay men as an endangered species.

I feel like this is how we act sometimes, like we are always in danger. Like we are always on the edge of a cliff trying not to stumble.




 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.
 
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And thats why I don't attend parties or social gatherings at night......learned my lesson freshman year
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.
 
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And thats why I don't attend parties or social gatherings at night......learned my lesson freshman year

tell us more.
 
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Sounds about right. At a gay party this dude (a 6'5 bottom) dared my bf to drop his pants and spread his ass for truth or dare. I raised the people's eyebrow so quick. Needless to say that game ended then and there. The guys there stayed trying to hola at ole boy on the low when I was in the next room helping with the food and vice versa. this lil nigga up under me tellin me his life story which was cool because it was interesting but wanted to suck my dick while his supposed boyfriend was outside smoking. Turned out he ended up stealing the hosts ipod before the night was over.

I cant deal with groups of gays for long (in person). The thirst, the competing, the treachery and debauchery are all just too much for my little heart.



 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.
 
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Sounds about right. At a gay party this dude (a 6'5 bottom) dared my bf to drop his pants and spread his ass for truth or dare. I raised the people's eyebrow so quick. Needless to say that game ended then and there. The guys there stayed trying to hola at ole boy on the low when I was in the next room helping with the food and vice versa. this lil nigga up under me tellin me his life story which was cool because it was interesting but wanted to suck my dick while his supposed boyfriend was outside smoking. Turned out he ended up stealing the hosts ipod before the night was over.

I cant deal with groups of gays for long (in person). The thirst, the competing, the treachery and debauchery are all just too much for my little heart.

the sad part about what you said is it doesn't even have to be a party, any time more than 2 gay people are in a room and one has a bf who's present, some mess is gonna happen and they always try to disguise it as just goofing around.

second guy i had sex with, i went to hang out with his friends. they put on some music and start voguing. harmless, ok cool whatever. then one of his friends decides to climb on his back and start humping him for no other reason than he could and he was enjoying showing out in front of me.

i've been trying to find an angle to make a thread about just that, how gay friends often purposely sabotage their friends' relationships.
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

That's me.
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

You must hate yourself. Of course you do you plot dumb stuff and day 25/8 on BGC! Miseralbe fag!! And hypocrite. Every thread you go into talking about what you hate it really you girl. Thearpy. Ya mam suppose to be at my place at 8 with them lips cherry red
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

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You must hate yourself. Of course you do you plot dumb stuff and day 25/8 on BGC! Miseralbe fag!! And hypocrite. Every thread you go into talking about what you hate it really you girl. Thearpy. Ya mam suppose to be at my place at 8 with them lips cherry red





 
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Day parties are always preferred to night time parties. People tend to comport themselves as if they were actually born in a hospital rather than an open field.
 
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I like this one....

 
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And thats why I don't attend parties or social gatherings at night......learned my lesson freshman year

9 days ago

tell us more.

Basically the first two weeks of my freshman year was nothing but playing never have I ever and watching them drink(because I didn't) and telling their secrets. By the end of the semester all that played weren't friends anymore, I had to stop fights, and comfort the mad and crying when their secret were told.

I don't know why people play the game and tell the truth. I always lied

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Sounds about right. At a gay party this dude (a 6'5 bottom) dared my bf to drop his pants and spread his ass for truth or dare. I raised the people's eyebrow so quick. Needless to say that game ended then and there. The guys there stayed trying to hola at ole boy on the low when I was in the next room helping with the food and vice versa. this lil nigga up under me tellin me his life story which was cool because it was interesting but wanted to suck my dick while his supposed boyfriend was outside smoking. Turned out he ended up stealing the hosts ipod before the night was over.

I cant deal with groups of gays for long (in person). The thirst, the competing, the treachery and debauchery are all just too much for my little heart.

agree.....and the sexual tension is just awkward
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

... sounds like more troubling issues than introspection, dawta.
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

9 days ago

... sounds like more troubling issues than introspection, dawta.

no cunt who uses poppers to get fucked is eeeever gonna tell me about troubling issues, you're risking all this just for some dick Neutral

Long term and dangerous side-effects can include:

Extremely high doses can cause the potentially fatal ‘methaemoglobinaemia’ whereby the blood is unable to carry oxygen to cells in the body (similar to what happens during Carbon Monoxide Poisoning).

Because Poppers cause blood pressure to drop and heart rate to rise, their use is riskier for people with glaucoma (high blood pressure in the eye) or breathing,heart or blood pressure irregularities.

The use of Poppers after taking drugs such as Viagra is dangerous as it can cause blood pressure to drop to dangerous, potentially fatal, levels.

A long-term effect in humans has not been demonstrated, but isobutyl nitrite is considered a human carcinogen (potentially causes Cancer).

There are a number of reports linking the use of Poppers to eye damage or loss of eye sight ('Poppers Maculopathy').
 
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Sounds about right. At a gay party this dude (a 6'5 bottom) dared my bf to drop his pants and spread his ass for truth or dare. I raised the people's eyebrow so quick. Needless to say that game ended then and there. The guys there stayed trying to hola at ole boy on the low when I was in the next room helping with the food and vice versa. this lil nigga up under me tellin me his life story which was cool because it was interesting but wanted to suck my dick while his supposed boyfriend was outside smoking. Turned out he ended up stealing the hosts ipod before the night was over.

I cant deal with groups of gays for long (in person). The thirst, the competing, the treachery and debauchery are all just too much for my little heart.

oh dear God. Yikes


this is all so awful and extreme Laughing
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

9 days ago

... sounds like more troubling issues than introspection, dawta.

9 days ago

no cunt who uses poppers to get fucked is eeeever gonna tell me about troubling issues, you're risking all this just for some dick Neutral

Long term and dangerous side-effects can include:

Extremely high doses can cause the potentially fatal ‘methaemoglobinaemia’ whereby the blood is unable to carry oxygen to cells in the body (similar to what happens during Carbon Monoxide Poisoning).

Because Poppers cause blood pressure to drop and heart rate to rise, their use is riskier for people with glaucoma (high blood pressure in the eye) or breathing,heart or blood pressure irregularities.

The use of Poppers after taking drugs such as Viagra is dangerous as it can cause blood pressure to drop to dangerous, potentially fatal, levels.

A long-term effect in humans has not been demonstrated, but isobutyl nitrite is considered a human carcinogen (potentially causes Cancer).

There are a number of reports linking the use of Poppers to eye damage or loss of eye sight ('Poppers Maculopathy').

meh.
 
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Sounds about right. At a gay party this dude (a 6'5 bottom) dared my bf to drop his pants and spread his ass for truth or dare. I raised the people's eyebrow so quick. Needless to say that game ended then and there. The guys there stayed trying to hola at ole boy on the low when I was in the next room helping with the food and vice versa. this lil nigga up under me tellin me his life story which was cool because it was interesting but wanted to suck my dick while his supposed boyfriend was outside smoking. Turned out he ended up stealing the hosts ipod before the night was over.

I cant deal with groups of gays for long (in person). The thirst, the competing, the treachery and debauchery are all just too much for my little heart.

9 days ago

the sad part about what you said is it doesn't even have to be a party, any time more than 2 gay people are in a room and one has a bf who's present, some mess is gonna happen and they always try to disguise it as just goofing around.

second guy i had sex with, i went to hang out with his friends. they put on some music and start voguing. harmless, ok cool whatever. then one of his friends decides to climb on his back and start humping him for no other reason than he could and he was enjoying showing out in front of me.

i've been trying to find an angle to make a thread about just that, how gay friends often purposely sabotage their friends' relationships.

Shocked
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

9 days ago

... sounds like more troubling issues than introspection, dawta.

9 days ago

no cunt who uses poppers to get fucked is eeeever gonna tell me about troubling issues, you're risking all this just for some dick Neutral

Long term and dangerous side-effects can include:

Extremely high doses can cause the potentially fatal ‘methaemoglobinaemia’ whereby the blood is unable to carry oxygen to cells in the body (similar to what happens during Carbon Monoxide Poisoning).

Because Poppers cause blood pressure to drop and heart rate to rise, their use is riskier for people with glaucoma (high blood pressure in the eye) or breathing,heart or blood pressure irregularities.

The use of Poppers after taking drugs such as Viagra is dangerous as it can cause blood pressure to drop to dangerous, potentially fatal, levels.

A long-term effect in humans has not been demonstrated, but isobutyl nitrite is considered a human carcinogen (potentially causes Cancer).

There are a number of reports linking the use of Poppers to eye damage or loss of eye sight ('Poppers Maculopathy').

9 days ago

meh.

checkmate. stop doing poppers. not even joking.
 
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Day parties are always preferred to night time parties. People tend to comport themselves as if they were actually born in a hospital rather than an open field.

I'm not so sure about this distinction.

fags will be fags whether the sun is high at noon or if there's a full moon to howl at.
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

9 days ago

... sounds like more troubling issues than introspection, dawta.

9 days ago

no cunt who uses poppers to get fucked is eeeever gonna tell me about troubling issues, you're risking all this just for some dick Neutral

Long term and dangerous side-effects can include:

Extremely high doses can cause the potentially fatal ‘methaemoglobinaemia’ whereby the blood is unable to carry oxygen to cells in the body (similar to what happens during Carbon Monoxide Poisoning).

Because Poppers cause blood pressure to drop and heart rate to rise, their use is riskier for people with glaucoma (high blood pressure in the eye) or breathing,heart or blood pressure irregularities.

The use of Poppers after taking drugs such as Viagra is dangerous as it can cause blood pressure to drop to dangerous, potentially fatal, levels.

A long-term effect in humans has not been demonstrated, but isobutyl nitrite is considered a human carcinogen (potentially causes Cancer).

There are a number of reports linking the use of Poppers to eye damage or loss of eye sight ('Poppers Maculopathy').

9 days ago

meh.

9 days ago

checkmate. stop doing poppers. not even joking.

i only do them sometimes. infrequently.
 
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And thats why I don't attend parties or social gatherings at night......learned my lesson freshman year

9 days ago

tell us more.

9 days ago

Basically the first two weeks of my freshman year was nothing but playing never have I ever and watching them drink(because I didn't) and telling their secrets. By the end of the semester all that played weren't friends anymore, I had to stop fights, and comfort the mad and crying when their secret were told.

I don't know why people play the game and tell the truth. I always lied

the str8s did this, too.
i didn't have any gays to play with in college.
 
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who debriefs after a party? maybe that overanalytical mess is part of what makes situations like this so unnerving.

i also got a laugh out of the types.

"The one who is already drunk as hell."

that's me. i arrived stumbling and slurring.

9 days ago

oh, i'm sure.
some of us don't debrief after parties; some of us think about these things in real time - the introspective, introverted, pisces ones, especially.

9 days ago

i hate shit like that, my family is like that, something as simple as driving someone to an airport has to be a four hour discussion mulling over every possible scenario, what if so-and-so takes so-and-so's car and.... what if so-and-so leaves work early to blah blah blah

i can't stand people who treat every action or interaction like they're plotting a nuclear strike against afghanistan. it used to be me til i started getting on my own damn nerves trying to disect the historical oppression of women in africa and how it could be affected by whether i wore a blue shirt or a purple one.

9 days ago

... sounds like more troubling issues than introspection, dawta.

9 days ago

no cunt who uses poppers to get fucked is eeeever gonna tell me about troubling issues, you're risking all this just for some dick Neutral

Long term and dangerous side-effects can include:

Extremely high doses can cause the potentially fatal ‘methaemoglobinaemia’ whereby the blood is unable to carry oxygen to cells in the body (similar to what happens during Carbon Monoxide Poisoning).

Because Poppers cause blood pressure to drop and heart rate to rise, their use is riskier for people with glaucoma (high blood pressure in the eye) or breathing,heart or blood pressure irregularities.

The use of Poppers after taking drugs such as Viagra is dangerous as it can cause blood pressure to drop to dangerous, potentially fatal, levels.

A long-term effect in humans has not been demonstrated, but isobutyl nitrite is considered a human carcinogen (potentially causes Cancer).

There are a number of reports linking the use of Poppers to eye damage or loss of eye sight ('Poppers Maculopathy').

9 days ago

meh.

9 days ago

checkmate. stop doing poppers. not even joking.

9 days ago

i only do them sometimes. infrequently.

do them never. still not joking.
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