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Post Posted: 2007-12-23 19:48:08  
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Fellas,

Thanks for all of the advice/ideas on how to propose 2 my guy. After careful consideration, I decided to propose during our church service today.

I made arrangements with my Pastor to propose just before the sermon. I slipped a copy of Anita Baker's Sweet Love to the church musician. When the music queued up, I asked my guy to join me at the front of the church, I shared with the church that he and I had been together for a long time, that we had shared a lot of both bad and good times and that I felt that now was the time for us to make things right. Afterward I took him by the hand slipped the ring on his left hand and asked him to marry me. He agreed. We kissed and the church went up in praise.




 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 19:52:16  
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simplistic wrote:
What church do you go to? Shocked


Pillar of Love Fellowship Church - We meet in the Center on Halsted
 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 20:17:56  
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When is more like it...and that would be when gay marriage is legalized. If you're going the civil union route, put the ring on him while he's sleeping, at a family reunion or with people that accept you two being together. Write him a card and attach a ring to it.
 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 20:30:36  
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fon wrote:
well unlike these uncooth bitches.... I'm gonna say... CONGRATS and may you have many years of blessings together. The real work begins now!


Thanks Man,

I appreciate that.
 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 20:31:48  
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chiboi4u wrote:
Fellas,

Thanks for all of the advice/ideas on how to propose 2 my guy. After careful consideration, I decided to propose during our church service today.

I made arrangements with my Pastor to propose just before the sermon. I slipped a copy of Anita Baker's Sweet Love to the church musician. When the music queued up, I asked my guy to join me at the front of the church, I shared with the church that he and I had been together for a long time, that we had shared a lot of both bad and good times and that I felt that now was the time for us to make things right. Afterward I took him by the hand slipped the ring on his left hand and asked him to marry me. He agreed. We kissed and the church went up in praise.


aww congratulations!!! I hope u both have a happy marriage


Thanks
 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 20:35:23  
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thekee469 wrote:
When is more like it...and that would be when gay marriage is legalized. If you're going the civil union route, put the ring on him while he's sleeping, at a family reunion or with people that accept you two being together. Write him a card and attach a ring to it.


We registered as Domestic Partners a few years ago. Thug that he is, my guy still wanted the public affirmation that comes with a commitment ceremony, etc.




 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 20:36:54  
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hiyellaboi wrote:
chiboi4u wrote:
Fellas,

Thanks for all of the advice/ideas on how to propose 2 my guy. After careful consideration, I decided to propose during our church service today.

I made arrangements with my Pastor to propose just before the sermon. I slipped a copy of Anita Baker's Sweet Love to the church musician. When the music queued up, I asked my guy to join me at the front of the church, I shared with the church that he and I had been together for a long time, that we had shared a lot of both bad and good times and that I felt that now was the time for us to make things right. Afterward I took him by the hand slipped the ring on his left hand and asked him to marry me. He agreed. We kissed and the church went up in praise.



CONGRAT ON GETTING ENGAGED...I HOPE YOU TWO HAVE A LONG AND HAPPY RELATIONSHIP...JUST REMEMBER TO LAUGH TOGETHER...AND TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING, NO MATTER WHAT IT IS....EVEN IF ITS ABOUT WHAT TYPE OF TOILET PAPER TO BUY, BELIEVE ME. SOME OF THE BIGGEST FIGHTS YOU WILL GET INTO WILL START OFF ABOUT SOMETHING SMALL...AND THEN 25 MINS INTO THE FIGHT YOU FIND OUT THAT IT'S REALLY ABOUT SOMETHING THATS BEEN EATING AT YOUR ASS FOR 3 MONTHS BUT YOU NEVER TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT...SO MAKE SURE YOU TWO TALK ABOUT EVEYTHING...GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS


Again, thanks. Appreciate the advice. It falls in line with what we heard from our Pastor.
 
Post Posted: 2007-12-23 23:29:05  
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midwood wrote:
I hate and jealous of you man, lol.... Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Oh my God when is the wedding? I don't want to be Bridesmaid Rolling Eyes lol.... Feliciatation, mon cher! Congratulation, my dear! Laughing Cool Be good and healthy... I hope some all of church accept who we are Very Happy


09/06/2008 - Seven years to the date that we first got together.
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