I pretty much ignore Africans. For the most part they want nothing to do with us. I refuse to have someone from the poorest, war torn, undemocratic region if the planet tell me how much better they are than me and how much better the culture they are clearly choosing not to return to is than mine.
It breaks my heart to hear you say this....I always come here and I read your comments..tho I never met you, I think you are a nice person
Don't let one person make know the rest of the billions love you
You Africans would love to pain the picture of being completely autonomous for the control and influence of white people, but you're own identities have been by in large stripped from you also.
There are only a hand full of the some 50 some nations in Africa today which can even be called by a name that wasn't given to them during the colonization of that convenient by wypipo, who made it a short order to divide it up amongst themselves and renamed each new part they created as they saw fit.
Further more, even thought there may be over some 2000 different languages and tongues spoken there today, even the many different languages of southern Africa have been standardized by your imperialist master from the West whom you've come to idol and love the same way that the Dominicans love their Spanish conquers whose langue they've adopted.
Swahili was the language initially chosen by the West which would open up trade with the West, now today, its good old English.
If you dusty ankle bushmen are not able to speak the language which has become the Standard for all Africans everywhere, you're essentially relegated to the worst kind of poverty Africa has to offer many of it's most unfortunate people.
That said. Spare us all here who know better and who know the affection you have for your white masters who has not only taught you to hate yourselves as he has done everywhere he's ever been around the globe, but to also hate what he hates, which just so happens to be the so-called African Americans.
Because He knows that although he reigns supreme now, it's we who's got next.
I don't know where your anger is coming from and where it's leading to but you need to chill out......you don't anything about Africa so don't like you do....Africa is a continent..different languages, culture, history, ethnicities and tribes.
Even as African, born and raised I cant classify all Africans due to how complicated the continent is....oh and FYI don't act like you know anything, coz unlike America where everything is documented, Africans use several methods to preserve their history
First of all... You don't know what I know.
Second, I just told you that there are some 200 plus languages and over 50 different nations that make up southern Africa, Hoe. So don't act like you're telling me anything about Africa that I don't know.
Like I said before, you mafuckas are every bit as Westernized as any African American regardless of where you live in Africa.
The notion that you dirty bitches are better than African Americans is laughable. Most of you bitches aren't even taught about the very Trans-Atlantic slave trade in which some 13 of the 52-54 African nations took part.
Of course not all Africans are the same type of assholes that those of you who seem to log into BGC appear to be, but everyone of you bitches who end up here on the shores of America are, regardless of how well you try to hide it or what your mouth says publicly to the contrary.
Arguing with you is like a mad man chasing nothing......besides empty barrels makes the most noise
Isn't there a board for Africans you can be on right now? Why the hell are you here?
You're meddling just like the bigoted white fucks posting here on topic being discussed by African Americans.
Nobody wants be bothered by a 5.4" 150 pound dusty African midget a superiority complex.
We are not nor have we ever been the same people and have nothing to do with Africans.
There is no African American dick here for you.
You are angry for nothing.....fix ya life
Are you Ashanti?
I'm your mother bitch....fix your life
@40 you should be ashamed that you haven't achieved nothing....I guess that makes u so mad
I apologize. But can you just answer my question?
Are you Ashanti?
At least I see hope...I see a future
What can I see in a useless 40 year old.....you are so fat that u hide your stats and your pic........
At least none of them is outta shape.......u disgust me so bad
Why are you being mean to me, Yo?
We may be family if you're Ashanti?
I talk a lot of shit to most Africans because most Africans are have such a fucked up attitude. However, there are Africans from certain tribes for which I have the utmost respect.
Can you please tell me what tribe you come from?
You disgust me dude fuck outta here
#stupidfaggot...... You can never be an African
DAMN ALL THIS TALK ABOUT A DIRTY ASS AFRICAN LMAOOOOOOOOO
So today I was perusing the popular app (Grindr) and I happened to encounter a beautiful African bottom who wouldn't give me the time of day but told my white roommate that he isn't into African-Americans. Why is there such a divide between us? I have noticed a lot of Africans who don't like African Americans. Care to comment @adminsex ?
Chyle I'm gagging.....
I'm African but I smell like Issey Miyake...and I took a shower 2 hours ago with Bleu de Chanel.....far from dirty or smelly....I smell like heaven....
Now this OYOKO Ghana boy.....born and raised in Ghana myself but I've never heard of OYOKO in my life....but I was born and raised in the city....East legon and Trassaco....An Oyoko boy is the equivalent of a redneck African......An African from a rural area....An Oyoko boy and an East legon dude like me are cut from 2 different cloths....It's like a dude from Brooklyn N.Y and a dude from Alabama....2 completely different swags....
I'll leave it at that.....
Oyoko niggas lmao.
MESSY ASS THREAD....
You better off. Africans collect info like the nsa and google. You would be getting bills and notices within a month.
I made a Grindr account one time and I think I deactivated it. It was boring as hell. But I did notice it was alot of whites on there. I assume that most people who use that app are seeking white people anyway.
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. . . . . . i have an african friend who has shared with me his school grade experience..
. . . . he's moved to the US durin middle school into highschool.... And the reception he has gotten from his Black peers in public school was nothing but malice and taunting and brute disdain.
. . one of the fundamentals in life I've learn is that nothing comes from nowhere.
. . . . . . . . do u tink your African grindr counterpart could have gone thru the same ting?
How do you react when you see African-Americans talk about African natives as if they don't have direct roots that trace back to the continent? It makes me chuckle a lil bit cuz I'm like, there's really a mentality among AA's that they have nothing to do with Africa or its people. A lot of AA's even get offended when you call them African. It's funny and confusing to me at the same time.
After 2 years or bachelor's?
To the OP, just live you life, it really doesn't matter.
Um cooning is at an all time high from Africans, and blacks just look at the hate admins ex spews against black people, and how he worships white people.
I never got that vibe from him. He has always been nice to me. But I'm not always on here so I could've missed something
you sure do live in a idealistic bubble
I never seen someone with so much hope
I'm not in a bubble. What's wrong with holding light in your heart? Life is too short to indulge in darkness. What can happen once can happen twice and many times over
So by your logic I'm and many of us have darkness in our hearts for pointing out white supremacists like bird-fu who even with their white privilege still hate black people, and conspire every day on ways to harm us. The mental gymnastics you do in order to rationalize white supremacy.
No. He said I was idealistic and have so much hope. I was just saying that there life is better when you have hope. Don't assume that you are filled with darkness
Lmao you tried it I walk amongst demons like bird-fu every day I'm a light upon this earth you might want to stop playing coy, and care about issues that effect you.
I will observe him and make an opinion. I can't really say much to you without knowing. Yes truly evil racist people are out there
I just give them back what they throw. They are just clueless about their own bigotry. GRENINJA starts a thread attacking interracial relationships. Telling others who to date , or complaining about others dating choices is racial bigotry. They just have had such a pass on their bigotry that they don't think any of their hateful race threads are racial bigotry, but they are.
@greninja is this true? Why would you try to make people feel bad for dating who they like/love?
fetish* if you like someone solely based on an attribute on his/her race that is a racial fetish, which is not better then being racist.
View the thread then ask me that
@bird-fu I didn't see the thread but dating someone because of a stereotypical view of them is not right. If he is denouncing men who pursue black men for this reason, then he is in the right. You cannot objectify someone. From @greninja's comment it seems he is not a racial bigot he has not shown any intolerance to interracial relationships. Please stop fighting forum members. Let's just get along with one another
Oh Pollyanna...........you will not win the Nobel Peace Prize here in these forum streets lol
People come here to take psychological and emotional dumps in these walls and dont give a rats ass who they get it on or fling it at............
Every African i ever met was extremely pleasant and funny.
CHILE U LET THAT AFRICAN FLY OVER HERE IN BREAK U BOO.ITS POST TO BE THE OTHER WAY AROUND GET SOME BACK BONE LMAOOO
lol I guess
AND U CUTE HE PLAYED HIS SELF HIS BLACK ASS AINT READY FOR A AMERICAN KING LIKE U
Code: a beautiful African bottom
That comment alone...but I digress.
Code: told my white roommate that he isn't into African-Americans.
Well...from my observation, FRESH OF THE PLANE Africans (meaning, he just got of the plane 6 months ago or less than 3 years) tend to be enamored by the abundance of whites in general when they arrive...No different from White American tourists frolicking on beaches with African girls or befriending African men......A white man USUALLY doesn't leave America (filled with White ppl) to deal with other whites in Africa....He goes to Africa to mingle with Africans.....If that African bottom is on vacation or here to attend university open houses, then he's here for the MAINSTREAM American experience a.k.a WHITE AMERICAN EXPERIENCE.....the mainstream American experience has always been and will always be considered to be WHITE.....having a black president and many black president won't change that...
Those of us that have been living in the United states for 8 years or more KNOW the truth....We know the American system.....
He hasn't been here that long to know what he's into....
Code: Why is there such a divide between us?
Honestly....the sense of belonging is distorted....A lot of Africans...especially FRESH OF THE PLANE (F.O.T.P and OLD SCHOOL types don't see African Americans as African......and African Americans are quick to claim Native Indian and Creole amongst other things.....So it means that most African American don't see themselves as African either....
Code: I have noticed a lot of Africans who don't like African Americans.
To be honest....It goes both ways...but I honestly think majority of Africans are clannish and culturally xenophobic......especially the F.O.T.P types and old school types...Other Africans just don't give a fuck about most Americans THAT DON'T SUPPORT THEIR MISSION in general....because they might have came to the U.S.A with a VISION....maybe to attend medical school....maybe to start a business....maybe to improve themselves......Maybe if this African met African Americans in his medical program, he would befriend them....but he probably won't care to link up with a random African American in his neighborhood.....Africans have a strong sense of self, identity, and purpose in life..Most of them don't really care to associate themselves with people that don't have the same strong sense self or VISION........Almost like how people in LOS ANGELES are....Ppl in Los Angeles only form deeper relationships based on common interest and vision...In L.A, friendships are like business contracts....Most Africans are exactly like this.......African Americans are more relaxed about life.....Africans are never relaxed...
Thanks for the insight. He actually is a pre-med student so you may be absolutely right. Well now I know not to live in LA for long if I have to. I don't ever want to have friendships that feel strained and full of stress.
Yeah....If that boy is med school or pre med....then he probably mingles with more whites and other Africans more than anything.....and let's call a spade a spade.....You don't find too many African Americans in those demanding college programs.....My pharmacy program had zero.....the only blacks in my program were west indian types and 1 African check....and a ton of Indians from INDIA......so his exposure to African Americans will be limited....but ofcourse....LIKE I SAID....the FOTP types are more about accomplishing their goals than trying to mingle with other black people....the SEASONED "Americanized" types LIKE MYSELF, are 100 times more likely to seek out AfroAmericans to interact or even date them.....I have tons of cousins that are married to African Americans....I have a sister who is married to an African American.....Actually, the last 3 weddings I went to were African and American American inter-ethnic couples.....
Ignore that GINGKO dude.....He can't even find an African American LIKE HIM to date so his issue is much deeper than whatever nonsense he's spewing in here.....He simply can't keep ANY KIND of black man from anywhere.....
Now....with these stereotypes you seen for me.....I live in Chicago and everybody knows most Blacks in Chicago ain't right.....You see it all over the news.....A lot of negative stereotypes about blacks are alive and factual in Chicago......the stereotypes you've seen me post stem from my 13 years of experience living in Chicago.....I've been to other parts of the country and dealt with blacks.....and there is a drastic difference between blacks from different DMV and Chicago detroit blacks......I won't apply those Chicago black stereotypes to DMV blacks......I know better....MOST of the comments you've seen relate to my experience with Chicago blacks....not blacks nationwide....
ARROGANCE.....most ppl confuse Arrogance with high self esteem.....now...remember what I told you about African and their strong sense of Identity.....I think this strong sense of self comes of as arrogant to a lot of Americans....and especially blacks.......but I think this strong sense of self comes from Africans knowing exactly who and what they are to a science....they know what country they came from....they speak their native tongue....their understand their roots......The know who they are on the deepest level.....and when someone knows exactly what they are, they'll come off as arrogant without even trying .....they speak with authority and boldness....so maybe...that is the vibe I exude unconsciously......The American way is to be politically correct....optimiism and to DREAM....the American dream.....The African way is to speak you mind, tell it like it is, and believe in yourself.....The African way is arrogant by nature.....and you will find that most Africans will always come off as arrogant.....even our native languages sound very arrogant.....the sounds we make....the tone of our speech when speaking in our native tongues....very bold....too bold....Back in the day, my AfroAmerican friends will always ask if my mom was angry whenever she spoke in our native tongue.....lmao.....and it wasn't until I started paying to the African tone vs the American tone.....that's when I saw where they were coming from.
This is logically inconsistent... Racism is lexically defined as a statement or idea that presupposes that one race is superior to another or that one race is inferior to another. If a white person has a fetish for feet and they end up with a white person, the idea that this is predicated by racism is absurd in that it is a fetish within the context of the same race which implies that any statement of superiority or inferior regarding race replies equally to both making it logically impossible for it to be racist.
If a white person is attracted to attributes said to belong to black men in terms of making it a fetish, this does not intrinsically make it racists in that a white man could appreciate attributes of a black man outside of the context of racial superiority or inferiority; therefore, this does not make it necessarily racists, though, a possibility exists that it could be racists in some or most but not all cases.
This means one cannot reasonable conclude that fetishizing something can necessarily be treated as if it were a racists action. Anecdotally and via demonstration, my father has great respect for black women, for example, though, he is attracted to brown skin.
Lol so came to the false conclusion that he was calling people like your father racist and then worked backwards to logically refute the claim. The problem is he did not liking some based on a feature of thier race racist. He said
He is treating them as subsets of the same thing. 1 is not 2, but they are both real numbers, so they can be treated as such. I am not you, but we can be treated as people. Same thing. I don't believe in value judgments, because they are subjective and thus cannot be objectively proven. I ascribe to things which can be proven logically, mathematically, or empirically. He can't prove his point without being prescriptive thus it's subjective. I'm an engineering so I deal in facts, logic, and numbers and not feelings.
Yes this was my experience as well in undergraduate. Maybe there were 20-25 black students in my program out of 300 incoming freshman. And I definitely know what you mean about Chicago. I'm not sure why black people there are involved in a lot of crime and stuff. Maybe it's the weather? But never forget we are not all the same. You would see a drastic difference if you went to somewhere like suburban Pennsylvania or suburban Georgia. Sorry that you had bad experiences.
I honestly envy that kind of self awareness. I'm a mutt with blurry family roots due to certain things but I honestly feel like African-Americans don't do a good job of passing down their history in general. Most of my peers don't know anything about their slave ancestors and we really need to do better in that regard.
I guess I'm a stereotypical American lol. I dream a lot and am constantly optimistic
Yes....Nigerians are known for that.