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PostPosted: 2018-04-29 20:59:30     Post subject: Is this what blk lives matter turned into??

The problem that many and myself have with the video is NOT inter-racial intercourse. Irrespective of one's viewpoint on inter-racial dating, the PROBLEM with the video is a realistic depiction of cops raping/sex-coercing a civilian-particularly one of color. As I stated in post, this sort of thing is in reality very frequent-traditionally happening to women of any ethnicity, in fact. But, often, gay/"dl" men have been targets of this police criminality. Given the revelation and protests in recent years of police wrongdoing, particularly as directed against men of color, this video is particularly offensive. Ironically, the recent-years revelation within the mainstream media is also the very thing that resulted in the idea for such a video. If the cops were Black/Latino, the video would still be offensive to many of the people who complained about it-and, I believe, rightly so. Nevertheless, the historic reality of anti-Black racism, particularly at the hands of white police officers/"deputized officers" (slave catchers, one example) makes the video even more offensive.
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Forum : General Discussions Topic : Is this what blk lives matter turned into??

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PostPosted: 2018-04-29 12:48:52     Post subject: Is this what blk lives matter turned into??

?!. . .Does not in any way shape or form represent Black Lives Matter or any other entity that has been and continues to be in the front lines of the fight against police brutality over the past few years. What this degrading viodeo DOES represent is the unfortunate willingness of some Blacks to sell their souls for at least a few dollars. Not to mention, it represents the INDIFFERENCE and ANTIPATHY on the part of some adult film producers to certain social realities that reflect racial, class, or gender oppression. Unfortunately, this pornographic script represents a reality that has occured many times, as part of the harassment by police that arrestees-whether a legal or illegal arrest-have faced. Just recently in New York City, a cop was convicted (only due to public pressure) of THIS VERY SAME ACT depicted in this video. Oftentimes this officer would target women arrestees for sex acts/assault-threatening them with physical harm or false charges. And, though far less often publicized, though happening perhaps just as often as cop-assault against women, cops rape/sexually assault gay/"dl" men or trans women in "anonymous" places such as parks at night, QUITE OFTEN in various cities.
I did not watch the entire video, only the beginning. This young Black blood, along with any others who might have participated in this robbery of self-respect and dignity for a few dollars, is now online-in perpetuity-to be viewed by white racists, indifferent, self-hating negroes, and people in general who might question why videos would be made to sexually glamorize a serious reality for many, at the hands of police . Whether or not any among the latter group finds this video to be a "turn-on" on any level, they will likely wonder, like myself, whether this guy will find his self-worth (whether he continues to do porn is another issue altogether), so that, he would no longer want to be exploited for ANY amount of money. Only at that point will he know that this current self-degradation no longer defines him, regardless of how many might see this video.
Finally, no one is perfect, no one including myself should be self-righteous or judgemental. BUT, pointing out problems helps build up ALL OF US. There are many that I HAVE KNOWN PERSONALLY, who have been homeless, jobless, etc and as a result did or do sex work, escorting , porn modeling, etc, who, nevertheless, WOULD NEVER do a video such as this. What is the price of one's freedom? That is a question that each of us must be willing to answer.
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PostPosted: 2018-04-21 12:34:22     Post subject: the moment you realize that top/bottom roles

brighteyes__ wrote:
1524331309 are a form of control is when you will realize what love truly is with a person
blackandsexy69 wrote:
1524331388 Confused
brighteyes__ wrote:
1524331587 i'll go into detail. when you realize that their is more to this lifestyle than just sticking your dick into someone is when you realize the true purpose of why we are on this earth, to motivate, encourage, and support one another.

love is acceptance the moment you throw those roles out of the window and accept the person you are with for who they are and what they have brought into your life is when you have a healthy relationship based on LOVE not a sexual role, income, social status, or even hiv status.
This is true.
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PostPosted: 2018-03-29 23:10:06     Post subject:

What is his position on the wrongful conviction and continued imprisonment of Mumia Abu Jamal? ( See www.freemumia.com. }
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Forum :  Topic : Happy Birthday Stephanie Mills

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Happy birthday, Stephanie. God bless. May u live 2b 1,000.
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Forum :  Topic : what's up with our youth?

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PostPosted: 2018-03-04 13:01:49     Post subject: what's up with our youth?

Fortunately this does NOT represent most of the youth but it does represent MANY. Capitalism teaches us in various ways to devalue ourselves and others. "Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from oppression" (a form of PTSD affecting many Blacks) further causes themselves to be fetishized by racialist or racist older whites (and others, including Blacks) on basis of both age and penis size. Older kats must endeavor to be a source of ADVICE and GUIDANCE-something that I know from experience MANY youth are in fact LOOKING FOR but often DO NOT EXPECT from many of the older kats they encounter. Therefore, they just settle for the easy opportunity to make a fast buck by way of sex-including std risky sex.
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PostPosted: 2018-01-29 23:36:14     Post subject:

Yes! The 60th anniversary of the Grammys was INDEED the most UNIQUE.
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PostPosted: 2018-01-19 22:11:03     Post subject: If you are not light-skinned, with a small nose & thin lips

Justin and Christian Combs are , in my opinion, physically beautiful. Sad that in 21st century there are still self-hating "Negroes" that would think otherwise, because of a backward belief that dark skin and fuller features are less attractive and more "European" features are inherently more attractive.
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Forum :  Topic : CHOOSE 2 4 A 3 SUM... #MANCRUSHTHURSDAY

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PostPosted: 2018-01-18 12:12:00     Post subject:

Lol...A, C, and myself; C, E, and myself; C, H, and myself; or a 1-1 with C, E. or H.
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Forum :  Topic : fems are wonderful

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PostPosted: 2018-01-02 19:37:09     Post subject:

I prefer masculine dudes myself BUT I agree with idea that they are DEFINITELY more on point in terms of hygiene AND they are generally LESS FLAKY, more REAL.
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Forum : General Discussions II Topic : Let Them Earn You

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PostPosted: 2017-12-28 13:04:48     Post subject:

Yes, yes...TRUE.
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Forum :  Topic : How many of them would u smash with?

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PostPosted: 2017-12-28 12:35:43     Post subject:

As long as all are over 21, maybe all of them BUT ESPECIALLY, the center dude with locks (mad sexy, would definitely give him some head) and the dude in back row, right side.
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Forum :  Topic : Pick a prefabricated 3some.

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PostPosted: 2017-12-17 13:35:57     Post subject:

The lighter dude in A with the darker dude in B; G; and Q.
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Forum :  Topic : Have u ever heard of SLAPP lawsuits? What are your thoughts?

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PostPosted: 2017-12-13 17:32:50     Post subject:

Thank you for sharing this information. Imperative indeed that people are aware of this, as more and more of us begin to use the vast political space that continues, for now, to exist here in the U.S to more effectively resist the attempts of the wealthy classes to make working class people and others pay for THEIR economic crisis.
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Forum :  Topic : Min Age to Fuck in Brazil is 14, France is 15, England is 16

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PostPosted: 2017-11-13 20:45:08     Post subject:

Important points fior people to consider, ESPECIALLY, the latter points on "American exceptionalism".
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Forum :  Topic : Special election nite pick\'em thread.

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PostPosted: 2017-11-07 21:10:19     Post subject:

A, B, D, I, and J are dudes to whom I would definitely want to give some head (and maybe get, if they are down). As for H, I want to pound him lol.
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Forum :  Topic : Homosexuality is a Mental Disorder? Thoughts?

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PostPosted: 2017-11-07 21:03:17     Post subject:

No, not at all. I understand how some might STILL, in the 21st century, have this misconception, due to relative continued prevalence of homophobia. Scientific study as early as 45 years ago evidenced that homosexuality is NOT a mental illness and in response was taken off list of mental illnesses. AT THE SAME TIME, the studies CLARIFIED that HOMOPHOBIA (known in some psychology circles as LATENT homosexuality), on the other hand, IS an emotional/ psychological disorder. Homophobic persons stereotypically present as straight BUT are NOT SURE THEY ARE HETEROSEXUAL; this insecurity is manifested by an anxiety or fear, combined with disdain, directed toward phenomena that it least appears homosexual. It is EXACERBATED by hypermasculinity and suppressed expression of affection in non-sexual situations.
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Forum : General Discussions Topic : Gay teen who hanged himself after being bullied has died

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PostPosted: 2017-10-16 12:36:09     Post subject:

The BEST physical-and otherwise FIGHTERS to be oneself, has NEVER been the ones who HIDE (whether it's Blacks trying to "assimilate", women who feel they must be prudish in dress and overly "passive", so as not to sexually arouse or threaten men at work or on the street, or dudes who are inwardly attracted to other dudes being HYPERmasculine-and BULLYING OTHERS-as part of covering up their insecurity). Those who STAND UP eventually LEARN how to fight on all levels. The "Field Negroes", the ASSERTIVE women, and, more and more, the FEM GUYS AND TRANS WOMEN are in fact the BETTER STREET FIGHTERS. What you say is the CAUSE of the problem, NOT the cure. Teach kats to BE THEMSELVES AND LOVE THEMSELVES, not hide. Unfortunately, it is the lack of support on the part of "responsible adults" in society that results in this kind of tragedy. Teaching kats, as kids, to respect ANY Man, Woman, and Beast and, as Malcolm X said, to be ready to "send someone to the cemetery..." who would dare violate your right to existence, by laying a wrong hand on you-whether you choose to be EFFEMINATE OR OTHERWISE.
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Forum : Transgender Discussions Topic : Ladies whose in this video?

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PostPosted: 2017-10-15 00:51:45     Post subject:

No problem with video at all. Any "man" who would set fire to her (really??) is intimidated by ANY woman-cis or trans- that he feel he cannot control AND, clearly, has no REAL manhood with which he can confidently identify. Real men (gay or straight) defend a woman's right to present herself in any way she feels comfortable. More males need to have this conversation with each other.
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Forum :  Topic : How fake are you? According to your zodiac sign.

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PostPosted: 2017-09-17 12:39:13     Post subject: How fake are you? According to your zodiac sign.

2017-09-17 09:37:35

Of course, Gemini is the realest nigga on the list, in spite of what this thread is about.

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This MIGHT be true for you. Hopefully it is. But, lol, honestly speaking as a Gemini myself, many people would have GOOD reason to believe the OPPOSITE is true. As a Gemini myself, I can honestly say that I STRIVE to be real at all times- DIPLOMATIC, yet real-regardless of which "side" of me "shows up at the party". ACTUALLY, the reality is that anyone who has not fully embraced their own self-worth and therefore does not fully appreciate the worth of others, will have a tendency to not be real, REGARDLESS OF SIGN. That being said, there are characteristics of EVERY sign, that will allow the person of that sign to be either quite real or potentially fake. Nevertheless, if I was to make my own list, I would say that the most "real" signs are often (and AGAIN not ALWAYS) Taurus, Leo (though some Leos who sometimes can actually be very SHY might not be), Sagittarius (often too impulsive to not be "real" lol), and Aries.
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Lol...I am GLAD I no longer seem to be the only kat that understands this! THANK YOU!
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PostPosted: 2017-08-28 11:47:21     Post subject:

Under those conditions, there IS a chance of small tears in rectum that often go unnoticed, due to significantly less nerve endings deeper in rectum, as opposed to area closer to sphincter. Do you know if you have internal hemorrhoids? If so, get tested. Regardless, maybe get tested anyway. Most importantly, be sure to love yourself; do not allow depression steer you toward potentially harmful activity.
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Forum : General Discussions Topic : Blacks that date outside their race are only rebelling!!!!

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PostPosted: 2017-08-18 14:03:11     Post subject: Blacks that date outside their race are only rebelling!!!!

As Malcolm X began to meet people-including whites-who shared has social-political perspective (anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist, to use Malcolm\'s own words when self-describing), his racial point of view began to change, including his viewpoint on inter-racial marriage/relations, to one of acceptance. ("...It is just one human being getting with another...".- Malcolm X]. My viewpoint has become the same. That being said, nothwithstanding, I agree with you that many Blacks and Latinos get with whites for reasons of self-hate or \"social status\". These persons are therefore not able to discern whites who are racist (and therefore with THEM for the wrong reason-erotic fetichism, usually) and those who are not. I personally have no sexual interest with a white person I do not feel I know. Speaking purely physically, it is not often I even think of them that way. On the other hand, there ARE persons who happened to be white that I found very attractive. With one dude, there was even a mutual crush, from the moment we saw each other; because of \"internalized homophobia\" and a last-minute move to Arizona we never fully acted on it but we both KNEW it. And I knew, from the moment I saw him- and confirmed through his convo and actions- that he was different from the average liberal/friendly white person at work- that is, that he was not racist. But point is that I feel what you are saying. But, be careful not to limit yourself. There ARE Asians, South Asians,Latinos (outside of P.Rico, D.R, Cuba), and whites who are genuinely not racist. The more we love ourselves, I think the more we are able to discern who us for us, and who is not; this by the way includes other Blacks. Every Black is not a real brother or sister and every true sister or brother is not necessarily Black.
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Forum :  Topic : When the grocery bill is just $60 in fruit &vegtables

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PostPosted: 2017-08-15 01:00:08     Post subject:

Lol...yeah a garden is a good idea. I am a member of one, out here in NYC, in fact. The grocery bill will come down in time. In meantime, know that it is worth it, as you feel more energetic, have smoother skin, less allergies, and by the time you are 40, lol, a longer penis or-at the very least-one that is the same size as it was when you were 20. (It is unnecessary for ANY male to have erectile dysfunction; BUT, there are now reports of guys in their late 20's and 30's with this condition(??!).
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Forum :  Topic : Departing Soon!

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Baaad tune. Did not know Rod Temperton wrote song. He has AT LEAST a few impressive tunes in his career portfolio-including a few of the songs on Michael Jackson's "Thriller" album.
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Forum :  Topic : Being gay in the black barbershop

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PostPosted: 2017-07-31 21:30:24     Post subject: Being gay in the black barbershop

2017-07-30 12:50:32

documentary

http://www.aazah.com/articles/new-documentary-shape-examines-being-gay-black-barbershop#.WX4bWdXyvre

2017-07-30 22:29:14

Most black barbershops now aren't just men in them now. The times have changed. You have men and women in them. You have men doing women hair and women doing men hair and some doing both. My barber in Memphis is a woman and she does men and women hair, but my barber in Nashville does only men hair but it is a barber shop and salon combined in one location for both cities Sexuality and sexual orientation in the black hair industry has come a long way because of gays. You got straight men who will let a gay dude do their hair before they let anyone else do it now.

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PostPosted: 2017-07-31 21:26:35     Post subject:

Yes, POINT WELL TAKEN. . .I get hair twisted at spot that has men and women barbers/beuticians . Conversation spans many subjects but guys tend to openly check each other to ensure convo does not get sexist or otherwise too vulgar. Even when there are no kids present, staff is pretty respectful, regardless as to what is being discussed. I have been at other spots though, where a lot of openly sexist comments are uttered and, occasionally, either women customers themselves or male customers like myself would say something about it.
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Forum :  Topic : Teen Vogue's How To on Anal Sex

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PostPosted: 2017-07-17 13:45:47     Post subject:

I forgot...FEMALES are even MORE pressured to be sexual-with a MALE of course; she is traditionally encouraged to NOT BE PUBLIC ABOUT IT, however. This reality goes hand-in-hand with the historic sexual objectification and general oppression of the female gender. It explains how 1/4 of ALL females at some point in their lives are sexually assaulted and at least more than 75% are at least touched inappropriately at some point in their lives. Nevertheless, more females are sexual-or NOT- because THEY make the choice and not because of pressure.
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PostPosted: 2017-07-17 13:39:26     Post subject:

I think the Teen Vogue article is indeed well written and IN NO WAY encourages teens to have any more sex, (let alone irresponsibly) than they may or may not be having. It merely takes into consideration the REALITY that many teens -heterosexual and lgbt- are sexual or at least interested in exploring sex. The article does not encourage anything that many are not already exploring-usually WITHOUT adequate info on safety and consent. Nevertheless, I DO believe, as Smileofthen indicated that more might be emphasized-in this article (though again a pretty good job is done) and in general-regarding the issue of CONSENT. Also, I think more information regarding ABSTINENCE as a healthy choice-emotionally and otherwise-should be presented as well. Traditionally, abstinence would be -and still is- "encouraged" merely to DISCOURAGE sex, forcing teens/others to be self-repressive-NOT HEALTHY. Nowadays, it is understood at least among some, including myself, that the choice of abstinence should not-and for many teens, including myself at the time, often DOES NOT-have anything to do with suppression but everything to do with a genuine desire to forego sex until a future time. Also, many teens-both past and present-often consider abstinence but at the same time are OFTEN PRESSURED by society to be sexual (males especially), as a "rite of passage from boyhood to manhood"; every male-gay or straight-knows this to be true. conservatives are right when they talk about abstinence; traditionally, they just INCORRECTLY TALK ABOUT IT. Fortunately, however, it IS a choice that more TEENS openly and comfortably make. There are even brochures regarding abstinence in nurse's office at high school at which I work. Therefore, the issue of CONSENT IS indeed important, . Nevertheless, I think the article is decent, an important opening for necessary discussion regarding sex in general and consent in particular. Thanks, Smile...for info.
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So-called Polynesians (Native Pacific-Islanders whose are descendants of peoples Native to Hawaii) in general live 2nd to 3rd class to non-Native Hawaiian U.S. Americans of ANY race, particularly whites, in terms of education, economic, and social status. Little wonder Natives make up 70% (at least) of the prison population, according to U.S. government statistics, a figure disproportionate to the population. Is it because Natives are" highly criminal", much like those Blacks and Latinos here on the mainland [Intent is sarcasm]? Maybe this reality and the resultant anti-white prejudice is a result of the 124 years of brutal occupation and annexation for which Natives have NEVER been compensated in any significant way. Any white who does not understand this, is at best naive and most likely highly arrogant. The anti-white prejudice, and resultant anti-white violence is not a solution of course-even though to be HIGHLY EXPECTED, in the absence of organized political activity, whether among Hawaiian Natives or among whites. Natives observe whites naively and/or arrogantly "touring" their islands in the midst of their despair. ANGER IS TO BE EXPECTED. The JUSTIFIED anger must be directed toward the system, including street actions nation-wide, calling for boycotts of tourism and any other action that Hawaiians think necessary to press the system to let THEM decide on the status of what used to be THEIR COUNTRY. The U.S government is to blame, not any particular person(s), just because s(he/they) happen to be white. being white, by itself, does not make one anti-Hawaiian Native/people of color or pro-imperialist. Being white DOES make one POTENTIALLY racist and imperialist. "Whiteness" places one in a position of greater privilege and THEREFORE in a position of responsibility to STAND AGAINST THESE THINGS. Hopefully more whites and others will speak out against this history of U.S. exploitation on the island and for the right of Hawaiians -LIKE PUERTO RICANS- to decide for themselves IN A REAL REFERENDUM the status of their island(s) and be compensated appropriately.
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PostPosted: 2017-07-14 00:21:14     Post subject:

Lol...you will be fine. HOWEVER, DO be sure to eat lots of vegetables and fruits-more than 60% of meal. There are many meat eaters who are far healthier than vegetarians or vegans, because unlike many non-meat/animal product consumers, some meat-eaters eat A LOT of veges. Veges and fruits IN LARGE QUANTITIES (including in the form of raw/fresh fruit and vegetable juices) ensure MORE THAN ADEQUATE calcium-magnesium intake and B-vitamin and iron intake. Been vegan since I was 17. Still run 3 miles in 17 minutes or less (fastest was 15 min 7 seconds a few years ago), bike regularly, and do anywhere between 100 to 500 pushups daily.
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Forum :  Topic : Homosexuality in some ancient societies . . .

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PostPosted: 2017-05-27 12:30:40     Post subject: Homosexuality in some ancient societies . . .

[taken from The Survival of Homosexual Traditions in Ancient Cultures, by James Neil]
In the aftermath of the Spanish conquest, the Meso-American civilizations were completely destroyed. Remarkably, though, despite centuries of church and government hostility to homosexuality, vestiges of the sexual customs of the Mayans and Aztecs seem to have survived among the peoples of southern Mexico and Central America. In modern times Mayans continue to live in the rain forests of Yucatan and Guatemala that have overgrown the ancient Mayan cities and temples. The sexual tradition of a culture radically different from that of modern Western Europe is evident in some of the ruins, where the Mayan fascination with the penis is displayed in huge stone phallic symbols that occupy prominent positions in the ceremonial grounds. Likewise, the same casual acceptance of homosexuality that so appalled the Spanish authorities persists among the Mayan villagers. Homosexuality is very open and common, particularly among males between the early teens and the mid-twenties. After that point, the young men are expected to marry and settle down, but homosexual behavior often continues nonetheless. In fact, marriage to a woman does not seem to have much effect on the occurrence and amount of homosexual behavior.

While Mayan society allows males seemingly unrestricted freedom to pursue sexual relations with other males, general norms do exist which regulate the roles they may play within those relationships. A Mayan male will be seen either as hombre, one who plays the active masculine role in sex, or as mayate, one taking the passive role with another male. Surprisingly, an individual might take either role in sex, depending on the particular relationship established with the other partner. Some males, called internationales, take both roles sexually, but most males identify with one role or the other. Generally the one who is perceived as more masculine will take the active role with his partner. The passive males usually effect an androgynous appearance, not particularly feminine, but not macho either, and are completely accepted by macho men, who show no reluctance to be seen flirting with them. The masculine hombres do not see themselves as homosexual, and as long as they display a macho demeanor and express at least the desire to get married to a woman at some time in the future, they are free to pursue their sexual interest in other males. While the homosexuality that is such a part of the adolescence and young adulthood of modern day Mayans is not institutionalized as it was when the Spanish arrived, it nonetheless demonstrates a remarkable continuity of the social attitudes and customs of a people concerning sexuality.

The relaxed attitude toward homosexuality shown by the Mayans is shared by many other native peoples in Central America. According to anthropologists the friendships among bachelors in Southern Mexico and among Guatemalan Indians usually contain a strong homosexual component. Among the Zapotec Indians of southern Mexico homosexual behavior is common among males of all ages. Boys typically begin having sex with other males during puberty and will continue having sex with other young men through their twenties. By the time they are thirty most males marry and have children, but as with the Mayans, homosexual relations can continue even after marriage. In fact, it is not uncommon for a Zapotec man to leave a marriage after his children are grown and move in with a male lover.
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PostPosted: 2017-05-27 11:42:12     Post subject: Eunuchs: Islams Hypocritical Homophobia

INTERESTING, INDEED. Suffice it to say that homosexuality across various groups of people was prevalent, existing in fact for at least thousands of years as part of human culture.
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Forum : General Discussions Topic : Biopic Jada and 2Pac scene

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PostPosted: 2017-05-11 23:00:09     Post subject: Biopic Jada and 2Pac scene

Enjoyed both Tupac's music and his movies.
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Indeed, in Christ, we all have equal standing-anti-sexism, anti-racism, etc.. Thanks for this post.
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Forum :  Topic : What's the best way to get over a breakup?

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PostPosted: 2017-04-23 22:59:25     Post subject: What's the best way to get over a breakup?

2017-04-21 13:41:15

Does having sex with other people right after actually help?

2017-04-21 13:51:05

don\'t do that ...

it will only make you depressed and make you want the dude you are broken up with even more

believe me..I tried that shit

would literally leave the hookup go back home and lay in the dark


don\'t play with your own feelings like that


just go ahead a feel the hurt of the break up for what it is

its supposed to be UNCOMFORTABLE ..esp if you really cared for someone ๐Ÿ’ก

only fuck because you are horny not hurt ๐Ÿ’ก

EXCELLENT ADVICE. Sex to "overcome " hurt not only does not work but is neither fair to yourself nor the person with whom you are having sex.
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Forum :  Topic : WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND A MASC BOTTOM?????

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PostPosted: 2017-04-19 21:51:50     Post subject:

At least 50% of bottoms I met in recent years and the MAJORITY of bottoms with whom I've had sex, in recent years, have been masculine.
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Forum :  Topic : What is your opinion on Trumps Presidency so far?

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PostPosted: 2017-04-14 23:42:50     Post subject: What is your opinion on Trumps Presidency so far?

2017-03-15 19:01:21

He's doing exactly what he's supposed to do.

represent to the best of his ability the interests of the CLASS that he, LIKE PRESIDENTS BEFORE HIM, was selected to represent.
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Forum :  Topic : Who in here is Vegan or Vegetarian?

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PostPosted: 2017-04-12 11:02:20     Post subject: Who in here is Vegan or Vegetarian?

Been vegan, since I was seventeen. Started cutting down on animal flesh (beef, lamb, chicken, fish, etc) when I was 15; Popeye's and pizza were hardest to give up-lol. While doing so, started eating more vegetables raw and steamed, using herbs like alfalfa and dandelion, and eating varied fruits daily, particularly citrus. The day I stopped altogether happened to be "Thanksgiving Day"; three days later, I give up dairy, eggs-and pizza, lol. Skin problems disappeared, energy increased immensely, developing dental issues disappeared.
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Forum :  Topic : htf are STDs/STVs still being spreaded like a wildfire??

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PostPosted: 2017-04-06 21:54:24     Post subject: htf are STDs/STVs still being spreaded like a wildfire??

Thanks, Neon, for that thread. Like RAW SEX, STDs are on the RISE; and HIV has not disappeared.
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