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PostPosted: 3 days ago    Post subject: Thoughts changed about a dude naked vs clothed

4 days ago

Ok...I wanna know did any of u view a dude differently when it comes to sexual position, sex appeal, attraction, etc. when u saw him naked vs him with clothes on.

One dude told me he initially thought I was a top niqqa until he saw me naked in a jock. When he saw my phat azz...he was like "damn I was like that azz phat and I wanna fuk it good and bust deep in it." He said he thought I was a top with clothes on in public but when he saw me with clothes off...he thought differently.

Did any of u ever felt this with a dude

3 days ago

It is really hard to tell today
It's so many dudes with big girl looking ass
And A lot of them say they r Tops
I think u just need to ask the question
And move on from there

True..its even a lot of straight black men with azz and hips. Some of us have those phat azz/hips/thighs genes. Ur right...
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PostPosted: 3 days ago    Post subject: Little dick tops

4 days ago

They tops because they have a natural urge to fuk (and maybe breed) a bussy. Tops have the urge to wanna fuk....bottoms have the urge to wanna arch their backs, lay on their backs, or on their stomachs and/or ride a dyck. Bottoms want their bussies stroked (and maybe creamed from a dude's nut).

The size of it doesn't really matter...its about their natural desires.

That's like telling a dude who is over 6 feet, with a muscular and very masculine body, big feet, big dyck, etc. that he should be heterosexual and fuk pusse cuz he looks too masculine and can easily pull women. But he may be homosexual as fuk. Same with a phat azz, big tittie having broad with a feminine face...dudes may wanna fuk and nut in her...but she may be the biggest dyke out here.

What they desire may not equate to what box u wanna put them in.

4 days ago

Well I just don’t understand it

I understand but that's life...everything doesn't always make sense. Everything isn't always picture perfect....everything doesn't always fit.

I used to think why some of the masculine nice dyck having nice muscular dudes wanna be bottoms....just cuz I want them to fuk my bussy doesn't mean they want to fuk my bussy, or for a matter of fact..any other bussy

There are levels to life...and its even more levels in this lifestyle. Why do u think some trannies and drag queens and fems top? How would it look if I said...u too fem to top....maybe they still wanna fuk and stroke some bussy/pusse.
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Little dick tops

They tops because they have a natural urge to fuk (and maybe breed) a bussy. Tops have the urge to wanna fuk....bottoms have the urge to wanna arch their backs, lay on their backs, or on their stomachs and/or ride a dyck. Bottoms want their bussies stroked (and maybe creamed from a dude's nut).

The size of it doesn't really matter...its about their natural desires.

That's like telling a dude who is over 6 feet, with a muscular and very masculine body, big feet, big dyck, etc. that he should be heterosexual and fuk pusse cuz he looks too masculine and can easily pull women. But he may be homosexual as fuk. Same with a phat azz, big tittie having broad with a feminine face...dudes may wanna fuk and nut in her...but she may be the biggest dyke out here.

What they desire may not equate to what box u wanna put them in.
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Thoughts changed about a dude naked vs clothed

4 days ago

Folks assume all kinds of shit until it comes down to it. Folks are more often on superficial shit and don't pay much mind to what you tell them. Then get disappointed and even pissed because you weren't what they had in their own little twisted minds instead of actually asking questions, listening and acting accordingly.

That's true...folks love to put u in a box and get mad if u don't fit in that box or wanna venture from that box.

But that's life bruh.

Did anybody misinterpret ur sexual position or anything else about u before getting down with u?
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Thoughts changed about a dude naked vs clothed

4 days ago

this further proves ....my point.......

What point?
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Thoughts changed about a dude naked vs clothed

4 days ago

This is my life story.

It used to upset me....but look at it as being the exception.

You change the game when it comes to what people want in bed. That's power.

Do people assume u a top?
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Forum :  Topic : At the point where i will marry for financial stability

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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: At the point where i will marry for financial stability

5 days ago

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. . I was readin accounts of arranged marriages and the majority of the stories seem to have had a good outcomes...
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.. . . . those marriages often had only 1 or two meetings between the bride and groom before their marriage.... their unifying factors were all based on education, income, goals for children, and the yearning for stability of a family unit.... there were plenty of falling in love during the union and amiable partners learning to love their spouse, despite not being in love or in like when they first saw each other...
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. . if it works for you... go for it.... don't forget that those who disapprove of your piquant thinking arent there to endure the hardship you have to go thru. .. .

Well said....I don't find anything wrong with OP said either...as long as he is willing to work and help with the couple's financial status/security.

It would be one thing if he asking for a sugar daddy and for someone to support him while he staying at home all day doing nothing.

Finances are the #1 reason why couples/marriages break up. U gotta place prime import on finances, type of desired lifestyle, credit, debt management, and income. If a couple cant agree on this...then they should reconsider marriage and remaining a couple.
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: MAN CRUSH TUESDAY... U LET N HIM SMASH OR NAH?

Yup. Would love to smash.
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Thoughts changed about a dude naked vs clothed

4 days ago

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. did he fuck ur hole and busted deep in it like he said?

Umm yes he did...but can u answer the question in the thread?
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Thoughts changed about a dude naked vs clothed

Ok...I wanna know did any of u view a dude differently when it comes to sexual position, sex appeal, attraction, etc. when u saw him naked vs him with clothes on.

One dude told me he initially thought I was a top niqqa until he saw me naked in a jock. When he saw my phat azz...he was like "damn I was like that azz phat and I wanna fuk it good and bust deep in it." He said he thought I was a top with clothes on in public but when he saw me with clothes off...he thought differently.

Did any of u ever felt this with a dude
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Forum :  Topic : Which dude is more your type....

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PostPosted: 2017-10-13 11:06:47     Post subject: Which dude is more your type....

A is my type mos def. A lot more sex appeal.

Good job putting both a shirtless pic and a "regular" pic so we can see the guys in different ways.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 17:17:08     Post subject: To you phony fuckers

Nothing wrong with ur body.

Just that I am not a top and u look more like a short kinda fem btm. But I would think ur body type would reel the tops in.
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Forum :  Topic : I'm considering a new look...but

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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 17:14:40     Post subject: I'm considering a new look...but

Umm it does look rather "gayish" but if u have masculine mannerisms and demeanor...as well as a masculine face...u may can pull it off. It depends also if it would be becoming on u. Every trendy hairstyle or outfit isn't becoming on everybody.

I think having an Odell type hairstyle (Mohawk or blowout with taper) with some blond highlight would look better on some men.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 16:48:55     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

I did a thread on the issue of escorts some time ago.
It seems many of those ads are FAKE - which only adds
to the frustration of guys like the OP.

http://bgclive.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1109577


Lawd have mercy....now I don't pay for dyck but that pic would make me consider. Well nah...cuz if I get a piece of that...I would want more and go broke.

But yeah a lot of escort profiles are catfish and they use super hot guys like that to lure the tricks and the busy and DL men in who don't have time to court a dude.

What people need to realize...what looks too good to be true probably is.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 16:39:17     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

I can't pull the types of dudes I want, which are both masculine/straight acting and good-looking. All of these dudes are either straight or bi but unavailable...I've been in this lifestyle for more than several years so I know. Whenever I have fallen in love with a guy I was really attracted to and interested in, the dude has always left abruptly, vanished, gone ghost, played games, and just broken my heart. It's never failed once; I've always seemed to repel men, for some reason, even the ones who started out pursuing me. I've literally never been in a relationship and I'm in my 30s. I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not meant to ever have love or a relationship, at least not in my good years.

I've never liked the idea of paying for sex, but honestly, I work at a warehouse where sexy mofos are all over the place. I mean Miami Sizzle doesn't even hold a torch to the sexiness I am inundated daily, but because I'm not out or clockable, and on top of that me being socially awkward (shy) it's really impossible to pull anyone or to know who gets down. And I'm sexually frustrated. I live in a small country-like town where no matter what gay site or app I go on I see the same people all the time and I'm not attracted to any of them, sadly. On top of that, there are no strip clubs around here, barely any gay clubs at all. All of the fine men are ON MY JOB; it's crazy! Has to be like 30 or 40 of them. All walking around in shorts, sweats, and wife-beaters, muscles rippling, popping and bulging (among other things bulging) and glistening with sweat! You can tell most of them work out.

I know you have to be careful in the workplace about sexual harassment as it's pretty broad, so leaves very little room for flirting, so I was thinking about writing my number, in a very discreet way, in the two main bathroom stalls and offer money to these dudes to let me blow them or something. I think I'm just about to be a hoe. If I can't get a relationship, at least I can get some of the dick that I want.

I know y'all are about to drag me, lol, and I'm cool with that. I'm just being honest. I'm tired of this dick drought. I'm cool with paying for it, at this point.

2017-09-03 19:46:24

Dick is dick, whether it's from a mediocre looking dude or a very attractive dude. If a dude hits you up for ass and is `somewhat` your type it would behoove you to get that dick and put the face of one of your co-workers on that nigga and call it a day...

Paying for sex is an option, but just because these dudes who take funds for sex, does not mean you are the only one who is paying them. A friend of mines has this old white man who pays my friend to pull young black guys and then he pays the guys as well. My friend say I would not believe how sexy these young strapping black dudes are who take a hundred dollars from this old white man and he gets to do whatever wants to them and sometimes they fuck his flat white ass and he fucks them sometimes...as well as them sucking him.

2017-09-06 13:59:29

I think u missing the OP's point. He having a hard time finding those men that he is sexually attracted to. U know..the dudes that make his thang get brick.

He likes the very masculine, muscular bodied, straight/trade types. What he doesn't realize is that its difficult to get those types if u not a tranny, fem, openly gay...plus he shy and socially awkward as well. That's another issue that hinders him...which would still be difficult for him if he was a socially butterfly cuz its hard to find the alpha men, the masculine aggressive and really straight behaving men. Plus u know our black men have high standards of hypermasculinity and aggression.

2017-09-06 16:00:38

Those stupid fuck twats have poor reading comprehension.
I totally understand what the OP was trying to convey.
However, there will never be a solution to the biological anomaly
that presents itself as homosexual attraction. Gay men are naturally
attracted to the heterosexual frequencies emitted from straight men.
There is no getting around it. Sexual frustration will forever be the best
friend of gay men Confused

Amen....well said!

A lot of us (not all) are attracted to that masculine energy, vibes, frequencies, etc. as well as the anatomies that a lot of heterosexual men have. Whether we are fem, masc, flaming, trans, etc. most of us want that type of niqqa.

I just worry about how we gonna adapt when we get older and if something unfortunate happens to our appearance like Father Time hitting and us not aging gracefully. Paying for dyck/azz just aint gonna be fulfilling and satisfying. It really would be good for us WHO ARE RELATIONSHIP ORIENTED and COMFORTABLE ENOUGH with our orientation to get in a long term relationship or get married.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 15:06:48     Post subject: Why do they do that?

It happened to me so many times...whereas it got me considering talking solely to females.

I figure why get with a dude if he wanna act so fem. I don't have problems with fems but that shyt don't get me sexually aroused. Then, dudes doing more shyt to themselves to make them more fem like take hormones, arch eyebrows, wear weaves, feminine or more adrogenous clothing, etc. I just don't get why they be frontin so hard...some do a total 180 when u actually talk to them on the phone or meet them. Probably they lying just to try to fulfill the high masculinity demands of other gay men who don't wanna "dyke."
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 15:00:20     Post subject: Florida you in danger girl

I hope that bytch don't fuk up and flood up VA too much. My area can only take but so much water.

I read that shyt fuked up St Martin and will hit Puerto Rico today/tonight.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 14:58:03     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

I can't pull the types of dudes I want, which are both masculine/straight acting and good-looking. All of these dudes are either straight or bi but unavailable...I've been in this lifestyle for more than several years so I know. Whenever I have fallen in love with a guy I was really attracted to and interested in, the dude has always left abruptly, vanished, gone ghost, played games, and just broken my heart. It's never failed once; I've always seemed to repel men, for some reason, even the ones who started out pursuing me. I've literally never been in a relationship and I'm in my 30s. I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not meant to ever have love or a relationship, at least not in my good years.

I've never liked the idea of paying for sex, but honestly, I work at a warehouse where sexy mofos are all over the place. I mean Miami Sizzle doesn't even hold a torch to the sexiness I am inundated daily, but because I'm not out or clockable, and on top of that me being socially awkward (shy) it's really impossible to pull anyone or to know who gets down. And I'm sexually frustrated. I live in a small country-like town where no matter what gay site or app I go on I see the same people all the time and I'm not attracted to any of them, sadly. On top of that, there are no strip clubs around here, barely any gay clubs at all. All of the fine men are ON MY JOB; it's crazy! Has to be like 30 or 40 of them. All walking around in shorts, sweats, and wife-beaters, muscles rippling, popping and bulging (among other things bulging) and glistening with sweat! You can tell most of them work out.

I know you have to be careful in the workplace about sexual harassment as it's pretty broad, so leaves very little room for flirting, so I was thinking about writing my number, in a very discreet way, in the two main bathroom stalls and offer money to these dudes to let me blow them or something. I think I'm just about to be a hoe. If I can't get a relationship, at least I can get some of the dick that I want.

I know y'all are about to drag me, lol, and I'm cool with that. I'm just being honest. I'm tired of this dick drought. I'm cool with paying for it, at this point.

2017-09-03 19:46:24

Dick is dick, whether it's from a mediocre looking dude or a very attractive dude. If a dude hits you up for ass and is `somewhat` your type it would behoove you to get that dick and put the face of one of your co-workers on that nigga and call it a day...

Paying for sex is an option, but just because these dudes who take funds for sex, does not mean you are the only one who is paying them. A friend of mines has this old white man who pays my friend to pull young black guys and then he pays the guys as well. My friend say I would not believe how sexy these young strapping black dudes are who take a hundred dollars from this old white man and he gets to do whatever wants to them and sometimes they fuck his flat white ass and he fucks them sometimes...as well as them sucking him.

2017-09-06 13:59:29

I think u missing the OP's point. He having a hard time finding those men that he is sexually attracted to. U know..the dudes that make his thang get brick.

He likes the very masculine, muscular bodied, straight/trade types. What he doesn't realize is that its difficult to get those types if u not a tranny, fem, openly gay...plus he shy and socially awkward as well. That's another issue that hinders him...which would still be difficult for him if he was a socially butterfly cuz its hard to find the alpha men, the masculine aggressive and really straight behaving men. Plus u know our black men have high standards of hypermasculinity and aggression.

2017-09-06 14:39:26

I understood quite well what he was trying to convey. What I was saying to him is, he is not going to always get what he wants, that`s why he needs to change his attitude and diversify his portfolio. Just because he seeks certain qualities in a man does not mean that those types of men want him. Remember, it works both ways....

It is however, very foolish for someone to sit around and wait or look for ALL of these qualities in one man instead of just taking one or two qualities in a man that they like and move forward with that.

From what he is basically saying is he needs all these qualities and needs dick...Let`s say, if he finds all these qualities in a dude and when it gets to the bedroom part and dude pulls out an erect 5 inch dick, then where does that leave the situation...Again, it`s foolish that gay men sit around and acquire this checklist of things they want in one person and just go through life waiting and waiting, for this checklist to reveal itself. And another sad thing is, in the meantime, they will fuck various dudes who don`t have the qualities they look for or may have few of the qualities they look for just to knock the edge off while they wait for Mr. Right/Mr. Perfect. So if they are fucking mediocre dudes, why not just date them - but instead the poster would rather pay for this fantasy that will last a nutt and then he`s back to square one. Gay men need to think logically.

Ok I feel u. He like females...want that perfect black man...with swag, muscles, charisma, game, ozzing sex appeal, etc...and some females are basic as fuk but want top tier men....hence the 80/20 rule.

But ur right...he could find a man that has SOME of the qualities that he is looking for. Its just that when folks settle...its hard to sustain a relationship. If another or should I say a more viable option presents itself..then he probably gonna cheat. Donno if that will work. Plus he wants his fix of a masculine muscular straight type man.

I just think he gonna regret hiring escorts because a lot of them catfish from what I hear....and its probably some queen pretending to be a masculine top trade...and that's something he probably could get for free.

U make good points tho...its hard for most people in the world (regardless of gender, sexual orientation, age, etc.) to find that perfect Mr./Ms. Right.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 14:45:57     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

I can't pull the types of dudes I want, which are both masculine/straight acting and good-looking. All of these dudes are either straight or bi but unavailable...I've been in this lifestyle for more than several years so I know. Whenever I have fallen in love with a guy I was really attracted to and interested in, the dude has always left abruptly, vanished, gone ghost, played games, and just broken my heart. It's never failed once; I've always seemed to repel men, for some reason, even the ones who started out pursuing me. I've literally never been in a relationship and I'm in my 30s. I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not meant to ever have love or a relationship, at least not in my good years.

I've never liked the idea of paying for sex, but honestly, I work at a warehouse where sexy mofos are all over the place. I mean Miami Sizzle doesn't even hold a torch to the sexiness I am inundated with daily, but because I'm not out or clockable, and on top of that me being socially awkward (shy) it's really impossible to pull anyone or to know who gets down. And I'm sexually frustrated. I live in a small country-like town where no matter what gay site or app I go on I see the same people all the time and I'm not attracted to any of them, sadly. On top of that, there are no strip clubs around here, barely any gay clubs at all. All of the fine men are ON MY JOB; it's crazy! Has to be like 30 or 40 of them. All walking around in shorts, sweats, and wife-beaters, muscles rippling, popping and bulging (among other things bulging) and glistening with sweat! You can tell most of them work out.

I know you have to be careful in the workplace about sexual harassment as it's pretty broad, so leaves very little room for flirting, so I was thinking about writing my number, in a very discreet way, in the two main bathroom stalls and offer money to these dudes to let me blow them or something. I think I'm just about to be a hoe. If I can't get a relationship, at least I can get some of the dick that I want.

I know y'all are about to drag me, lol, and I'm cool with that. I'm just being honest. I'm tired of this dick drought. I'm cool with paying for it, at this point.

OP,

I understand what u saying. I am kinda in ur situation but I am more social than what I used to be (which was quiet). Also, I know that paying for dyck is not gonna work.

First of all..I have a friend who I talk to from time to time and he is a big dude who is well known in the local gay black community and knows everyone's "tea." He tells me that a lot of those guys who escort are really queens, butch queens or formal drag queens or trannies and they catfish on backpg, craigs lst, and the apps and use "muscular trade" pics just to fool clients. He said that very few of those ads have real pics. They do that to trick the tricks and trade. That wont satisfy u.

U have to realize that its difficult to find what me and you are looking for..which is a sexy, very masculine, muscular bodied, straight type dude with charisma, swag, and the type who takes control and will get behind u and rub on u and make u feel like u his bottom niqqa. These gay men out here are just too soft, effeminate, and flaming to make a vers btm like me feel like that. Hell these supposedly tops and vers dudes make me wanna fuk them (if I even feel an attraction) and I am a vers btm. This is one reason why so much "dyking" be going on...cuz of the lack of truly masculine men.

To attract ur type...u will have to work on ur social skills and not be so shy and socially awkward. Its already hard to find an attractive truly masculine dude in this life...don't let ur lack of social skills hinder u even more.

U may have to open up more and get to know people. Getting to know people will allow them to be more comfortable around u. U also have to pick up on social cues, body language, etc and read between the lines. Sometimes pulling trade u have to be very perceptive cuz a DL trade aint gonna put himself out there like a queen would with nothing to lose. And even then...it still can be difficult.

I also realize that the fems, trannies, drag queens, etc. pull the type of men we like sometimes. U may have to do that to pull...I cant tho..it aint in me to cross-dress but I can be a bottom submissive behind closed doors. May have to be real in ur online profile/app profile to attract what u want.

Don't mean to type so much but I feel u. Also, if u want dudes with nice bodies...go to the gym more so u can work on urs. Plus many fine dudes be in some of these gyms...its just that gyms also attract fem gay men...which isn't my preference. Then u would have to be more social to get to know other masc dudes in gyms. Most dudes either be by themselves or be lifting with their boys or other dudes they met at the gym.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 14:20:46     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

This is why you motherfuckers need to stop coddling DL motherfuckers. These are the type of shenanigans they pull when they eventually do cross over because they feel they've lost so much time. I wouldn't be shocked if the OP stalked tumblr pages nightly for a fix of what a "real nigga" is. :/

Yeah some of us do coddle DL dudes but if the OP is only super attracted to masculine muscular trade/straight type dudes...he cant help that. Lets be real...its hard to find a masculine (well by heterosexual black standards) man in this lifestyle. A lot of those self-proclaimed masculine gay men online are just butch queens and aren't nearly as masculine as they claim...and will fem out or queen out on u when the first Beyoncé/Rihanna or female rap song plays.

Again...for OP to attract what he wants..he may have to be more open, and social....and even then its still hard to find that good looking, hyper masculine, muscular bodied straight type man. Hell, he may have to cross dress or be a tranny to get that type.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 14:06:01     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

I can't pull the types of dudes I want, which are both masculine/straight acting and good-looking. All of these dudes are either straight or bi but unavailable...I've been in this lifestyle for more than several years so I know. Whenever I have fallen in love with a guy I was really attracted to and interested in, the dude has always left abruptly, vanished, gone ghost, played games, and just broken my heart. It's never failed once; I've always seemed to repel men, for some reason, even the ones who started out pursuing me. I've literally never been in a relationship and I'm in my 30s. I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not meant to ever have love or a relationship, at least not in my good years.

I've never liked the idea of paying for sex, but honestly, I work at a warehouse where sexy mofos are all over the place. I mean Miami Sizzle doesn't even hold a torch to the sexiness I am inundated with daily, but because I'm not out or clockable, and on top of that me being socially awkward (shy) it's really impossible to pull anyone or to know who gets down. And I'm sexually frustrated. I live in a small country-like town where no matter what gay site or app I go on I see the same people all the time and I'm not attracted to any of them, sadly. On top of that, there are no strip clubs around here, barely any gay clubs at all. All of the fine men are ON MY JOB; it's crazy! Has to be like 30 or 40 of them. All walking around in shorts, sweats, and wife-beaters, muscles rippling, popping and bulging (among other things bulging) and glistening with sweat! You can tell most of them work out.

I know you have to be careful in the workplace about sexual harassment as it's pretty broad, so leaves very little room for flirting, so I was thinking about writing my number, in a very discreet way, in the two main bathroom stalls and offer money to these dudes to let me blow them or something. I think I'm just about to be a hoe. If I can't get a relationship, at least I can get some of the dick that I want.

I know y'all are about to drag me, lol, and I'm cool with that. I'm just being honest. I'm tired of this dick drought. I'm cool with paying for it, at this point.

2017-09-03 20:11:00

It doesn't sound like the problem is you.

I think you need to save up and move.

Find somewhere where you could have steady employment and a "gay scene" you can tolerate.

You can browse BGC by state and look at the pickings.

gay scene??

Yall are confused on what the OP is saying. He wants masculine, muscular bodied, hardcore straight type men. He wants the dudes who work production jobs, have bulging muscles, high level of aggression and masculinity, and he wants to be their bytch. You not gonna find those types at a gay setting where its full of queens, butch queens, trannies, and if u see masculine and muscular bodied men...some tranny or queen already got them.

I realized its so hard to find a truly masculine straight type man in the life. U have to be a tranny, drag queen or a fem to attract the truly masculine men. Lots of gay men say they are masculine and unclockable when they actually aren't.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 13:59:29     Post subject: I'm about ready to pay for some dick

2017-09-03 19:35:07

I can't pull the types of dudes I want, which are both masculine/straight acting and good-looking. All of these dudes are either straight or bi but unavailable...I've been in this lifestyle for more than several years so I know. Whenever I have fallen in love with a guy I was really attracted to and interested in, the dude has always left abruptly, vanished, gone ghost, played games, and just broken my heart. It's never failed once; I've always seemed to repel men, for some reason, even the ones who started out pursuing me. I've literally never been in a relationship and I'm in my 30s. I've come to the conclusion that I'm just not meant to ever have love or a relationship, at least not in my good years.

I've never liked the idea of paying for sex, but honestly, I work at a warehouse where sexy mofos are all over the place. I mean Miami Sizzle doesn't even hold a torch to the sexiness I am inundated daily, but because I'm not out or clockable, and on top of that me being socially awkward (shy) it's really impossible to pull anyone or to know who gets down. And I'm sexually frustrated. I live in a small country-like town where no matter what gay site or app I go on I see the same people all the time and I'm not attracted to any of them, sadly. On top of that, there are no strip clubs around here, barely any gay clubs at all. All of the fine men are ON MY JOB; it's crazy! Has to be like 30 or 40 of them. All walking around in shorts, sweats, and wife-beaters, muscles rippling, popping and bulging (among other things bulging) and glistening with sweat! You can tell most of them work out.

I know you have to be careful in the workplace about sexual harassment as it's pretty broad, so leaves very little room for flirting, so I was thinking about writing my number, in a very discreet way, in the two main bathroom stalls and offer money to these dudes to let me blow them or something. I think I'm just about to be a hoe. If I can't get a relationship, at least I can get some of the dick that I want.

I know y'all are about to drag me, lol, and I'm cool with that. I'm just being honest. I'm tired of this dick drought. I'm cool with paying for it, at this point.

2017-09-03 19:46:24

Dick is dick, whether it's from a mediocre looking dude or a very attractive dude. If a dude hits you up for ass and is `somewhat` your type it would behoove you to get that dick and put the face of one of your co-workers on that nigga and call it a day...

Paying for sex is an option, but just because these dudes who take funds for sex, does not mean you are the only one who is paying them. A friend of mines has this old white man who pays my friend to pull young black guys and then he pays the guys as well. My friend say I would not believe how sexy these young strapping black dudes are who take a hundred dollars from this old white man and he gets to do whatever wants to them and sometimes they fuck his flat white ass and he fucks them sometimes...as well as them sucking him.

I think u missing the OP's point. He having a hard time finding those men that he is sexually attracted to. U know..the dudes that make his thang get brick.

He likes the very masculine, muscular bodied, straight/trade types. What he doesn't realize is that its difficult to get those types if u not a tranny, fem, openly gay...plus he shy and socially awkward as well. That's another issue that hinders him...which would still be difficult for him if he was a socially butterfly cuz its hard to find the alpha men, the masculine aggressive and really straight behaving men. Plus u know our black men have high standards of hypermasculinity and aggression.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-06 10:36:15     Post subject: BEING TALENTED

mickey_ wrote:
1504580671 Depends on the talent

Prime example Male Makeup Artist, Hair dressers, and Designers all well respected talents specially for gay men.
weaver24 wrote:
1504637377 This is true....homosexual males dominate certain industries like beauty, fashion, hair, design, theatre, etc. They are respected in those "less masculine" fields.

In more masc fields...homosexual men wouldn't be as accepted like masculine sports like bball, football, etc. Most of those SGL men are DL.
mickey_ wrote:
1504657625 Absolutely but times are changing we have openly gay NFL players and NBA players now. We even have openly gay wrestlers so times are changing
Times are changing but not as progressive as u think.

We don't have many openly NBA and NFL players. Mike Sams came out and look at how his career panned out. Teams find being openly gay and the media so focused on it as a distraction plus hetero players aren't really receptive to openly gay players. Most players come out after they retired or towards the end of their career like that NBA player Jason Collins. He came out one year before he stopped getting contracts. Odell Beckham (Giants wide receiver) and Jalen Ramsey (Jaguars cornerback) are hella suspect but those guys didn't officially come out yet....and there is a reason why.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 14:19:48     Post subject: Getting what u want out of the life

2017-09-05 11:43:40

Jesus fucking christ...Masculinity over respect.

Yall niggas funny style fr.

No u can be respectful and masculine.

Its just with feminine men...why get with them if u can get with a woman. I just crave that masculine energy, touch and body. These fems online and in the clubs and gay functions just don't deliver and too fem, catty and do shyt to make themselves more fem than what they are like arching eyebrows, wearing purses, tight clothes, flamboyant hairstyles, etc.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 14:17:14     Post subject: straight women hate masc gays and straight men hate fem gays

Yes this is usually the case. Heterosexual women aren't threatened by detectable and flaming SGL men but masculine SGL men who they find attractive upsets them. They see them being a waste and they feel insecure because a masculine and muscular man to them is supposed to be into feminine heterosexual woman...and that's weird to them that u don't find women attractive. They cant take it.

Heterosexual men hate feminine and flaming gay men because of male supremacy society. They feel that feminine men aren't real men and they should "man up" and fuk pussie.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 14:11:48     Post subject: Getting what u want out of the life

2017-09-05 11:43:40

Talk to niggas respectfully, and get ignored.
Talk to them like a worthless faggot, and they address u.

~refer to no expectations~

Yeah its similar to real females...they prefer thugs, athletes, and alpha males over nice guys cuz being nice and respectful in their minds can equate to being boring, lame, square, too stable, etc.

IMO, being respectful is fine but a man still needs to be a man. That means being tough, aggressive, macho and alpha. Sometimes I just crave that masculine aura with that masculine muscular body and voice.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 13:54:35     Post subject: On The Down-Low

2017-08-30 06:37:22

Very well put.

Out niggas should not be fucking with dl niggas, because of just what you said. If you out and proud, then why tf you fuckin with a dl nigga? Confused I mean, it is not a puzzle.

Yup...especially if they looking for something serious like a relationship. A hook up is ok as long as both know what to expect.

Some out men want to out everyone else out of spite and evilness. They not doing it to help the person.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 13:49:37     Post subject: BEING TALENTED

mickey_ wrote:
1504580671 Depends on the talent

Prime example Male Makeup Artist, Hair dressers, and Designers all well respected talents specially for gay men.
This is true....homosexual males dominate certain industries like beauty, fashion, hair, design, theatre, etc. They are respected in those "less masculine" fields.

In more masc fields...homosexual men wouldn't be as accepted like masculine sports like bball, football, etc. Most of those SGL men are DL.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 13:32:58     Post subject: Getting what u want out of the life

2017-09-05 11:43:40

Umma need you to get over here hoe, and suck my dick. Do it now! Wash the dishes and cook me dinner while you at it.

If u cute enough...I can do that.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 13:21:59     Post subject: Fem bottoms, alas...

2017-07-09 22:12:58

I live and love all my LGBTQ people, gems too. However, all you undercover fems pretending to be NOT FEM will be exposed and embarrassed if you don't start being TRUE and honest about who you Are from the gate. Do NOT GET in front of me and I discover that you LIED about who you represented yourself to be. Just BE YOU. BE FEM, if you fem...OWN IT.

I don't get ur issue with fems if u a real woman or transgendered. First of all, fem men (well I assume) aren't in ur scope of dateable men. Cant see too many fem men wanting women and don't see a whole lot of females and trannies wanting fem or flaming men.

Yes people need to be themselves but lets be real...society isn't exactly set up like that...especially depending on where u reside.

Just not sure why u against frontin fems...if anything...us SGL men should be....not a supposedly REAL FEMALE.
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PostPosted: 2017-09-05 11:43:40     Post subject: Getting what u want out of the life

Just curious, are any of yall not getting what yall want out of the life. Does this lifestyle fulfill u and give u want u need sexually, romantically, mentally, etc.?

I'm realizing that as a vers btm...its hard finding men who are masculine, aggressive, and alpha in this life. Most dudes are either too soft, feminine, flamboyant and even the so called tops just don't know how to have that masculine aura, touch, feel, and disposition.

Sometimes I want to be held, grabbed, caressed, touched like a bytch. I aint gonna lie. I look masculine (very masculine gender expression) but behind closed doors...I want to be a bytch 80% of the times. Its just hard finding a masculine man in this lifestyle with those primal vibes that knows how to attract a submissive man. Hell..even females nowadays complain that men out here nowadays aren't real men. Why u think women and homo men love thugs, bad boys, athletes, and alpha males so much...its cuz they have that game, swag, that aggressive demeanor, and wont take any BS. They are leaders, providers, and will always assert themselves and take control. I feel what those women saying...and I like women too...but I might as well try to attract one mentally cuz I am not getting what I need from the life...just totally unsatisfied.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-11 13:16:29     Post subject: Four men used Grindr to lure men, and rob them

This is sad.

Like one said, this is our only reliable venue to meet other bi and homo men nowadays...unless u attend clubs or openly homo with a huge social circle. Most gays have so much drama and cattiness where they can't keep relationships and friendships.

I always want to meet dudes in a public place but most not down with that.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-11 13:09:58     Post subject: Four men used Grindr to lure men, and rob them

This is sad.

Like one said, this is our only reliable venue to meet other bi and homo men nowadays...unless u attend clubs or openly homo with a huge social circle. Most gays have so much drama and cattiness where they can't keep relationships and friendships.

I always want to meet dudes in a public place but most not down with that.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-11 13:01:03     Post subject: Safaree

He cute and sexy but always came off as kinda gay to me. I thought his and Nicki relationship was an arranged relationship.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-08 18:11:03     Post subject: The Nerd or The Cool Cat.

Which one is the top and which one has the best body/sex appeal?
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PostPosted: 2017-05-08 17:50:58     Post subject: YOU EVER HIT UP SOMEONE WITH NORMAL PROFILE, BUT THEY ESCORT

Yes because some know prostitution is illegal and some dont wanna pay for the escort profiles. They also took that away from backpg so the escorts are looking for other "lanes" for their business.

Its so sad so many black men in the life are selling their bodies. I also heard from a local homosexual who is well known in the local MSM community that a lot be escorting and getting fake pics from tumblr....so yall who sponsor or trick....BEWARE
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PostPosted: 2017-05-08 17:48:04     Post subject: Why do they use straight men...

2017-05-08 10:23:30




In most popular homosexual movies, modeling ads, party flyers and sitcoms?

I also noticed that the polls with attractive men you are being told to pick from are mostly straight.

What is this!

Don't homosexuals find other homosexuals attractive?

Its due to a combination of our homosexual orientation plus social conditioning. Men on this site are at least bisexual...and we like masculinity because we have homosexual tendencies. A lot of homosexuals and bisexuals feel if u get with a man...get with one who is a 100% man and that they LOOK, BEHAVE, WALK, TALK, and DRESS like a man and have other masculine related characteristics.

Being with a man who doesnt have a masculine anatomy or doesnt behave, dress and talk at least masculine enough makes u feel like u missing something and wanna either settle with a real female who u can have a baby with and be socially acceptable or seek that masculinity.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-08 17:42:25     Post subject: Which dude is more your type....

A but both seem like bottoms who would get fem behind closed doors.
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PostPosted: 2017-04-28 10:05:47     Post subject: Chi Asks: Caring for homophobic parents?

It would be awful if u a homosexual male takes care of ur parents, and they leave yo azz out the will because they feel u have the homosexual demons in u.
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PostPosted: 2017-04-28 10:02:08     Post subject: Female Privilege

Do any of yall wish yall were born a natural female and was able to get the privileges that women get due to society. With gender roles and dynamics along with how society is, women have less burdens than men. Men are expected to be the bread winners and sometimes sole providers, which is hard nowadays due to inflation and how high shyt is nowadays. Homes and nice apts and condos are designed for TWO incomes. Some women revert to antiquated thinking and tell their men they don't wanna work, quit their jobs and say a man needs to pay for everything. That's hard because with feminism and women's rights...women are doing the thing in the workforce and making just as much as men if not more. For those who like and date women too, how do yall deal with the gender dynamics? With how things are nowadays, heterosexual women don't really need men except to have a baby...and she can get a sperm donor or have a one night stand to do that.

Next, men are expected to be the aggressors and always pursue women. A man especially a black man is expected to be aggressive, dominant, the life of the party, socially ept, Kevin Hart-Katt Williams-Chris Rock type funny, gregarious, and able to pull women easily. Men's value well heterosexual men value is measured by how many women he can pull and his ability to pull women. I know some of you homosexual men don't understand this but back in the day...male friends and associates will call u lame if u cant pull women or struggle with females. With women, u don't have to be socially ept, funny, the life of the party, or approachable to get dyck. Hell u don't have to be universally attractive for a woman to get dyck. I see many fat and unattractive and bad built women easily get dyck especially if she can carry her obesity well. Hell a Star Jones, old Monique, and a Loni Love can easily get dyck from a dude like Denzel, Michael Ealy, Morris Chestnut, or Shemar Moore. And even Chris Rock said...a bytch like Rosie O'Donnell can go to a black club and pull nyggaz with ease and she don't even like men. She got the white and woman privileges.

Do any of yall wish yall were women so you can get thru life just because u have a vagina? And imagine if yall were attractive women like Meagan Goode, Gabrielle Union, Rihanna, Beyoncé, Ciara type broads....yall would have no problem getting top tier dyck.
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