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Forum :  Topic : Pro-Tip

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PostPosted: 16 mins ago    Post subject: Pro-Tip

8 hrs ago

Listen yall ... please be very, very careful about selecting external references when applying for jobs.

Do NOT leave the fate of your employment with a fake, hating ass coworker/teammate who is MAD that you are trying to get up in the world.

If only people knew the things their external references say about them when chatting with recruiters ... my God.

I just read the shadiest external reference in all of my years. The candidate is applying for a senior role, too.

That will be all.

I don't even list references on my resume. Especially working in Healthcare where it's extremely cut throat. My experience and personality does enough to get me the job.
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Forum :  Topic : 2 times Tuesdays, pick 1 for now, & 1 for later.

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PostPosted: 5 hrs ago    Post subject:

G and C
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Forum :  Topic : The Sense of Entitlement

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PostPosted: 5 hrs ago    Post subject: The Sense of Entitlement

4 days ago

Among people nowadays is almost at claustrophobic levels Confused MFs think they should be able to start at president with 0 fucking years of experience. O and don't even mention material shit. smmfh.

People, in general, are not willing to wait anymore. They all seem to want to step into success right away, preferably at someone's expense.

I really wish people would slow down. Learn to crawl before you can walk.

12 hrs ago

12 hrs ago

I knew a ts I met off here who had these completely outrageous expectations. She works in a bank and was making some okay money, but her thinking was cray! She just KNEW she was going to be the next queen of the planet. When I would tell her to pump the brakes, she would lose her mind saying, "You just don't want me to be successful" smmfh I hear she lives in TX now Neutral

11 hrs ago

That's ridiculous!!! She needs psychiatric help. It's good to have a regular savings and an emergency savings account.

10 hrs ago

People today seem to think that being successful comes with no risk or sacrifice at all.

Exactly!!!! No realizing that br successful takes time and very hard work, which alot of people don't want to do. Alot of them feel success should be given to them without the work which is ridiculous in my eye.
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Forum :  Topic : The Sense of Entitlement

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PostPosted: 11 hrs ago    Post subject: The Sense of Entitlement

4 days ago

Among people nowadays is almost at claustrophobic levels Confused MFs think they should be able to start at president with 0 fucking years of experience. O and don't even mention material shit. smmfh.

People, in general, are not willing to wait anymore. They all seem to want to step into success right away, preferably at someone's expense.

I really wish people would slow down. Learn to crawl before you can walk.

12 hrs ago

12 hrs ago

I knew a ts I met off here who had these completely outrageous expectations. She works in a bank and was making some okay money, but her thinking was cray! She just KNEW she was going to be the next queen of the planet. When I would tell her to pump the brakes, she would lose her mind saying, "You just don't want me to be successful" smmfh I hear she lives in TX now Neutral

That's ridiculous!!! She needs psychiatric help. It's good to have a regular savings and an emergency savings account.
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Forum :  Topic : The Sense of Entitlement

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PostPosted: 12 hrs ago    Post subject: The Sense of Entitlement

4 days ago

Among people nowadays is almost at claustrophobic levels Confused MFs think they should be able to start at president with 0 fucking years of experience. O and don't even mention material shit. smmfh.

People, in general, are not willing to wait anymore. They all seem to want to step into success right away, preferably at someone's expense.

I really wish people would slow down. Learn to crawl before you can walk.

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Forum :  Topic : Pick 1

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PostPosted: 20 hrs ago    Post subject:

1 days ago

3rd guy chocolate with tats

1 days ago

HE DO GOTTA NICE BODY BUT HE UGLY AS SHIT LMAOOO

1 days ago

I can always bag his head.

1 days ago

YESSSSSSS. LMAOOO

Lmao hells yeaaaa!!!!
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Forum :  Topic : Who Likes To Cuddle?

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PostPosted: 1 days ago    Post subject: Who Likes To Cuddle?

1 days ago

No, not lay up in order to fuck. Confused I mean holding that special someone while you talk about whatever or nothing at all.

How many of you yearn for that close contact that is more intimate than getting a dick in your boy pussy or sucking a dick like a baby sucks on a bottle?

Love cuddling and listening to soft music like slow jams are a nice soothing jazz like John Coltrane from Love Jones.
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Forum :  Topic : Which one is your favorite way to kiss? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜™

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PostPosted: 1 days ago    Post subject: Which one is your favorite way to kiss? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜™

2 days ago



I love 3 through 5. These two were cute and ready to fuck. Mmmm. I love to kiss and get kissed on the neck. Shit drives me wild.

3 through 5 will have me ready.
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Forum :  Topic : Man Crush Monday, pick 1 to start the work week with.

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PostPosted: 1 days ago    Post subject:

G
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Forum :  Topic : Pick 1

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PostPosted: 1 days ago    Post subject:

1 days ago

3rd guy chocolate with tats

1 days ago

HE DO GOTTA NICE BODY BUT HE UGLY AS SHIT LMAOOO

I can always bag his head.
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Forum :  Topic : Pick 1

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PostPosted: 1 days ago    Post subject:

3rd guy chocolate with tats
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Forum :  Topic : Which one were you the best at growing up?

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PostPosted: 1 days ago    Post subject: Which one were you the best at growing up?

1 days ago

Which one were you the best at growing up?

Me 1. 2. 3.,i could damn near build anything with legos,used to shock older people.

Damn,with all these colors i noticed it look like gay pride,lol.


1.Legos


2.Playdoh


3.Painting/finger painting


4.Jump rope


5.Hula hoop

Neither. I didn't play with any of those choices growing up.
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Forum :  Topic : Invite 1 over for Sunday dinner.

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject:

2 days ago

All of them but G can stay for Netflix and chill.

2 days ago

What's wrong with G?

Absolutely nothing I was saying he could stay after dinner for Netflix and chill with me. Lol
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Forum :  Topic : Home/Condo Owners

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: Home/Condo Owners

2 days ago

I'm interested in learning more about the demographics and non-sexual lifestyle choices of those who are on BGC.

If you don't mind--

What's your location?

How big is your condo/home?

-Do you own? If you rent but can afford to own, why you rent?

-Monthly mortgage/rent


I'll start.

-Location: Honolulu, HI

-Condo size: just over 1,000 square feet (2 bed, one bathroom)

-Own or rent: own

-Monthly mortgage: about $2,300 a month plus $700 in monthly association fees

2 days ago

Location: Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area

Condo size(Actually an Apt.): 1100 sqft. 2 bedroom 2 bath, huge kitchen, crown molding, 10 ft ceilings, walk in closets in both bedrooms

Own or rent: Renting currently to repair my credit and also planningon going back to school to finish Nursing.

Monthly rent: 1380 (includes valet trash, water, sewer, and pest control)

2 days ago

Thanks for sharing!

When do you see yourself ready to buy? I wish I was in Texas now so that I could take advantage of more affordable housing.

2 days ago

You're welcome!!! I see myself buying within 2 to 3 years from now. The housing market here is expensive right. A lot of people from California are coming here paying cash for 300, 400, and 500 thousand dollars for homes.

2 days ago

That's great! And its good to see folks out there doing what they have to do

I know exactly what you mean with the all cash offers/transactions. I have a mortgage, but when I was going through the house hunting process, I was constantly told by my real estate agent that there was a decent chance that a Chinese owner could come and offer cash for the property I was looking at (it happens a lot out here). For this reason, I offered the asking price and didn't try to negotiate down (thankfully, the appraisal came back at asking price).

I couldn't see myself living in a proper house now, though. I was raised in houses (well, townhouses, brownstones, etc.), but I actually like living in an apartment/condo setting now.

2 days ago

Ohhh wow!!! If you sold your place there and came here to buy you could easily pay for a house and probably won't end up with a mortgage. I'm still trying to become more established since I moved here nearly two years ago from Louisiana. It's hard but I'm not giving up.

2 days ago

I need to build some more equity in it first, but such a plan (perhaps not to Texas exactly but who knows) is definitely on the horizon.

I don't blame you!!! I thought about visiting Denver to see what it is like there. I could see myself living there and Seattle.
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Forum :  Topic : Home/Condo Owners

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: Home/Condo Owners

2 days ago

I'm interested in learning more about the demographics and non-sexual lifestyle choices of those who are on BGC.

If you don't mind--

What's your location?

How big is your condo/home?

-Do you own? If you rent but can afford to own, why you rent?

-Monthly mortgage/rent


I'll start.

-Location: Honolulu, HI

-Condo size: just over 1,000 square feet (2 bed, one bathroom)

-Own or rent: own

-Monthly mortgage: about $2,300 a month plus $700 in monthly association fees

2 days ago

Location: Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area

Condo size(Actually an Apt.): 1100 sqft. 2 bedroom 2 bath, huge kitchen, crown molding, 10 ft ceilings, walk in closets in both bedrooms

Own or rent: Renting currently to repair my credit and also planningon going back to school to finish Nursing.

Monthly rent: 1380 (includes valet trash, water, sewer, and pest control)

2 days ago

Thanks for sharing!

When do you see yourself ready to buy? I wish I was in Texas now so that I could take advantage of more affordable housing.

2 days ago

You're welcome!!! I see myself buying within 2 to 3 years from now. The housing market here is expensive right. A lot of people from California are coming here paying cash for 300, 400, and 500 thousand dollars for homes.

2 days ago

That's great! And its good to see folks out there doing what they have to do

I know exactly what you mean with the all cash offers/transactions. I have a mortgage, but when I was going through the house hunting process, I was constantly told by my real estate agent that there was a decent chance that a Chinese owner could come and offer cash for the property I was looking at (it happens a lot out here). For this reason, I offered the asking price and didn't try to negotiate down (thankfully, the appraisal came back at asking price).

I couldn't see myself living in a proper house now, though. I was raised in houses (well, townhouses, brownstones, etc.), but I actually like living in an apartment/condo setting now.

Ohhh wow!!! If you sold your place there and came here to buy you could easily pay for a house and probably won't end up with a mortgage. I'm still trying to become more established since I moved here nearly two years ago from Louisiana. It's hard but I'm not giving up.
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Forum :  Topic : Invite 1 over for Sunday dinner.

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject:

All of them but G can stay for Netflix and chill.
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Forum :  Topic : Home/Condo Owners

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: Home/Condo Owners

2 days ago

I'm interested in learning more about the demographics and non-sexual lifestyle choices of those who are on BGC.

If you don't mind--

What's your location?

How big is your condo/home?

-Do you own? If you rent but can afford to own, why you rent?

-Monthly mortgage/rent


I'll start.

-Location: Honolulu, HI

-Condo size: just over 1,000 square feet (2 bed, one bathroom)

-Own or rent: own

-Monthly mortgage: about $2,300 a month plus $700 in monthly association fees

2 days ago

Location: Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area

Condo size(Actually an Apt.): 1100 sqft. 2 bedroom 2 bath, huge kitchen, crown molding, 10 ft ceilings, walk in closets in both bedrooms

Own or rent: Renting currently to repair my credit and also planningon going back to school to finish Nursing.

Monthly rent: 1380 (includes valet trash, water, sewer, and pest control)

2 days ago

Thanks for sharing!

When do you see yourself ready to buy? I wish I was in Texas now so that I could take advantage of more affordable housing.

You're welcome!!! I see myself buying within 2 to 3 years from now. The housing market here is expensive right. A lot of people from California are coming here paying cash for 300, 400, and 500 thousand dollars for homes.
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Forum :  Topic : Home/Condo Owners

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: Home/Condo Owners

2 days ago

I'm interested in learning more about the demographics and non-sexual lifestyle choices of those who are on BGC.

If you don't mind--

What's your location?

How big is your condo/home?

-Do you own? If you rent but can afford to own, why you rent?

-Monthly mortgage/rent


I'll start.

-Location: Honolulu, HI

-Condo size: just over 1,000 square feet (2 bed, one bathroom)

-Own or rent: own

-Monthly mortgage: about $2,300 a month plus $700 in monthly association fees

Location: Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area

Condo size(Actually an Apt.): 1100 sqft. 2 bedroom 2 bath, huge kitchen, crown molding, 10 ft ceilings, walk in closets in both bedrooms

Own or rent: Renting currently to repair my credit and also planningon going back to school to finish Nursing.

Monthly rent: 1380 (includes valet trash, water, sewer, and pest control)
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Forum :  Topic : THE NECKED TRUTH

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: THE NECKED TRUTH

2 days ago

WHATS THE TRUTH ABOUT U SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT KNOW I'M A VERY INSECURE PERSON SOME THINGS I THINK I DO EVENTUALLY I BELIEVE I COULDN'T HAVE

2 days ago

Ohhh my!!! Is it a Libra thing to have big dicks? Because every Libra I personally know does have a huge package?

2 days ago

OMG @dorkie_tomboi JUST SAID THE SAME THING LMAOOO

2 days ago

I'm serious!!! Every Libra that I've encountered has had a big dick. Even the pornstar so BamBam, Czar, Carlito. But I love Libras they are sweet.

2 days ago

A LOT OF MY FAVORITE SINGERS ARE ACTUALLY LIBRAS

2 days ago

Ohhh!!! One of my best friends is a Libra. Sagittarius and Libras mesh well.

2 days ago

DAMN MAN U ARE SO RIGHT ME AND MY BROTHER GET ALONG WELL AND HES A SAGITTARIUS

Ohhh wow!!!!
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Forum :  Topic : THE NECKED TRUTH

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: THE NECKED TRUTH

2 days ago

WHATS THE TRUTH ABOUT U SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT KNOW I'M A VERY INSECURE PERSON SOME THINGS I THINK I DO EVENTUALLY I BELIEVE I COULDN'T HAVE

2 days ago

Ohhh my!!! Is it a Libra thing to have big dicks? Because every Libra I personally know does have a huge package?

2 days ago

OMG @dorkie_tomboi JUST SAID THE SAME THING LMAOOO

2 days ago

I'm serious!!! Every Libra that I've encountered has had a big dick. Even the pornstar so BamBam, Czar, Carlito. But I love Libras they are sweet.

2 days ago

A LOT OF MY FAVORITE SINGERS ARE ACTUALLY LIBRAS

Ohhh!!! One of my best friends is a Libra. Sagittarius and Libras mesh well.
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Forum :  Topic : THE NECKED TRUTH

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: THE NECKED TRUTH

2 days ago

WHATS THE TRUTH ABOUT U SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT KNOW I'M A VERY INSECURE PERSON SOME THINGS I THINK I DO EVENTUALLY I BELIEVE I COULDN'T HAVE

2 days ago

Ohhh my!!! Is it a Libra thing to have big dicks? Because every Libra I personally know does have a huge package?

2 days ago

OMG @dorkie_tomboi JUST SAID THE SAME THING LMAOOO

I'm serious!!! Every Libra that I've encountered has had a big dick. Even the pornstar so BamBam, Czar, Carlito. But I love Libras they are sweet.
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Forum :  Topic : THE NECKED TRUTH

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PostPosted: 2 days ago    Post subject: THE NECKED TRUTH

2 days ago

WHATS THE TRUTH ABOUT U SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT KNOW I'M A VERY INSECURE PERSON SOME THINGS I THINK I DO EVENTUALLY I BELIEVE I COULDN'T HAVE

Ohhh my!!! Is it a Libra thing to have big dicks? Because every Libra I personally know does have a huge package?
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Forum :  Topic : Would u smash with any of them?

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PostPosted: 3 days ago    Post subject: Would u smash with any of them?

4 days ago

They can all smash me!
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Forum :  Topic : Pic a Saturday Love.

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PostPosted: 3 days ago    Post subject:

L chocolatedrop
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Forum :  Topic : CHOOSE 1 AS UR MAN CRUSH FRIDAY!!!

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PostPosted: 3 days ago    Post subject:

4 days ago

B

3 days ago

good taste tho

Yes he is ooo nice caramel complexion. Then he's big and muscular. I kind of like being man handled.
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Forum :  Topic : CHOOSE 1 AS UR MAN CRUSH FRIDAY!!!

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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject:

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Forum :  Topic : TGIF pick 1 to start the weekend.

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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject:

G or H
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PostPosted: 4 days ago    Post subject: Who do people think would be a good match for you?

melanin-eminado wrote:
1490240682 My best friend said that I am going to end up with a dominant, aggressive dude who is not going to tolerate my smart mouth and I will magically be okay with it.

I think not.

I think I would end up with someone who ignored my smart comments or was just as witty, or calmer and would naturally inspire me to be more relaxed. Like a weed hippie or Zen Yoga Master of Chi. Somebody laid back who was not so sensitive to my jokes.
I'm not sure to be honest!!!
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Forum :  Topic : Wonderful Wednesday.

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PostPosted: 6 days ago    Post subject:

G or L. I'm in love with Ps thighs I want my thighs like that
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Forum :  Topic : What Kind Of Bed Do You Have?

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PostPosted: 6 days ago    Post subject:

6 days ago

King size bed with a 18 inch deep pillow top mattress.

6 days ago

King size is for the big dogs!!! I almost bought one, but wanted to be close to my baby all night. So, full size it is for me. I have not regretted the purchase.

6 days ago

Awww how sweet!!! There's no one in bed with me so I have a huge bed to myself lol I love the space but hate changing the linens and washing them.

6 days ago

Then there's the linens! Laughing

Lol hell yea and set of sheets for my bed runs around 130-200 bucks. About 250 if I go to Pottery Barn, Crater and Barrel, or West Elm.
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Forum :  Topic : What Kind Of Bed Do You Have?

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PostPosted: 6 days ago    Post subject:

6 days ago

King size bed with a 18 inch deep pillow top mattress.

6 days ago

King size is for the big dogs!!! I almost bought one, but wanted to be close to my baby all night. So, full size it is for me. I have not regretted the purchase.

Awww how sweet!!! There's no one in bed with me so I have a huge bed to myself lol I love the space but hate changing the linens and washing them.
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King size bed with a 18 inch deep pillow top mattress.
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Forum :  Topic : The Secret Language

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PostPosted: 7 days ago    Post subject:

8 days ago

PERSONALITY TRAITS OF THIS DAY - December 10th
INWARDLY CALM
APPRECIATIVE
SPIRITUAL

UNUSUAL
ARDENT
TALENTED

SENSUOUS
DIRECT
INTUITIVE INSCRUTABLE
RECLUSIVE

PECULIAR
IRRESPONSIBLE
REJECTED

SNOBBISH
DETACHED
IMPATIENT

7 days ago

You forgot to add your Secret Language Name.

It will be at the top of the page.

PASSIONATE INNER FERVOR
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Forum :  Topic : The Secret Language

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PostPosted: 8 days ago    Post subject:

PERSONALITY TRAITS OF THIS DAY - December 10th
INWARDLY CALM
APPRECIATIVE
SPIRITUAL

UNUSUAL
ARDENT
TALENTED

SENSUOUS
DIRECT
INTUITIVE INSCRUTABLE
RECLUSIVE

PECULIAR
IRRESPONSIBLE
REJECTED

SNOBBISH
DETACHED
IMPATIENT
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Forum :  Topic : BEST CITY FOR A GAY BLACK MAN.

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PostPosted: 8 days ago    Post subject: BEST CITY FOR A GAY BLACK MAN.

9 days ago

I'm reading a lot of complains in threads about coworkers and how black gay life for MOST of you all seems to be a challenge.....but maybe....just maybe....it has more to do with your LOCATION.....as in the city you are in....

So my question to you...is....

In your opinion....based on the cities you've been to....or stories you have heard of,....what seems to be that 1 city or maybe 3 cities where black gay life seems to be EASIER......now ofcourse being a black gay man will never be easy but maybe a city can make it EASIER.....not just black gay men...but gay men of color in general.....

I'll be mentioning a few regs as this forum progresses....talk to me BGC.....

Which city is LIT?

9 days ago

I haven't had any problems since I moved here to the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area nearly two years ago. In my hometown in Louisiana I received lots of hatred and eyes that were like daggers and I'd be minding my own business and people would make negative comments. I remember one time I'm in the mall purchasing shoes and the guys in the store act as if me being gay was contagious and didn't want to assist me but had time to make remarks under their breath and snicker amongst themselves which is very sad and childish.

9 days ago

I think in most cases.....
Wherever you have richer and more richer blacks, life as a gay man would be easier.....because richer and more educated ppl are far more relaxed when it comes to homosexuality....

The Dallas area has a lot of black wealth and highly educated blacks so I can see why you're doing better in Dallas.....GOOD FOR YOU...

Do you plan on moving anywhere else any time soon?

8 days ago

OMG sooooooo true!!!! When I go back to school for nursing I planned on doing travel RN. I can travel now doing Surgical Tech. but I want to get experience in Neuro and Cardiovascular first. If I move some where else I'd try Denver, Seattle, Phoenix, and maybe California but other places I'd just like to visit only.

8 days ago

Gay men love nursing lol...why is that?.......lmao.

Now I heard school is no joke....not the actual studying....but you know they give you a schedule....meaning you don't get to pick your classes.....Once you get into the program, they give you a schedule....and they don't care if you like that schedule or not......that also means that you might not be able to work at all......NO MONEY COMING IN.....so my advice for you is to start being on a tight ass budget RIGHT NOW.....budget like a mudafucker....and work any overtime that will come your way.....STACK YOUR MONEY UP.......trust me....I saw my sister struggle financially in that nursing program because she wasn't prepared financially.....JUST BE PREPARED.....If I were you, I would save 1 and a half years of expenses.....and maybe move in with a relative......matter of fact, you should stop shopping and buying bullshit you don't need RYT NOW...you don't need a new iphone.....just save every dollar.....You might be able to work on the weekends but I doubt it.....you'll be studying.......

SAVE SAVE SAVE SAVE.......as long as your pockets are right, nursing school will be a breeze......be prepared to have zero dollars coming in....just be prepared for that.....I BELIEVE IN YOU....and you can do it....just start SAVING HEAVY right away....

Awwwww you're so sweet !!! You're right Nursing school is one program you can't play around with. I work for the Baylor Health System so paying for school is no problem since they'll pay for it and my supervisor is willing to schedule me weekends only in the Operating room and wants me to be a circulating nurse for the OR. I plan on working full force for one year to save for expenses like rent, car note and insurance. So with that plan I'll be able to go to school Mon-Thrus and work Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I truly thank you for your motivation!!! I'd hug and kiss you if you were here.
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PostPosted: 8 days ago    Post subject: BEST CITY FOR A GAY BLACK MAN.

9 days ago

I'm reading a lot of complains in threads about coworkers and how black gay life for MOST of you all seems to be a challenge.....but maybe....just maybe....it has more to do with your LOCATION.....as in the city you are in....

So my question to you...is....

In your opinion....based on the cities you've been to....or stories you have heard of,....what seems to be that 1 city or maybe 3 cities where black gay life seems to be EASIER......now ofcourse being a black gay man will never be easy but maybe a city can make it EASIER.....not just black gay men...but gay men of color in general.....

I'll be mentioning a few regs as this forum progresses....talk to me BGC.....

Which city is LIT?

9 days ago

I haven't had any problems since I moved here to the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area nearly two years ago. In my hometown in Louisiana I received lots of hatred and eyes that were like daggers and I'd be minding my own business and people would make negative comments. I remember one time I'm in the mall purchasing shoes and the guys in the store act as if me being gay was contagious and didn't want to assist me but had time to make remarks under their breath and snicker amongst themselves which is very sad and childish.

9 days ago

I think in most cases.....
Wherever you have richer and more richer blacks, life as a gay man would be easier.....because richer and more educated ppl are far more relaxed when it comes to homosexuality....

The Dallas area has a lot of black wealth and highly educated blacks so I can see why you're doing better in Dallas.....GOOD FOR YOU...

Do you plan on moving anywhere else any time soon?

OMG sooooooo true!!!! When I go back to school for nursing I planned on doing travel RN. I can travel now doing Surgical Tech. but I want to get experience in Neuro and Cardiovascular first. If I move some where else I'd try Denver, Seattle, Phoenix, and maybe California but other places I'd just like to visit only.
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PostPosted: 9 days ago    Post subject:

D or Q
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PostPosted: 9 days ago    Post subject: Bareback Sex Parties

9 days ago

Do you like orgies with multiple sweaty men cumming in your asshole?

What does it do for you?

No to afraid to be that bold. I'd like to to watch but I'd tell them not to touch me.
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PostPosted: 9 days ago    Post subject: BEST CITY FOR A GAY BLACK MAN.

9 days ago

I'm reading a lot of complains in threads about coworkers and how black gay life for MOST of you all seems to be a challenge.....but maybe....just maybe....it has more to do with your LOCATION.....as in the city you are in....

So my question to you...is....

In your opinion....based on the cities you've been to....or stories you have heard of,....what seems to be that 1 city or maybe 3 cities where black gay life seems to be EASIER......now ofcourse being a black gay man will never be easy but maybe a city can make it EASIER.....not just black gay men...but gay men of color in general.....

I'll be mentioning a few regs as this forum progresses....talk to me BGC.....

Which city is LIT?

I haven't had any problems since I moved here to the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex area nearly two years ago. In my hometown in Louisiana I received lots of hatred and eyes that were like daggers and I'd be minding my own business and people would make negative comments. I remember one time I'm in the mall purchasing shoes and the guys in the store act as if me being gay was contagious and didn't want to assist me but had time to make remarks under their breath and snicker amongst themselves which is very sad and childish.
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Hell naw
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