So long as it\'s going both ways, no blood no foul. Being full on fetishised or preference-targetted racially isn\'t my thing personally but hey there are some guys who don\'t mind it and may even have race fetishes/preferences themselves - more power to \'em.

Race play is a bit more layered than that, I'm sure. Like, it's one thing to be into certain physical features because they get the job done for your downstairs. It's another thing entirely to have typecasted/stereotyped expectations about a someone BASED on those physical features. If me being Black is automatically supposed to provide a nonBlack dude some kind of sexual ability assurance or emotional validity or social comfort (or even aversion, invalidity or discomfort) without knowing anything about me beyond BEING Black, keep it away from me. That's a big red racial hangup flag and I prefer to be distanced from it.

Still, there are black men who don't mind being chosen like that and I'm no longer wasting my energy giving the "even if you think fetishisation feels good to you, dehumanising biases are still bad for the whole" lecture. So to each his own.