And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
That's what I have been doing so far but me and DJ are close because he grew up with my cousins and he calls me his lil bro.
He is so sweet to me. He brings me something for every holiday, when Tony fucks over me he is always there to console me.
Everyone loves DJ, I love DJ and Tony just runs over him.
DJ is not homophobic like Tony but he do have a lot of bitches, but one night me and the nigga almost got it popping that's another story. But long short everyone here thinks I would have a better possibility with a relationship with DJ because he has no family.
Yeah dj would have been your best option. Now that they are best friends...he is out Of the picture for that... .issing with dj will be on your track record for every with them. Unless tony approves it because it may cause problems between them two.. You never know
Exactly, that's what I was telling everyone, but if you say we not gonna get married or be together forever no way it doesn't really matter.
Only reason I wouldn't do it is because he already treat DJ like shit and he doesn't have anybody else really but some distant relatives. And I don't want Tony to make him feel bad for the next 20 years because he's definitely the type to twist the same screw over and over.
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
That's what I have been doing so far but me and DJ are close because he grew up with my cousins and he calls me his lil bro.
He is so sweet to me. He brings me something for every holiday, when Tony fucks over me he is always there to console me.
Everyone loves DJ, I love DJ and Tony just runs over him.
DJ is not homophobic like Tony but he do have a lot of bitches, but one night me and the nigga almost got it popping that's another story. But long short everyone here thinks I would have a better possibility with a relationship with DJ because he has no family.
Yeah dj would have been your best option. Now that they are best friends...he is out Of the picture for that... .issing with dj will be on your track record for every with them. Unless tony approves it because it may cause problems between them two.. You never know
Exactly, that's what I was telling everyone, but if you say we not gonna get married or be together forever no way it doesn't really matter.
Only reason I wouldn't do it is because he already treat DJ like shit and he doesn't have anybody else really but some distant relatives. And I don't want Tony to make him feel bad for the next 20 years because he's definitely the type to twist the same screw over and over.
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
That's what I have been doing so far but me and DJ are close because he grew up with my cousins and he calls me his lil bro.
He is so sweet to me. He brings me something for every holiday, when Tony fucks over me he is always there to console me.
Everyone loves DJ, I love DJ and Tony just runs over him.
DJ is not homophobic like Tony but he do have a lot of bitches, but one night me and the nigga almost got it popping that's another story. But long short everyone here thinks I would have a better possibility with a relationship with DJ because he has no family.
Yeah dj would have been your best option. Now that they are best friends...he is out Of the picture for that... .issing with dj will be on your track record for every with them. Unless tony approves it because it may cause problems between them two.. You never know
Exactly, that's what I was telling everyone, but if you say we not gonna get married or be together forever no way it doesn't really matter.
Only reason I wouldn't do it is because he already treat DJ like shit and he doesn't have anybody else really but some distant relatives. And I don't want Tony to make him feel bad for the next 20 years because he's definitely the type to twist the same screw over and over.
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
That's what I have been doing so far but me and DJ are close because he grew up with my cousins and he calls me his lil bro.
He is so sweet to me. He brings me something for every holiday, when Tony fucks over me he is always there to console me.
Everyone loves DJ, I love DJ and Tony just runs over him.
DJ is not homophobic like Tony but he do have a lot of bitches, but one night me and the nigga almost got it popping that's another story. But long short everyone here thinks I would have a better possibility with a relationship with DJ because he has no family.
Yeah dj would have been your best option. Now that they are best friends...he is out Of the picture for that... .issing with dj will be on your track record for every with them. Unless tony approves it because it may cause problems between them two.. You never know
Exactly, that's what I was telling everyone, but if you say we not gonna get married or be together forever no way it doesn't really matter.
Only reason I wouldn't do it is because he already treat DJ like shit and he doesn't have anybody else really but some distant relatives. And I don't want Tony to make him feel bad for the next 20 years because he's definitely the type to twist the same screw over and over.
They are still friends no matter how he treats him...
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
That's what I have been doing so far but me and DJ are close because he grew up with my cousins and he calls me his lil bro.
He is so sweet to me. He brings me something for every holiday, when Tony fucks over me he is always there to console me.
Everyone loves DJ, I love DJ and Tony just runs over him.
DJ is not homophobic like Tony but he do have a lot of bitches, but one night me and the nigga almost got it popping that's another story. But long short everyone here thinks I would have a better possibility with a relationship with DJ because he has no family.
Yeah dj would have been your best option. Now that they are best friends...he is out Of the picture for that... .issing with dj will be on your track record for every with them. Unless tony approves it because it may cause problems between them two.. You never know
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
That's what I have been doing so far but me and DJ are close because he grew up with my cousins and he calls me his lil bro.
He is so sweet to me. He brings me something for every holiday, when Tony fucks over me he is always there to console me.
Everyone loves DJ, I love DJ and Tony just runs over him.
DJ is not homophobic like Tony but he do have a lot of bitches, but one night me and the nigga almost got it popping that's another story. But long short everyone here thinks I would have a better possibility with a relationship with DJ because he has no family.
Yeah dj would have been your best option. Now that they are best friends...he is out Of the picture for that... .issing with dj will be on your track record for every with them. Unless tony approves it because it may cause problems between them two.. You never know
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
DJ is his best friend, but DJ grew up with my cousins.
DJ is the only person who actually knows about us.
I can't take you back through all of this I thought you knew what was going on?
Oh... That makes it worse for Tony by it being his best friend... But don't hold anything against him. that's Tony best friend. If y'all don't have no beef just play it cool.. Be cordial..
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Thummper I don't like him... I never look into him and don't until the bitch said I came from nothing. I read through that!tch and his false Engagement. He is so imaturetalkkng about he not knocking on 40s door because he just made 36. He so call himself a young 36.. I don't care if he made 36 this morning.... He still knocking on 40s door... You round to the nearest tenth. And that's 40
We'll we coming to a conclusion... Everything else is water under the bridge.. I'm trying to give him pointers and help him out.. Do he can feel free to talk to me for advice. I don't mind..
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Thummper I don't like him... I never look into him and don't until the bitch said I came from nothing. I read through that!tch and his false Engagement. He is so imaturetalkkng about he not knocking on 40s door because he just made 36. He so call himself a young 36.. I don't care if he made 36 this morning.... He still knocking on 40s door... You round to the nearest tenth. And that's 40
Why are yāall even fighting though?
Who started it?
We'll we coming to a conclusion... Everything else is water under the bridge.. I'm trying to give him pointers and help him out.. Do he can feel free to talk to me for advice. I don't mind..
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
I'm actually as close to perfect as he's gonna get.
What kind of person is going to hold you down, keep all your secrets, cater to you, sit on the side and put up with childish shit and get nothing they want in return.
I could have exposed his ass years ago.
I'm really worthy and deserving of a great man.
And as far as the wild side goes I'm his ride or die.
I do shit with his ass I would never do with anybody else.
Even DJ say I'm different around him, he say that nigga got you wilding lil bro, you know you ain't about that life.
What you think Pops would say???
I understand that but your pouring your love out to him.. He has not done the same for you. From the way things look he won't. Now you saying you could have exposed him....that tells me he will never go all the way with you...no matter how hard you try.. He likes you being submissive to him and that's it. M.sure he has other freaks to get off with
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
You might be right, if you would have said it like this in the beginning we could have saved all the drama.
You didn't want to understand me.
I think the overt closetness is a result of him being bunked with men all those years and he just desires a different form of affection or interaction with men that he can't come to terms with.
I think he really wants a soldier too but chooses me because I'm a little feminine and familiar to him so it makes it ok than just saying I'm laid up with a big ass manly nigga just like me.
In which case he's so homophobic outside of sex with me that he would still be in the closet.
I have ran my thought train down the tracks a million times trying to see what it is.
But I know the truth, that's why he always get horny after watching basketball.and this nigga love Iyanla Vanzant he thinks she the realest bitch alive next to his mama on nation ju, lol. He wants to fix his life but he doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
I understood from the beginning I saw right through you. Ou sounding like a battered woman making excuses for her man. I'm from New Orleans I know everything. You ran around her with @lose-ya-breath trying to insult me. I said I was get at you at the right time. Stab you right in yo damn chest. I know getting at don't on you will get your attention. I'm the most honest person you can get advise from as a gay man. You was running with the wrong team. Gave me husband advice about his family... The best thing to do is move away to find yourself. He said he wanted to move here. I said fine here's my number.. Hit me when you come. I told him about the stressful home buying process. He broke down on the forum. He want to start going to gay events. I told him. Did. At his age don't do much of it. I go to concerts festivals and plays... I don't mind going to hang out with him. Because we are like 12 years apart.
One thing I don't like about Gay people like you ya try to seem clean and perfect. Y'all say still like oh I ain't no hoe I been with one person. What fail they fail to realize that they gave it up to some that been with a 1000. And sitting in their closet with the rest. A man don't care of you was a virgin or not when you got with them. He still gonna do what he want to do. He is polygamous. If it monogamous. He don't care if you was a home in the past long as you don't do it with him. He don't care about your past he cares about person in front of him and what he does now. It ain't about where you come from its about where you going
You are vulnerable to being used and abused and you need to stop it. Tony already know already know you are vulnerable. That's why he doing what he can.
Another thing is you went about marriage the wrong way. You said you told tony you wanna be married by 40. If he did married you by then he won't be doing it for love. He doing it to keep you satisfied. He has to pop the question like my exes Tim, Rodney and Andrew did if he serious not you. The ex has to work, earn and prove his love. You will see it through his actions. If he throwing mix signals then it's not real. You giving him privileges as if y'all just met. You don't do
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
I hear you, I've heard it all before. I watch Dr. Phil and I'm aware of the Dynamics of the situation that we are in.
My question is if a man didn't love someone or want to be with him why everytime I walk away he does everything to get me back?
The things he says and does is not that of a person who is wasting time to me.
In my mind he knows I'm a great guy and he doesn't want to lose me but between PTSD which he definitely does have mixed with self hate he doesn't have the capacity to truly love anyone else.
I know he's just a scared little boy who does everything just to please his parents.
he is a grown man under his parents wing. He will not coke out if it unless they are dead. If he trying to please them he will continue. You say he got ptsd.. I was gonna mention that Jn one of my posting cussing you out and about his being shell shock but I said no don't go there that's too deep. But anyway he lives for his parents comfort. Got married and had a child. You around her making fun of the woman when his parents accept her and their grand child and not you. He want you in his closet and that's it. No he not going to tell his people and you and him.. He got you caught up like a side piece.
You need to learn how to man up. You can't be a b!tch to a man with mental problems and have problems accepting his sexuality. It's not going to work. His wife couldn't deal with the Ptsd... That's why she told all they business. Don't laugh at her when you dealing with something worse. Posted and him not being accepting his sexuality. She not a taboo to his parents, You are.
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
But I don't get drunk so....and my best friend gave up on me.
He said he will never give me advice about men again.
Even my family won't say anything about my relationships.
They know I love hard and strong.
I'm a Cancer I'll give my last in love until I'm done, then he will see a fury that hell can't contain. And a coldness that Superman can't penetrate.
Don't think I'm just this naive little puppy dog who can't do anything for themself.
I'm always the leader even when people think I'm not leading.
you giving him to much control and power to be from the past. You don't love until he put a ring on it. There's nothing wrong with loving hard but don't love hard when he have made a proposal you looking for. What's love got to do with it? That's where you messed up putting love first. It don't work with the past you don't go into a relationship loving had. It takes two not one.. If y'all be partners be that and make goals for the relationship and. Work towards them. It the guy don't it then slowly move on. Remember it takes two not one. Tony knows what type of person you are. He ain't blind. He just not feeling it like you. Stop waiting for him to may up his mind. That's where you fall short. He got you tagging alone because you so full of yourself. Stop trying to make yourself seem exclusive because your not. Stop trying to make your self look perfect. No is perfect and no one want some that is. HAppiness doesn't equal to perfection.
.if you didn't sleep around fine... Some people do. Tony is not looking for what you make yourself out to be. He likes someone on the wild side too. You trying to be wifey and he just wasting you time. That's why he do what he do. He will not marry you so you can get that out your head.
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
We had started working through his issues, then he showed up at a big party I was hosting and got drunk and started calling me out my name in front of a group of people.
I broke up with him and then that's when she came in the picture.
But he was still going back and forth between us.
It's just been a big mess and I don't know how to get out.
Part of me wants to believe him and stay by his side but then a bigger part of me knows its wrong how he treats me.
And I can have somebody else but I took an L for him.
I gave up who I was a long time ago to be with him, and this is what he always wanted. To have control over me, every since high school and I let him win.
I don't even know who I am anymore, and I came here for help and all I got was negativity. We do not support our own kind.
Ok I\'m not feeling sorry for you because you try to come me. I\'m trying hate you and divine you pointless at the same time... You never give somebody from the past take power over you. If so there would no compromising everything should go your way. No waiting on him... You letting him have the power. All that is for a new man not a ex. You make the new man feel like he is on TOP of the world. You compromise with the new guy. Give him the priveledges not Tony. He had his turn.. Stop making excuses for him...it making you look weak. You need some real friends. If I had a friend. Messing with Tony. I would have told Tony ass off when he showed his ass drunk at an event. No, my friend not leaving with you, he not phuckkng with you nomore. He is moving on.. Now we leaving going have a boys slumber party. We gonna drank Smoke weed watch movies , listen to music, play cards, a bar b Que on the grill after midnight . We gonna lay out a plan for our friend laughing dancing and talking.. Like the women in waiting to exhale
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
Everyone already knows that he is not comfortable with his sexuality milk bone.
Well that should tell you he will not marry you.. How could you been in love? That's kike saying a man in the kk wants to marry him...it won't happen. You dumb hoe
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
I'm aging very well, skin and eyes glowing, lashes popping body tight.
Never been ran through or been a hoe, hoes don't hold out for one man.
But hey, I'll drink to love!
Bitch they said the man is a shame of being gay... He will not marry you slow ass how!!! He is not comfortable with his sexuality you guilty appease lost hope...
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
Lmao.
You are right. We are all focusing on the wrong thing.
Who gives a sh*t about this fabrication called ātonyā?
It is obvious that this queen has not aged like a fine wine but has deteriorated into a desperate and lonely sack of c*m that will rot with bacteria before she ever gets a ring from the man thatās been using her like a dirty sock for years.
BUT...
Everyone relax...
Sheās cute because after sheās been violated by the town homies she knows how to make a great ham hock - chicken Alfredo...
Not good enough to get a ring... but just mediocre enough to get railed again.
Hereās to TRUE LOVE.
Thummper I don't like him... I never look into him and don't until the bitch said I came from nothing. I read through that!tch and his false Engagement. He is so imaturetalkkng about he not knocking on 40s door because he just made 36. He so call himself a young 36.. I don't care if he made 36 this morning.... He still knocking on 40s door... You round to the nearest tenth. And that's 40
And who the hell let their daddy tell them who and not to marry. Tony donāt need his daddy permission he a grown as man. The only way o can see him not doing it is because he leaves with them and donāt have a place of his own or his parents financially supporting him. If itās none of that you a stupid ho to fall for that.
From what he's told us, Tony is ashamed of being gay. I would never willingly be someone's guilty pleasure. But it's his life, and he can do as he pleases.
Plus, it's probably slim pickings for a handsome vers top in Mississippi who's about something, so it's probably best he sticks with who he knows.
IJS {@_@}
If he ashame of being gay then it wonāt happen thats why he made that dumb stupid ass excuse and he fell for it like a idiot.
I gotta get me a deep freezer I got two side by side refrigerators one in the kitchen and the other in the garage...I need a small deep freezer to put more meat in it. I catchās sales so I can stock my freezers.
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I gotta get me a deep freezer I got two side by side refrigerators one in the kitchen and the other in the garage...I need a small deep freezer to put more meat in it. I catchās sales so I can stock my freezers.
That reatrd talking about me. But dragged that how.. He got a grown as man who daddy telling him not to marry him. Don t want him to marry him. He mad because I don't have that problem.. He seen the receipts where a man want to marry me. I say yes or no. In that case don't told his ass no.. So therefore don't has the power over that slow b!tch praying and waiting. I told her she osafaithfully lost hope. The caim22 years of them being together and things are better than ever, turn around and said he was absent lost contact for14 years. Then the bitch did about face and said they just rekindle in the mall last year... That's a faithly lost hope as bitch
Because Im single and I can.... odontological have nothing against them ... that time has past. They getting older just realizing I was good to them..they may want to fix things to move on in life... they care. I got one thatās online using different user names ...when he reveals him itās him Rodney.... but Iām thinking thatās the dude that sent mye that sweet messsage online the other day... he say I know him and he scared to reveal himself I think thatās him because he comes off and a sweet gentleman. Thatās how he get you thatās how he got me
it will
Never happen.. Iām too happy to be desperate. Thatās when you love yourself.. itās called self love when you made yourself happy no one can compare.... when you depend on someone to make you happy then that when you give in to stuff like that but not Torch. I was that way in my twenties..
Rodney knows it wonāt happen.. he came to my apartment one time 7 years ago... he apologize as usual. He apologize many times.. we talked about what Iām now 7 years ago. He wanted to do it with me together and get a house together. He wanted to help with closing and everything. I said no... not him. Thatās what your simple minded friend @chefhubz fail to realize I said yes or no. I waits for no one.
Yes he slept at my apartment in the same bed with me he tried it and I said good night see you in the morning.
Let me tell you something. When you met on a fuck you will lose them to a fuck. ... I dated everyboy friend I had.. I met none of them on a fuck. I donāt have to do that if I donāt want to. I still go out on dates.. the same way you got him the same way you lose them.
Rodney had me in his arms and knows that when I met him. I was New to Atlanta. From Katrina i had a new car and a trunk full or clothes and shoes when I came to Atlanta. I was dating him. We didnāt meat on a fuck we dated.
It's called miscellaneous sex. I know everybody in denial when it comes to it. But sometimes we just wanna fuck. And you got men in reserve for them just wanna fuck days.
Iām watching how Stella got her groove back she 40... you making me I feel like Stella ... I should go to Jamaica and fined me a Winston ššš
Why does it's feel good for a minor to flirt with you and 20 niggas wanna marry you?
Seems odd to me???
B!tch everything seems odd to you hoe since you waiting on a grown ass man who daddy wonāt allow him to marry a man. You donāt think thatās some odd sh!t, b!tch?
Aināt nothing wrong with a 19 year old flirting with me. Like they said when I post my selfie... Iām working 41. Bitch get like me hoe because you older than me at 36 imagine 41 for you hoe!
That reatrd talking about me. But dragged that how.. He got a grown as man who daddy telling him not to marry him. Don t want him to marry him. He mad because I don't have that problem.. He seen the receipts where a man want to marry me. I say yes or no. In that case don't told his ass no.. So therefore don't has the power over that slow b!tch praying and waiting. I told her she osafaithfully lost hope. The caim22 years of them being together and things are better than ever, turn around and said he was absent lost contact for14 years. Then the bitch did about face and said they just rekindle in the mall last year... That's a faithly lost hope as bitch
Because Im single and I can.... odontological have nothing against them ... that time has past. They getting older just realizing I was good to them..they may want to fix things to move on in life... they care. I got one thatās online using different user names ...when he reveals him itās him Rodney.... but Iām thinking thatās the dude that sent mye that sweet messsage online the other day... he say I know him and he scared to reveal himself I think thatās him because he comes off and a sweet gentleman. Thatās how he get you thatās how he got me
it will
Never happen.. Iām too happy to be desperate. Thatās when you love yourself.. itās called self love when you made yourself happy no one can compare.... when you depend on someone to make you happy then that when you give in to stuff like that but not Torch. I was that way in my twenties..
Rodney knows it wonāt happen.. he came to my apartment one time 7 years ago... he apologize as usual. He apologize many times.. we talked about what Iām now 7 years ago. He wanted to do it with me together and get a house together. He wanted to help with closing and everything. I said no... not him. Thatās what your simple minded friend @chefhubz fail to realize I said yes or no. I waits for no one.
Yes he slept at my apartment in the same bed with me he tried it and I said good night see you in the morning.
Let me tell you something. When you met on a fuck you will lose them to a fuck. ... I dated everyboy friend I had.. I met none of them on a fuck. I donāt have to do that if I donāt want to. I still go out on dates.. the same way you got him the same way you lose them.
Rodney had me in his arms and knows that when I met him. I was New to Atlanta. From Katrina i had a new car and a trunk full or clothes and shoes when I came to Atlanta. I was dating him. We didnāt meat on a fuck we dated.
It's called miscellaneous sex. I know everybody in denial when it comes to it. But sometimes we just wanna fuck. And you got men in reserve for them just wanna fuck days.
Iām watching how Stella got her groove back she 40... you making me I feel like Stella ... I should go to Jamaica and fined me a Winston ššš
The organizer of last yearās deadly white-supremacist rally in Charlottesville holds an anniversary gathering with up to 400 supporters in Lafayette Square across from the White House tomorrow.
The protest rally at Freedom Plaza is scheduled to begin at noon and will include speakers and music. Organizers said that at approximately 3:30 p.m., participants will begin marching to Lafayette Square to voice their opposition to the white nationalists and white supremacists who are meeting there.
That reatrd talking about me. But dragged that how.. He got a grown as man who daddy telling him not to marry him. Don t want him to marry him. He mad because I don't have that problem.. He seen the receipts where a man want to marry me. I say yes or no. In that case don't told his ass no.. So therefore don't has the power over that slow b!tch praying and waiting. I told her she osafaithfully lost hope. The caim22 years of them being together and things are better than ever, turn around and said he was absent lost contact for14 years. Then the bitch did about face and said they just rekindle in the mall last year... That's a faithly lost hope as bitch
Because Im single and I can.... odontological have nothing against them ... that time has past. They getting older just realizing I was good to them..they may want to fix things to move on in life... they care. I got one thatās online using different user names ...when he reveals him itās him Rodney.... but Iām thinking thatās the dude that sent mye that sweet messsage online the other day... he say I know him and he scared to reveal himself I think thatās him because he comes off and a sweet gentleman. Thatās how he get you thatās how he got me
it will
Never happen.. Iām too happy to be desperate. Thatās when you love yourself.. itās called self love when you made yourself happy no one can compare.... when you depend on someone to make you happy then that when you give in to stuff like that but not Torch. I was that way in my twenties..
Rodney knows it wonāt happen.. he came to my apartment one time 7 years ago... he apologize as usual. He apologize many times.. we talked about what Iām now 7 years ago. He wanted to do it with me together and get a house together. He wanted to help with closing and everything. I said no... not him. Thatās what your simple minded friend @chefhubz fail to realize I said yes or no. I waits for no one.
Yes he slept at my apartment in the same bed with me he tried it and I said good night see you in the morning.
Let me tell you something. When you met on a fuck you will lose them to a fuck. ... I dated everyboy friend I had.. I met none of them on a fuck. I donāt have to do that if I donāt want to. I still go out on dates.. the same way you got him the same way you lose them.
Rodney had me in his arms and knows that when I met him. I was New to Atlanta. From Katrina i had a new car and a trunk full or clothes and shoes when I came to Atlanta. I was dating him. We didnāt meat on a fuck we dated.
It's called miscellaneous sex. I know everybody in denial when it comes to it. But sometimes we just wanna fuck. And you got men in reserve for them just wanna fuck days.
Iām watching how Stella got her groove back she 40... you making me I feel like Stella ... I should go to Jamaica and fined me a Winston ššš
That reatrd talking about me. But dragged that how.. He got a grown as man who daddy telling him not to marry him. Don t want him to marry him. He mad because I don't have that problem.. He seen the receipts where a man want to marry me. I say yes or no. In that case don't told his ass no.. So therefore don't has the power over that slow b!tch praying and waiting. I told her she osafaithfully lost hope. The caim22 years of them being together and things are better than ever, turn around and said he was absent lost contact for14 years. Then the bitch did about face and said they just rekindle in the mall last year... That's a faithly lost hope as bitch
Because Im single and I can.... odontological have nothing against them ... that time has past. They getting older just realizing I was good to them..they may want to fix things to move on in life... they care. I got one thatās online using different user names ...when he reveals him itās him Rodney.... but Iām thinking thatās the dude that sent mye that sweet messsage online the other day... he say I know him and he scared to reveal himself I think thatās him because he comes off and a sweet gentleman. Thatās how he get you thatās how he got me
it will
Never happen.. Iām too happy to be desperate. Thatās when you love yourself.. itās called self love when you made yourself happy no one can compare.... when you depend on someone to make you happy then that when you give in to stuff like that but not Torch. I was that way in my twenties..
Rodney knows it wonāt happen.. he came to my apartment one time 7 years ago... he apologize as usual. He apologize many times.. we talked about what Iām now 7 years ago. He wanted to do it with me together and get a house together. He wanted to help with closing and everything. I said no... not him. Thatās what your simple minded friend @chefhubz fail to realize I said yes or no. I waits for no one.
Yes he slept at my apartment in the same bed with me he tried it and I said good night see you in the morning.
Let me tell you something. When you met on a fuck you will lose them to a fuck. ... I dated everyboy friend I had.. I met none of them on a fuck. I donāt have to do that if I donāt want to. I still go out on dates.. the same way you got him the same way you lose them.
Rodney had me in his arms and knows that when I met him. I was New to Atlanta. From Katrina i had a new car and a trunk full or clothes and shoes when I came to Atlanta. I was dating him. We didnāt meat on a fuck we dated.
It's called miscellaneous sex. I know everybody in denial when it comes to it. But sometimes we just wanna fuck. And you got men in reserve for them just wanna fuck days.
Well don't beat yourself up if it happens. Just remember to call it what it was.....a much needed fuck and send they ass back to forbidden land.
Iām watching how Stella got her groove back she 40... you making me I feel like Stella ... I should go to Jamaica and fined me a Winston ššš
That reatrd talking about me. But dragged that how.. He got a grown as man who daddy telling him not to marry him. Don t want him to marry him. He mad because I don't have that problem.. He seen the receipts where a man want to marry me. I say yes or no. In that case don't told his ass no.. So therefore don't has the power over that slow b!tch praying and waiting. I told her she osafaithfully lost hope. The caim22 years of them being together and things are better than ever, turn around and said he was absent lost contact for14 years. Then the bitch did about face and said they just rekindle in the mall last year... That's a faithly lost hope as bitch
Because Im single and I can.... odontological have nothing against them ... that time has past. They getting older just realizing I was good to them..they may want to fix things to move on in life... they care. I got one thatās online using different user names ...when he reveals him itās him Rodney.... but Iām thinking thatās the dude that sent mye that sweet messsage online the other day... he say I know him and he scared to reveal himself I think thatās him because he comes off and a sweet gentleman. Thatās how he get you thatās how he got me
it will
Never happen.. Iām too happy to be desperate. Thatās when you love yourself.. itās called self love when you made yourself happy no one can compare.... when you depend on someone to make you happy then that when you give in to stuff like that but not Torch. I was that way in my twenties..
Rodney knows it wonāt happen.. he came to my apartment one time 7 years ago... he apologize as usual. He apologize many times.. we talked about what Iām now 7 years ago. He wanted to do it with me together and get a house together. He wanted to help with closing and everything. I said no... not him. Thatās what your simple minded friend @chefhubz fail to realize I said yes or no. I waits for no one.
Yes he slept at my apartment in the same bed with me he tried it and I said good night see you in the morning.
Let me tell you something. When you met on a fuck you will lose them to a fuck. ... I dated everyboy friend I had.. I met none of them on a fuck. I donāt have to do that if I donāt want to. I still go out on dates.. the same way you got him the same way you lose them.
Rodney had me in his arms and knows that when I met him. I was New to Atlanta. From Katrina i had a new car and a trunk full or clothes and shoes when I came to Atlanta. I was dating him. We didnāt meat on a fuck we dated.
It's called miscellaneous sex. I know everybody in denial when it comes to it. But sometimes we just wanna fuck. And you got men in reserve for them just wanna fuck days.
I understand what you are saying.. it doesnāt work like that with me... I say yes or no not them. They had their turn. They choose other wise..
The people who know the real story of me and Tony know what's up.
From our reunion, to our first time going all the way, to even the role his father has played in keeping us apart.
The infamous time he got into the fist fight with his dad,
And so on.
I'm convinced my main critic has the IQ of a piece of wood flooring.
And doesn't know the whole story at all. Just taking kibbles and bits of what he does understand. I'm still trying to figure how 2015 turned to last year and the grocery store turned to the mall???
torch
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