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You know .. You are Absolutely Right .!!!! and I would like to say that I\'m sorry that you have to go through that but I want to say that it\'s a new experience for this new generation of people that are now expose to Women like you but I wonder how it was back then because yaw must had its Trile-ly Harder because people would see a regular gay person and say .. yes he is gay .. nd see you and wondering why are you dress like that and the 1st thing that comes to peoples mind that they are confused .. and that\'s because they are uneducated about Transgendered Women and they have to be taught .. just like understanding a Black or a Spanish or a Arabian person .. even though that is much different than that .. but I never seen that because when I met Transgendered Women for the 1st time was at Work .. and she told me that she was Gay .. and I was like where is your Girlfriend ??? .. and she was like No Boy I\'m Transgendered .. and it hit me like a Shock because I never seen a Woman so Beautiful . that was actually born Male.. and then I met more Trans Women and then I worked with more and Majority of them came with class and Dignity .. and then I went to the club scene and met a Spectrum of Trans Women .. then that really open my eyes because I saw Trans Males .. and that was new to me because I was never around that type of lifestyle and when you are new to this you will be surprised by it .. but for regular Born Males that are into Trans Women I don\'t know what the next man is thinking but I wonder if this is because they have seen Transsexual Porn before and were turned on by it .. or walking down the streets meeting Trans Women or at the club .. and it went past being just Sexually Attracted to Women like you they see the actual Woman and they are like Man she looks good .. but when they see a Stripper or a Adult Star and they just \" Loose It \" and it became like Animalistic Behavior .. and Made they are curious about it .. or they are Blantonly Freaks that just got to have it .. and then they see a Regular Hard Working Woman like you ... and they go SUPER CRAZY .. like they don\'t see WOMAN .. they see SEXUAL FANTASY .. and they will do anything to explore it .. and it could be because .. hey I don\'t know this but it could be because I just a regular guy and I was never like that .. but a Big Butt on a Woman still make me go crazy .. unless you have Stick Legs .. and then it\'s a turnoff for me .. but don\'t they have like Adult Shows in Vegas like when people see Porn Stars .. and they have Transsexual Booth and see see Trans Women for the 1st time and they are in a Uproar .. because they have never seen anything so Sexy coming from a Male Born Feminine Female .. and they are like Will Smith in Independence Day ... \" I Have Got To Get Me One Of These \" .. I\'m Sorry .. I am saying Too Much .. so you are now more out in the open .. and they really need to see Transgender Women different from that .. like they should be looked at like regular Women that has a job or is grocery shopping .. or at the mall or just walking down the street ... but they probably not seeing this because I had to go in that area just to see Women like that .. and that the reason is that they are probably are always being harassed by People that doesn\'t understand you and they are against that .. so you have to be safe and comfortable in a area where you are loved at .. but you should have a blog for regular people and say .. We Are Not Porn Star .. Or Sexual Objects .. or your Fetish Fantasy .. but you can be that but as only you come with respect .. because if not .. then we will have a problem .. but that might make them angry because they don\'t want to hear that .. but they need to because somebody needs to be respected or you might have to start blocking fools .. but the best Transgendered Women that I ever saw was in Canada and NYC and in Hawaii because they have some Lovely Trans Women that men have respect for in those places that I visit .. unless I didn\'t see that wool over my eyes
 
Post Posted: 2017-01-08 21:38:25  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

You know .. You are Absolutely Right .!!!! and I would like to say that I\'m sorry that you have to go through that but I want to say that it\'s a new experience for this new generation of people that are now expose to Women like you but I wonder how it was back then because yaw must had its Trile-ly Harder because people would see a regular gay person and say .. yes he is gay .. nd see you and wondering why are you dress like that and the 1st thing that comes to peoples mind that they are confused .. and that\'s because they are uneducated about Transgendered Women and they have to be taught .. just like understanding a Black or a Spanish or a Arabian person .. even though that is much different than that .. but I never seen that because when I met Transgendered Women for the 1st time was at Work .. and she told me that she was Gay .. and I was like where is your Girlfriend ??? .. and she was like No Boy I\'m Transgendered .. and it hit me like a Shock because I never seen a Woman so Beautiful . that was actually born Male.. and then I met more Trans Women and then I worked with more and Majority of them came with class and Dignity .. and then I went to the club scene and met a Spectrum of Trans Women .. then that really open my eyes because I saw Trans Males .. and that was new to me because I was never around that type of lifestyle and when you are new to this you will be surprised by it .. but for regular Born Males that are into Trans Women I don\'t know what the next man is thinking but I wonder if this is because they have seen Transsexual Porn before and were turned on by it .. or walking down the streets meeting Trans Women or at the club .. and it went past being just Sexually Attracted to Women like you they see the actual Woman and they are like Man she looks good .. but when they see a Stripper or a Adult Star and they just \" Loose It \" and it became like Animalistic Behavior .. and Made they are curious about it .. or they are Blantonly Freaks that just got to have it .. and then they see a Regular Hard Working Woman like you ... and they go SUPER CRAZY .. like they don\'t see WOMAN .. they see SEXUAL FANTASY .. and they will do anything to explore it .. and it could be because .. hey I don\'t know this but it could be because I just a regular guy and I was never like that .. but a Big Butt on a Woman still make me go crazy .. unless you have Stick Legs .. and then it\'s a turnoff for me .. but don\'t they have like Adult Shows in Vegas like when people see Porn Stars .. and they have Transsexual Booth and see see Trans Women for the 1st time and they are in a Uproar .. because they have never seen anything so Sexy coming from a Male Born Feminine Female .. and they are like Will Smith in Independence Day ... \" I Have Got To Get Me One Of These \" .. I\'m Sorry .. I am saying Too Much .. so you are now more out in the open .. and they really need to see Transgender Women different from that .. like they should be looked at like regular Women that has a job or is grocery shopping .. or at the mall or just walking down the street ... but they probably not seeing this because I had to go in that area just to see Women like that .. and that the reason is that they are probably are always being harassed by People that doesn\'t understand you and they are against that .. so you have to be safe and comfortable in a area where you are loved at .. but you should have a blog for regular people and say .. We Are Not Porn Star .. Or Sexual Objects .. or your Fetish Fantasy .. but you can be that but as only you come with respect .. because if not .. then we will have a problem .. but that might make them angry because they don\'t want to hear that .. but they need to because somebody needs to be respected or you might have to start blocking fools .. but the best Transgendered Women that I ever saw was in Canada and NYC and in Hawaii because they have some Lovely Trans Women that men have respect for in those places that I visit .. unless I didn\'t see that wool over my eyes

Thank you for that response. I think people should educate themselves and also understand that Transwomen are not fuckrags or fetishes we are human beings
 
Post Posted: 2017-01-09 21:15:47  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

You know .. You are Absolutely Right .!!!! and I would like to say that I\'m sorry that you have to go through that but I want to say that it\'s a new experience for this new generation of people that are now expose to Women like you but I wonder how it was back then because yaw must had its Trile-ly Harder because people would see a regular gay person and say .. yes he is gay .. nd see you and wondering why are you dress like that and the 1st thing that comes to peoples mind that they are confused .. and that\'s because they are uneducated about Transgendered Women and they have to be taught .. just like understanding a Black or a Spanish or a Arabian person .. even though that is much different than that .. but I never seen that because when I met Transgendered Women for the 1st time was at Work .. and she told me that she was Gay .. and I was like where is your Girlfriend ??? .. and she was like No Boy I\'m Transgendered .. and it hit me like a Shock because I never seen a Woman so Beautiful . that was actually born Male.. and then I met more Trans Women and then I worked with more and Majority of them came with class and Dignity .. and then I went to the club scene and met a Spectrum of Trans Women .. then that really open my eyes because I saw Trans Males .. and that was new to me because I was never around that type of lifestyle and when you are new to this you will be surprised by it .. but for regular Born Males that are into Trans Women I don\'t know what the next man is thinking but I wonder if this is because they have seen Transsexual Porn before and were turned on by it .. or walking down the streets meeting Trans Women or at the club .. and it went past being just Sexually Attracted to Women like you they see the actual Woman and they are like Man she looks good .. but when they see a Stripper or a Adult Star and they just \" Loose It \" and it became like Animalistic Behavior .. and Made they are curious about it .. or they are Blantonly Freaks that just got to have it .. and then they see a Regular Hard Working Woman like you ... and they go SUPER CRAZY .. like they don\'t see WOMAN .. they see SEXUAL FANTASY .. and they will do anything to explore it .. and it could be because .. hey I don\'t know this but it could be because I just a regular guy and I was never like that .. but a Big Butt on a Woman still make me go crazy .. unless you have Stick Legs .. and then it\'s a turnoff for me .. but don\'t they have like Adult Shows in Vegas like when people see Porn Stars .. and they have Transsexual Booth and see see Trans Women for the 1st time and they are in a Uproar .. because they have never seen anything so Sexy coming from a Male Born Feminine Female .. and they are like Will Smith in Independence Day ... \" I Have Got To Get Me One Of These \" .. I\'m Sorry .. I am saying Too Much .. so you are now more out in the open .. and they really need to see Transgender Women different from that .. like they should be looked at like regular Women that has a job or is grocery shopping .. or at the mall or just walking down the street ... but they probably not seeing this because I had to go in that area just to see Women like that .. and that the reason is that they are probably are always being harassed by People that doesn\'t understand you and they are against that .. so you have to be safe and comfortable in a area where you are loved at .. but you should have a blog for regular people and say .. We Are Not Porn Star .. Or Sexual Objects .. or your Fetish Fantasy .. but you can be that but as only you come with respect .. because if not .. then we will have a problem .. but that might make them angry because they don\'t want to hear that .. but they need to because somebody needs to be respected or you might have to start blocking fools .. but the best Transgendered Women that I ever saw was in Canada and NYC and in Hawaii because they have some Lovely Trans Women that men have respect for in those places that I visit .. unless I didn\'t see that wool over my eyes

2017-01-08 21:38:25

Thank you for that response. I think people should educate themselves and also understand that Transwomen are not fuckrags or fetishes we are human beings

I think people lack the knowledge of understanding the people .. or a group that they are in .. and some people are misrepresentated .. and it could be of lack of knowledge .. or it's because of fear .. because some people just won't admit what they like .. it's like that NWA verse .. " Some say no to drugs and take a stand .. but after the show .. they go looking for the dope man " ... but people need to be taught and respected .. but it has to come from a pure source .. like it can come from a person like you .. but you mite get allot of flack because of it .. but let's look at Janet Mock .. like if you look at her .. like how would you perceive her ?? .. because when you really look at her .. you see Class and Dignity of a Beautiful Woman inside and out .. and you can just meet her for the 1st time and see this though ?? .. so what I am asking you is .. What Are You Perceive As ?? .. or How Do People Look At You As ?? .. And Do You Know The Answer To This ??.. and the Answer Is .. Only You Can Answer That Question !!
 
Post Posted: 2017-01-11 12:56:46  
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GIRLL. EVERYTHUNG YOU PREACHED WAS SPOT ON! Like.... ugh.. you kept it 100.
 
Post Posted: 2017-01-11 13:34:17  
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You know they aren't listening sadly in work both way with men and women...we have to do better. I know black people are more than dick, ass, pussy and head. Just sad how people have allow our race and culture to be pigeon holed, and we wonder why we get no respect. If you getting trash from people, don't explain nothing to them. Show them that you're serious by block and deleting them. True friends respect your wishes and act accordingly.



 
Post Posted: 2017-01-11 21:15:50  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

You know they aren't listening sadly in work both way with men and women...we have to do better. I know black people are more than dick, ass, pussy and head. Just sad how people have allow our race and culture to be pigeon holed, and we wonder why we get no respect. If you getting trash from people, don't explain nothing to them. Show them that you're serious by block and deleting them. True friends respect your wishes and act accordingly.

You are speaking truth my block list is long!!!
 
Post Posted: 2017-01-12 04:41:31  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

You know they aren't listening sadly in work both way with men and women...we have to do better. I know black people are more than dick, ass, pussy and head. Just sad how people have allow our race and culture to be pigeon holed, and we wonder why we get no respect. If you getting trash from people, don't explain nothing to them. Show them that you're serious by block and deleting them. True friends respect your wishes and act accordingly.

2017-01-11 21:15:50

You are speaking truth my block list is long!!!

As it should be....
 
Post Posted: 2017-01-23 07:09:22  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

You hit all the nails on the head.

And this all ties back into what I always preach about.

Men are held at a different standard in society especially by women.

These men live in a world where if they were to even be caught with a trans it would cause a lot of backlash for them by their family, peers, etc.

With that kind of pressure on their heads I'm not saying it's right for them to approach transwomen with disrespect, but I do think it affects their ability to see us in any other light beside a sexual one.

Dating a transwoman is just out of the question for some men because they value their reputation as a "macho man" so they believe their only route to take with a transwoman is a sexual one.

I think it's about time men started demanding the freedom to be who they are (especially men of color) instead of leading these double lives. It's not just unhealthy for us but for them as well.
 
Post Posted: 2017-06-02 08:18:28  
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Human behavior is dictated by what we "think" will be effective. The media portrays transgender women as hypersexual, among other labels. I think that the group of men whom you are describing are responding to this perception.

How do you attract someone whom you perceive to be hypersexual? You can "mirror" their behavior.

Most of the transgender women that I know personally are not hypersexual, but there seems to be a small portion of our population who is, and they are also the most visible.

I think the best way to deal with people who draw conclusions about you and respond to you based off of broad generalizations is to "set them straight". Make it know to them that their behavior is not acceptable and that their perception of you is off. Tell people to treat you as an individual.
 
Post Posted: 2017-06-02 15:03:19  
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It starts with correcting mixed signals. If you have a FB, Twitter or IG acct with 90% of your pictures showing you half naked or videos of you twerking 10mins a pop you have nothing to bitch about.

You can't avoid all thirst bucket clowns but it does start with appearing a little classy.




 
Post Posted: 2017-06-03 14:11:29  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

It starts with correcting mixed signals. If you have a FB, Twitter or IG acct with 90% of your pictures showing you half naked or videos of you twerking 10mins a pop you have nothing to bitch about.

You can't avoid all thirst bucket clowns but it does start with appearing a little classy.

Thankfully all of my pictures are of me in elegant dresses or casually dressed or either sitting at a piano. Either way Transgender Women are still fetishized no matter what kind of pictures are pictured.
 
Post Posted: 2017-06-03 14:42:08  
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2017-01-07 02:04:02

It starts with correcting mixed signals. If you have a FB, Twitter or IG acct with 90% of your pictures showing you half naked or videos of you twerking 10mins a pop you have nothing to bitch about.

You can't avoid all thirst bucket clowns but it does start with appearing a little classy.

2017-06-03 14:11:29

Thankfully all of my pictures are of me in elegant dresses or casually dressed or either sitting at a piano. Either way Transgender Women are still fetishized no matter what kind of pictures are pictured.

Judge men one at a time please according to how they come at you or treat you. Fetish aint about shit, as we age we become wiser about what we want. The things that control you in your youth shouldn't matter if you planned your future. I still say wealth still hold the power. Snided remark makers will kiss your ass and turn cartwheel if you have your shit together. Please engage people to get to know them and vise versa then decide if it's a waste of each other's time. Nothing venture equal nothing gained.
 
Post Posted: 2017-06-05 01:49:00  
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I either ignore the messages and videochats or pretend I DIDNT see it and give the pics to one of my homegirls who are sexually active to see if his Dick is big enough for her Lmao cause she DONT deal in nothingless than 13 honey Lmao ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚....all is fair in the game of what's pic vid is sent in video message chat ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
 
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