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PostPosted: 22 hrs ago    Post subject: Can feminine Dudes be Bisexual?

I'll give you three guesses.
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PostPosted: 22 hrs ago    Post subject:

?...Of course. I know quite a few.
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Forum :  Topic : Straight nikkas saying “no shade” and “tea”

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PostPosted: 7 days ago    Post subject: Straight nikkas saying “no shade” and “tea”

Lol...wow...all of the above is DEFINITELY TRUE.
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Forum :  Topic : Is it ok for a DL man to be a bottom?

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PostPosted: 11 days ago    Post subject: Is it ok for a DL man to be a bottom?

12 days ago

Umm yes...

sexual position doesn't correlate to sexual identity or closet status

This question doesn't make any sense.

Lol...THANK YOU.
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Forum :  Topic : Is the DL Prevalent with Caucasian Men?

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PostPosted: 13 days ago    Post subject: Is the DL Prevalent with Caucasian Men?

28 days ago

Funny story I will relate on this, I grew up in a rural area in Pennsylvania, about 20 miles from Pittsburgh. There are farms out there to this day, and when my Mom passed my brother & his wife bought the house I grew up in, so I go back from NYC and visit them a lot in the summer.

Anyway, when we were in our early to mid teens, the guys would "sleep out" meaning we'd grab our sleeping bags and go off into the woods on some hill and camp out, building a fire & roasting hot dogs. etc and have other snacks. Sometimes sneak a few beers along, but nothing major.

There was one guy who was a year older than me, who I now recognize as a closeted Gay guy. At the time, he would initiate sexual contact, but always when he was 1-on-1 with another guy, myself included. He'd call & say "we're going to sleep out tonight on the hill on the farm here (his Grandfather had a farm) and when I showed up he'd say "Oh, so-and-so can't make it, so it's just us".

He would initiate, during the night when we'd be in the sleeping bags in the dark tent, just feeling and jerking each other off. Nothing more than that, although he told me he'd messed around more with one of the other guys. This happened a few times, simple fondling, etc. I guess he was not interested in me after a while because I wouldn't go further than that, I knew I was Gay since I was about 10 years old, and was determined to hide it until College, especially being aware of the area I lived in.

Anyway, fast forward 35 years, and I happened to be out there at the house and my brother was borrowing a roto-tiller to turn the garden, and it was this guy he was borrowing it from. I hadn't seen him in 35 years, and when I came down to meet him when he brought it over in his truck, he couldn't even look me in the eye ! He was nervous as hell and just shook my hand and then started talking to my brother again about the machine, and didn't say another word to me.

It was so funny, I almost laughed out loud, I had to leave, go back to doing the gardening I was doing. He lives with a woman in a house on the farm, but I'm sure now that he is DL, likely sneaking off to hook up with guys.

It also showed me how my life may have been, if I stayed there instead of moving to NYC after college.

It was very funny !

24 days ago

Hmmmm

No offense but that sounds different than black men.

Black guys are VIP with this shit.

Black men dont have the same social mobility that white men have in that their social networking is limited to the black community because of racism.

You cant just leave the black community because there is nowhere to go thus you have to dance to the music of community needs, goals, and expectations (which are anti- homosexual)keeping you more and more down low and then it becomes pathological because u are in the same sitauatiion with the same social system conditioning and reinforcing homopghobia, constantly.

This is why “gay” is conncted with similar ideas of white male privilege because white gay men have much greater freedom than black men.

Black men are eternally stuck with three choices: 1. Dance 2. Dont dance and die 3. Forge your own path and become whitewashed.

Most black guys have to dance to the music because they have no other choice but to choose the path of least resistance.

24 days ago

Oh, undeniably it's much more difficult for Black guys to deal with all this, I have seen it first hand.

And you enumerated the various forces acting against expression of your sexual orientation very well.

I would say the average level of pressure Black guys face in coming out and living their life as a Gay person is similar to the most extreme situations that White guys face, which would be those in small towns or those in religious families or communities, which are the most difficult.

The majority of White guys at least have the opportunity to become independent, and be able to decide for themselves how to deal with things like families that take time to accept them, if it happens, or move to an area where it is easier to live how you want to.

But Black guys frequently don't have that opportunity and as time passes, are forced to deal with it another way, which is often by living as a DL person.

Agreed.

24 days ago

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2597583/

Previous research focusing on the non-heterosexual practices of Black and Latino men has already established several tenants. First of all, the prevalence of bisexuality has been found to be considerably higher among these men in comparison to their White counterparts. Rates of behavioral and self-identified bisexuality in large samples of men who have sex with men (MSM) have varied widely (around 10–44%) but have been consistently found to be highest among ethnic minority men when compared to other men (Heckman et al., 1995). In large comparative samples of Black and White MSM, Stokes, Vanable, and McKirnan (1997) also found that Black men were significantly more likely to estimate their peers as engaging in bisexual behavior (48%) than were White men (27%). Black men in these samples were more likely to view bisexual behavior as normative despite their strong feelings that same-sex behaviors were not tolerated within their communities. Scientific information regarding the social, sexual, and risk factors associated with relatively common bisexuality among ethnic minority men has been slow to develop.

Black and Latino MSM (MSM being used here to indicate both men who exclusively have sex with other men as well as men who have sex with men and women) have also been found to be less likely to identify as “gay.” As Millet et al. (2005) reported in an extensive review, these men are not only less likely than White MSM to identify as gay, they are also less likely to join gay-related organizations and read gay-related media. This discrepancy between behavior and identity was convincingly illustrated by findings from research carried out in New York City that received a significant amount of media coverage. This study showed substantial differences between straight-identified MSM and gay-identified MSM (Pathela et al., 2006). In this sample, straight-identified MSM were much more likely to report belonging to minority racial or ethnic groups than the gayidentified MSM (62% vs. 28%). The straight-identified MSM were also much more likely to be married.

Black and Latino bisexual men have also been found to be less likely to disclose their same-sex behaviors, particularly to female partners. Studies that have examined disclosure of bisexuality among these men have found that relatively few (between one-tenth and one-third) disclose (Doll & Beeker, 1996; Kalichman, Roffman, Picciano, & Bolan, 1998; Montgomery, Mokotoff, Gentry, & Blair, 2003). Several reasons have been mentioned for the ethnicity-related discrepancy between identity and behavior and the limited self-disclosure. It has been suggested that ethnic minority men see the gay culture in the United States as a White, and sometimes also as a “feminine,” phenomenon, which is difficult for them to identify with. Added to this is the racism that ethnic minority men report to experience in the gay community (see, e.g., Han, 2008). Another reason is the idea that one would have to play down or give up one's ethnic background, including the social support coming from one's ethnic community; one's ethnic community and the gay community are rarely compatible. A third, crucial factor is the strong lack of acceptance of bisexuality and homosexuality in Black communities that several researchers have noted (e.g., Fullilove & Fullilove, 1999; Ward, 2005).

The actual picture seems to be more complicated. Using responses from almost 7,000 Blacks and 43,000 thousand Whites in 31 surveys conducted since 1973, Lewis (2003) demonstrated that despite greater disapproval of homosexuality among Black persons. Blacks' opinions on sodomy laws, gay civil liberties, and employment discrimination were quite similar to Whites' opinions. Blacks are actually more likely to support laws prohibiting antigay discrimination. Controlling for religious and educational differences, Lewis found that Blacks remain more disapproving of homosexuality but were moderately more supportive of gay civil liberties and markedly more opposed to antigay employment discrimination than were Whites.

It is likely that the strong association between masculinity and heterosexuality makes it difficult for ethnic minority men to openly explore same-sex sexual desires and develop a bisexual or homosexual identity. The strong association between masculinity and heterosexuality in Black and Latino ethnic minorities should not be understood as an essential link, because they cannot be seen independently from the social position of ethnic minorities (Malebranche, 2003).

Yes... thank you to all who elaborated, using highly useful references. The simple answer is indeed: "YES"- DL behaviour exists among ALL men; how it is MANIFESTED and the INTENSITY with which it exists among Blacks and Latinos, versus Caucasians, differs, for socio-economic reasons.
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PostPosted: 18 days ago    Post subject: Is Paul Mooney funny or racist as fuck lol

A lot of important satire in video. REgardless as to whether or not one agrees with Paul Mooney's politics, regarding one issue or another, the issue of ignoring /repressing racism on part of many whites and more "meritocratic Blacks" ("house negroes"] is an issue that requires attention. Mooney does not imply superiority of one group over another. He is not racist.
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PostPosted: 19 days ago    Post subject: Is the DL Prevalent with Caucasian Men?

Is dL behaviour prevalent among Caucasian males?? Lol, Why WOULDN'T IT BE?? It would exist-and certainly HAS existed- in one form or another, for centuries among cultures where open homosexual behaviour has been repressed. on some level. In many parks at night, for example, there are often those sections of the park that are more exclusively one ethnicity or another-depending primarily on to what neighborhood a particular section of a very large park is closest.
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Forum :  Topic : Butt-In a homo relationship, & make it a 3some.

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PostPosted: 22 days ago    Post subject: Butt-In a homo relationship, & make it a 3some.

Lol...b, d, and F
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Forum :  Topic : Pray from Auntee Aretha in hospice care..oh Jeses!!

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PostPosted: 2018-08-13 22:38:30     Post subject: Pray from Auntee Aretha in hospice care..oh Jeses!!

Thanks for sharing this.
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Forum :  Topic : Most attractive dude in this photo.....

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PostPosted: 2018-08-10 19:19:20     Post subject: Most attractive dude in this photo.....

2018-07-29 18:56:58

Beauty is INDEED in the eye of the beholder, and, I would add, in the HEART OF THE BEHELD (lol, seriously). Anyway, my personal preference would guy #4, from the left (one holding can).

2018-07-30 13:58:28

LOL it seems we like the same type of dudes.

Lol...true.
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PostPosted: 2018-08-10 12:24:09     Post subject: Blacks are less mixed in Canada

This is true. This phenomenon is a result of a particularly important part of the First American Revolution that is often not talked about. In Nova Scotia, Canada and elsewhere in that country, there are landmarks and historical centers that commemorate the mass British-led exodus of Blacks from the newly-born United States, when many Blacks confirmed that the new government would not guarantee the termination of the slavery system. The British took advantage of Washington's refusal to do this, during course of war, rallying many Blacks to fight against the Continental Army and after its victory, aiding Blacks to follow the defeated British regiments into Canada inasmuch as Britain guaranteed freedom to Blacks in Canada. Historian Gerald Horne details this incident in two comprehensive books: The Counter-revolution of 1776: Slave Resistance and the Origins of the USA and Negro Commanders of the Crown. While many Blacks in the colonies, as well as HAITIANS, fought bravely to advance the American Revolution (an important chapter ALSO NOT often talked about), many Blacks did not. As a result of this occurrence, Blacks-specifically Black women- in Canada did not endure the ongoing rape/ sex coercion that resulted in most Blacks in the United States having more European genealogy than Blacks elsewhere.
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Forum :  Topic : WHATS BETTER THAN ONE GOOD LOOKING MAN???

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PostPosted: 2018-08-08 11:32:38     Post subject: WHATS BETTER THAN ONE GOOD LOOKING MAN???

2018-08-06 19:59:29



I don't know about the other ones, but this set actually did porn together. Well I never saw them do anything to each other, but they were in a threesome scene freaking with another dude..Smile

2018-08-08 00:46:08

The Goffney Twins. One is gay the other is straight but they got dragged into gay porn to make money. They later stole a half-million dollars and went to prison...again. They are turning their lives around now though.

The Hodge Twins are my boys though...corny AF and funny as hell. Their lite-brite asses give advice on their youtube channel. You'll either love 'em or hate 'em.




2018-08-08 03:46:28

I was wondering how they turned out. Are they both out of the pen now? Smile

2018-08-08 11:04:55

Yes. I think they've stayed out of trouble since prison. Here is an interview of one of them from a few years back.

http://www.epgn.com/news/local/176-after-prison-one-half-of-gay-porn-twins-speaks-out-read-more-pgn-the-philadelphia-gay-news-phila-gay-news-philly-news-after-prison-one-half-of-gay-porn-twins-speaks-out

Wow...EVERYONE has a story, oftentimes one some might not ever expect. Great that they have gotten themselves together.
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PostPosted: 2018-08-08 11:18:27     Post subject: WHATS BETTER THAN ONE GOOD LOOKING MAN???

Lol...perhaps you are right. Lol, I made the error, once, of confusing one member of twins for the other, resulting in "hooking up" with both while believing I was just with the one. Later, each one clarified that the were "gemelos", lol. Fortunately, both were very cool-sexually and in terms of friendship material.
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Forum :  Topic : Left Middle Or Right?

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PostPosted: 2018-08-08 11:12:29     Post subject: Left Middle Or Right?

Actually, I like the dude to the FAR left, in backround.
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Forum :  Topic : If you saw me sitting alone at a gay bar...

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Go up to you and say "What's up?", because I think that is the least brothers and sisters should do.
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Forum :  Topic : The token black guy at Trump's pep Klan rallies.

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PostPosted: 2018-08-03 10:15:28     Post subject: The token black guy at Trump's pep Klan rallies.

2018-08-02 19:24:12

Lol, I hope y'all don't seriously believe that Trump doesn't have any black support. Keep in mind, he doesn't even a lot to make a difference. Trump over performed with the black vote in 2016, and will likely do the same in 2020.

2018-08-03 09:42:37

Why did you vote for HIM?

Exactly. It is really not surprising that some Blacks voted for Trump (and yes SOME, not all, are self-hating "Negroes"] as did many who are immigrants, as well as many working class whites. Many of people from each of these groups, IN FACT, do NOT hold reactionary views that Trump demagogically put forward during campaign, views that of course did motivate many xenophobes, misogynists, etc to rally and vote for him. What the liberals like to have us IGNORE is that many, in fact MOST, of the people who voted for Trump had voted for Obama-TWICE and that many who happened to vote for Trump are among many more (ABOUT 40%-?! -OF REGISTERED VOTERS) who made the choice to NOT VOTE FOR EITHER TRUMP OR HILARY. These people are NOT among the ones who are at those rallies that Trump supporters arrange, when Trump arrives in their town. They ARE the ones who helped lead the teachers' strike in five states-a successful nation-wide campaign that liberals AND conservatives ignored- not to mention the Columbus Ohio rally of 10,000s demanding cities around the country maintain their pensions. Neither Trump nor his political opponents discuss these things. Malcolm X said it 55 years ago and it is AT LEAST AS TRUE NOW. democrats and Republicans are the "wolf and the fox...". We working people need our own party INDEPENDENT of the TWIN parties of exploitation. Trump and his anti-immigrant, anti-woman, hatred is just a symptom-A SYMPTOM. The CAUSE is the SYSTEM ITSELF.
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PostPosted: 2018-07-30 13:47:53     Post subject: Gray Shirt or Blue Shirt?

2018-07-29 22:30:09

Gray shirt hands down. Blue shirt got nice cakes but the body on the one in the gray shirt. His back and body structure is sexy AF. I wanna eat his cakes then get in front of him to see that meat.

Yeah, I agree EXACTLY.
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PostPosted: 2018-07-30 13:45:43     Post subject: Most attractive dude in this photo.....

Beauty is INDEED in the eye of the beholder, and, I would add, in the HEART OF THE BEHELD (lol, seriously). Anyway, my personal preference would guy #4, from the left (one holding can).
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PostPosted: 2018-04-21 12:34:22     Post subject: the moment you realize that top/bottom roles

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1524331309 are a form of control is when you will realize what love truly is with a person
blackandsexy69 wrote:
1524331388 Confused
brighteyes__ wrote:
1524331587 i'll go into detail. when you realize that their is more to this lifestyle than just sticking your dick into someone is when you realize the true purpose of why we are on this earth, to motivate, encourage, and support one another.

love is acceptance the moment you throw those roles out of the window and accept the person you are with for who they are and what they have brought into your life is when you have a healthy relationship based on LOVE not a sexual role, income, social status, or even hiv status.
This is true.
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PostPosted: 2018-01-29 23:36:14     Post subject:

Yes! The 60th anniversary of the Grammys was INDEED the most UNIQUE.
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PostPosted: 2018-01-19 22:11:03     Post subject: If you are not light-skinned, with a small nose & thin lips

Justin and Christian Combs are , in my opinion, physically beautiful. Sad that in 21st century there are still self-hating "Negroes" that would think otherwise, because of a backward belief that dark skin and fuller features are less attractive and more "European" features are inherently more attractive.
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Lol...I am GLAD I no longer seem to be the only kat that understands this! THANK YOU!
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Under those conditions, there IS a chance of small tears in rectum that often go unnoticed, due to significantly less nerve endings deeper in rectum, as opposed to area closer to sphincter. Do you know if you have internal hemorrhoids? If so, get tested. Regardless, maybe get tested anyway. Most importantly, be sure to love yourself; do not allow depression steer you toward potentially harmful activity.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-08 11:51:48     Post subject:

Indeed, in Christ, we all have equal standing-anti-sexism, anti-racism, etc.. Thanks for this post.
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PostPosted: 2017-03-26 23:51:49     Post subject: US gov ADMITS cannabis kills cancer/protects healthy cells

I do not smoke BUT I firmly support decriminalization. Furthermore, it IS far less harmful than ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION.
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PostPosted: 2017-03-09 22:41:57     Post subject: What's your favorite drink?

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1489109039 h2o


just read today that bottled water has surpassed sodas in sales...
That's right. Water, my dude, is the drink, lol (seriously).
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PostPosted: 2017-02-26 13:13:15     Post subject: The DNC will never learn

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1488060155 Former Labor Secretary, Tom Perez, was just elected to proceed Donna Brazile in becoming Chair of the DNC.

Another establishment candidate. We're looking at 8 years of Trump, folks. Get your wigs and sow-ins together!
Lol...I agree. I am an independent however. Have been since age 18. Working people have to organize INDEPENDENT of wealthy parties. The wolf and fox both go after the chickens. This is AT LEAST as true now as it was 53 years ago when Malcolm X made the statement.
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Thanks for sharing...thought provoking AT LEAST.
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Cosber, THANKS FOR SHARING. Just learning about Eugene Bullard myself. Indeed, a real hero.
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PostPosted: 2017-01-24 22:48:37     Post subject: How do you feel about abortion?

Straight and simple...ABORTION IS A WOMAN*S RIGHT TO CHOOSE. Defense of a woman*s right to control her own biology IN ALL RESPECTS is an imperative for men and women in the workplace and on the streets to fight as equals.
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PostPosted: 2017-01-24 22:16:25     Post subject: BLACK IS TRULY BEAUTIFUL AND HERE'S WHY...

While I do not agree with idea of ANY racial group being less than human, i DO believe a lot of this info is very useful, from a scientific perspective and for reasons of evoking pride and the inherent beauty of BLACKNESS, which racism has distorted in minds of many-both Blacks/others of color and Caucasians.
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PostPosted: 2016-11-21 20:38:38     Post subject:

Mild-to-moderate intensity about everyday. high intensity about 1-2 tmes a week.
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PostPosted: 2016-10-30 13:07:46     Post subject: Proposition 60, the Condoms in Pornographic Films Initiative

AGAIN, As for filming amateur/not for sale raw sex and posting it on X-tube/other online porn sites, PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE HELD LIABLE under any law.
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PostPosted: 2016-10-30 12:56:26     Post subject:

Yes, I agree. I would vote "yes". It is imperative, nevertheless, that the law is clear on PRODUCERS OF COMMERCIAL PORN and NOT the actors themselves being responsible for ALL costs regarding STI screening/checkups. Actors should not be held accountable for these services, as it pertains to their activity in making the film(s). FURTHER, the language of the law must be clear to NOT include AMATEUR/not-for-sale PORN. Married couples/unmarried couples, couples of any kind have the RIGHT TO PRIVACY, as it pertains to any kind of sex-SAFE OR LESS SAFE. However, I also believe that the wording of the law could allow for condomless sex as long as porn companies can PROVE that they have provided for and are providing for STI screening and check-ups. Producers of films featuring raw sex should be required to provide HIGHLY FREQUENT TESTING/SCREENING of actors, "condom films" relatively less frequent.
Further, VISUALLY PROMINENT DISCLAIMERS AT BEGINNING of film regarding the health risks of "raw" penetration as featured in the film would also be important, I believe
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Thanks for sharing, yo.
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PostPosted: 2016-10-17 23:26:49     Post subject:

People who hurt others are so filled with vanity-and, therefore, SELF-HATE. Make sure you learn to LOVE YOURSELF. Carry yourself like you KNOW that the Creator made you BEAUTIFUL. You ARE beautiful. You just do not yet KNOW IT.
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Homophobic people are, PSYCHOLOGICALLY SPEAKING, NOT SURE THEY ARE STRAIGHT. [It is called "latent homosexuality".] This includes Pacquiao. And, who says he has the hands to back it up? Homophobes are COWARD.That closet case ought to remember history. Back in 1969 an openly gay African-American boxer, unfortunately, killed an opponent who made a homophobic comment toward him. Paquiao OUGHT TO WATCH IT.
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PostPosted: 2016-02-03 15:27:41     Post subject: Judge Confronts 'Racist' Ex-Cop For Beating a Black Man

THANK YOU FOR THIS POST. YES... this cop should get the FULL TEN YEARS, if not more. The fact that he was sentenced a mere minimum of 13 months seems to show the LIMITATIONS of even well-meaning judges under this system. ANOTHER POINT: The police system under capitalism is that of predominantly "good" cops. The system, with its anti-working class character-its INEVITABLE AND ESPECIAL target of rights violation and violence being Black men-would NOT be able to legitimize itself without this reality. The system, during times of normal functioning (as opposed to "civil unrest"-strikes, pickets, protests, etc), only requires a handful of officers to be aggressive while the majority of "good cops" LOOK THE OTHER WAY, while not directly engaging in acts of violation/violence. In other words, the entire system does not have to be laden with "KKK cops" in order for it to be inherently racist. In fact, a given police precinct does not have to be predominantly white to be such. Many precincts that are significantly of color have high incidents of police violence against armed Blacks and Latinos. Therefore, be careful of the "KKK" label; liberals who are now pressured to lead the charge to reform the system, as a result of the pressure of the MASS PROTESTS AGAINST POLICE BRUTALITY OVER THE PAST 1 1/2 YEARS, use the illusion created by this label to make as limited changes as possible. Yes, historically, police forces were drawn from groups that were part of terrorist outfits from slave catchers to Klan members, etc; and that history is still reflected across many precincts in the USA. However, there are many for which this is not the case but ARE STILL JUST AS RACIST.
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I think that if the two people are loving and supportive and non-accusative of each other, they will more easily see themselves-and help each other view her/himself as survivors and not mere victims, seek out whatever counseling they may feel they need to heal as individuals and as a couple. Part of the healing, I believe, is viewing rape NOT as just a sex crime; it is primarily a crime of VIOLENCE, that involves non-consensual sex activity. I learned this from hearing survivors of rape and supporters of survivors talk about the issue. Sex is merely the vehicle by which the violence of rape is carried out. I pray they heal quickly. I think they will.
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PostPosted: 2015-11-15 23:31:00     Post subject:

Lol, my second and third choices are #s 10 and 1.
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